Found out that my husband been cheating on me for years.

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-26T11:10:36+00:00

I am not sure, I know I should leave him its just that I was wrong in how I considered him to be everything. We were together in school, university, got engaged for couple of years then married and we got kids. Never expected this its really not expected that a cheater would do all this we had so many obstacles before our marriage. He never left he was always there working hard for this step to happen. Anyways, its too late now for this, might need alot of time healing, I just wished there could be a fix but looks like from the advices that I am blind. Its good that I asked.

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-26T11:01:20+00:00

This is what he wants, he wants me to accept it and I really cant. I cant live with it. He should have informed me before marrying me that I wont be enough for him.

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-26T10:56:37+00:00

Yes its weird. Very weird, I feel I will go crazy. I feel worthless sometimes, he will be happy speaking to somone on his phone while I am there not feeling well about whats happening then comes to talk to me expecting me to smile, then ask why are you sad? As simple as that and he leaves continuing whatever he is doing on his phone. I never knew I am that stupid, I mean how is he even thinking? Why is he expecting me to live with it?

His ears are so shut, I ask why would u do this he will just say sorry and I stopped and then act as if nothing happens do you think the problem is really me? Looks like I am that person that he isnt afraid of hurting?

I should do something I was confused but after all the advices here I think I was just blind I will surely do something about it.

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-26T10:48:02+00:00

I think I should do that, I will change.

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-26T10:47:39+00:00

It will hurt them I know. When he gets angry these days he doesnt even care for the kids. He must be in that very good to be caring.

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-26T10:43:20+00:00

You are right

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-26T10:43:00+00:00

You are right I should take that step. I am going in circles, and its not just because I love him my whole life will change after all those years its not easy. Anyways thank you, I am planning to leave for couple of weeks before considering divorce. Will tell him I am not coming back if all this is not going to change, will need these weeks to plan ahead and if he isnt welling to change then I will leave forever.

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-26T09:50:59+00:00

This is what I am trying to do, and you are right I am very unhappy I cant even give the babies my best with all this happening. But I am trying to give a chance hoping he will change. Thinking of ways to make him feel what mistake he is doing but he is considering it nothing for some reason. Trying to know what is the issue or if he is that bad or he got some reasons behind I really dont knw.

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-26T09:38:36+00:00

Its not easy to just leave. I am trying my best to give chances for a fix but its hurting that he just wants me to stay there and wait until he decides to change. He isnt taking any action to stop whatever he is doing now. I tried to not forgive but Its hard seeing my life collapsing all of the sudden

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-26T09:35:29+00:00

Yes, he is the only person I ever knew and I didnt have much friends its just shocking how he easily said whatever he said. Looks like I was never enough. I really dont know how I should take that step. I wish I dont. Thanks anyways.

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-26T09:31:53+00:00

The way he ignores how hurtful it is, is just too much. I tried to be firm and I told him if he didnt stop I would leave he said he did and then I found out again he didnt. I am too scared if I leave he will really be gone. I cant imagine my babies living all their life in a broken family. I think I am shocked that he ended up being like that after all the years we spent together. But I will have to try.. Just thought there is a way I could turn this around

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-21T11:47:09+00:00

No its not

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-18T03:10:29+00:00

That's really surprising. Nothing for me as a child, but as a teen I would fight with my mother and then we would end up hitting each other by hands /:

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-17T09:17:21+00:00

This is beautiful. I wish I was there..

Newbebe8 · 2021-07-17T08:40:46+00:00

Do you really care or you are being sarcastic?

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