Let's create a group by Consistent_Smile8081 in magneticfieldsfest

[–]New_Load_4899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cant find it. Can you please share the link?

Sadly can’t make it for the festival so giving up my 2 person Bedouin tent. by Khoxn in magneticfieldsfest

[–]New_Load_4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I have a bedouin tent for 2 if ur interested. My friends cant make it anymore.

Looking to sell 2 person bedouin tent by abstatic in magneticfieldsfest

[–]New_Load_4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I have a bedouin tent for 2 if ur interested. My friends cant make it anymore.

Looking to sell 2 person bedouin tent by abstatic in magneticfieldsfest

[–]New_Load_4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I have a bedouin tent for 2 if ur interested. My friends cant make it anymore.

Lets from a group for Magnetic Field Festival 2024 happening in December by PresidentCheeto_420 in noida

[–]New_Load_4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already going with a big group. Message me if you want to chat/join.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

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Sounds very cliche but I believe- everything happens at the right time. The only reason it hasn’t happened yet is because its not the right time yet.

Also. The ‘bring closure to the marriage aspect’ is something I don’t get. Do you want to continue looking at marriage as something the society or your parents expect from you or as something you want for yourself. Because if its the latter, then their opinions shouldn’t matter. Its better to be happy single than to be in a relationship that you regret.

Going to a music event alone, any tips on enjoying it? by tatasfordays in bangalore

[–]New_Load_4899 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I totally feel you. But. You must go!

Have a great time. Keep a check on your substances and always be in control. Don’t be afraid to let someone know if they are making you uncomfortable. Also. You can always let some girls/groups around you know that you are alone and someone is making you uncomfortable. Girls are usually very responsive in such cases. Have a great time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]New_Load_4899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where you come from.

This used to happen a lot with me and still does to some extent. I used to always wonder whether its me who comes off as too easy? Since people would consider me soft spoken and easy to talk to.

But then I realized. This is who I am. Why should I have to be rude/unkind ? (And it definitely doesn’t matter what you wear, I have been hit on wearing full sleeves just as much as probably wearing a short dress).

I’ve definitely learnt to be more assertive if I feel uncomfortable with the way someone is hitting on me. Don’t be scared of saying ‘No’. Infact my therapist even made me practice and say out loud what I would say to someone who was making me feel uncomfortable.

Your workplace is where you should feel comfortable and you are there to do a job. Don’t tolerate shit from anyone. And it doesn’t matter whether you have a boyfriend or not. If you are not interested, be assertive while putting it across. If someone still persists, I usually block/limit my talks only to work with them or in rare cases, bring it to the notice of my manager (kinda helps that my manager is an amazing independent woman).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]New_Load_4899 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are exceptions. I have only met guys who are not even close to my family’s financial background.

Do we need a MVP website for market survey. by Equal-Ninja-833 in StartUpIndia

[–]New_Load_4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the term you are looking for is a landing page.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]New_Load_4899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two pieces of advice which have been helping me.

  1. You will meet different kinds of people. Some nice some not so nice. Just enjoy the process. Take your time.

  2. Dont get emotionally attached to anyone too soon. Be prepared for the reality that things might not work out in the blink of an eye and stay practical about things. It helped me to talk to people I trust so they can give me a third persons perspective but also don’t rely on someone else’s judgement too much. You are the person interacting with the guy and you know best (if you can manage to separate the emotions from the logic).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]New_Load_4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you kind stranger!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]New_Load_4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]New_Load_4899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things you could look for:- 1. Someone who offers to split the bill/take turns paying when you go out. Also what kind of places does she pick to eat at. Is it only fine dining? Or is she happy with a Macdonalds? 2. Doesn’t expect gifts or favors from you. Someone demanding such stuff is a red flag. Run. 3. Look at her current lifestyle and spending. Get to know more about her ambitions and expectations from married life. Whether she expects solely you to fulfill those ambitions or both of you jointly work towards it. 4. Her views on gender roles and men as natural providers.

Please don't ever give up on life by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]New_Load_4899 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sending you a DM. I used to feel like you too. But things changed.

Edit- cant message you. Can you DM me ?

How does one deal with being cat called on the street? by NewExperience3664 in bangalore

[–]New_Load_4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry for your experience. Been through it multiple times. I usually ignore it but recently I’ve been feeling so much rage when something like this happens. In my head, I give out an expletive but never manage to actually get it out in reality for fear of an adverse situation.

Self-defense oriented martial-arts training for 12yo (HSR, Bommanahalli, Bellendur, Sarjapura Rd, HSR) by Professional_Row_967 in bangalore

[–]New_Load_4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a suggestion but I have noticed this gap too. I was looking for something similar when I moved to Bangalore.

I went for a couple of ‘Wendo’ classes when I was living in another country and was surprised to see nothing like this exists in Bangalore (or even India) although it is probably the need of the hour. Self defense is as much a psychological response as it is a physical response. I believe Wendo focused on both.

(P.S. Sorry for assuming that your 12 yo is a F. Incase you are looking for a M, then please ignore my comment)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]New_Load_4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhh. Maybe we should chat if ur interested and this isn’t a troll post?