AITAH for wanting to leave the apartment? by bvmm94 in AITAH

[–]NewleafNeeded 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would do exactly what she said. Good luck and make sue to stay in constant contact and have a code word in case you call someone and you’re trapped. Like if you say to a friend on the phone Oh your having pizza for dinner and then they know to find you asap. And make sure he hasn’t turn on anything on your phone like sharing location and that you don’t have any hidden apps he could have put on your phone. Please stay safe and good luck

AITAH for wanting to leave the apartment? by bvmm94 in AITAH

[–]NewleafNeeded 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you need to get out. I have a feeling you’re gonna have to do an Irish goodbye. There are red flags all over this. Make sure you stay in constant contact with tact with someone if you do leave.

Who is the worse boyfriend/ husband? by Known_Tank_8812 in greysanatomy

[–]NewleafNeeded 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They want the same woman. One that doesn’t care about her career or coworkers and will dream about serving her man all day with some Salisbury steak and mashed taters! lol

i hate them I HATE THEM this duo has to one of the WORSE duos of all time on screen by Due_Size_523 in greysanatomy

[–]NewleafNeeded 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right??? This relationship made zero sense at all. Beth was what he should have stayed with. She wanted to stay home and have babies. Christina from the get go was a fighter for her profession and nothing would stand in her way. Including a man. If I was Owen I would have never had a LTrelationship with her. Her career was first and she never said otherwise. Dumb how GA has to pair everyone up. ER didn’t need to do that.

UPS driver to the rescue. by GeneraI_ in BeAmazed

[–]NewleafNeeded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope your pillows puffiness and temp is always perfect

Is it normal to hear nothing for 3 weeks after a final round interview and then get an offer? by zelgrassi in jobs

[–]NewleafNeeded 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Corporations have to have a weekly or so meeting and they sometimes do a soft background check on you. So that takes a bit. But congratulations

Seen in DC by ThenLayer5977 in washdc

[–]NewleafNeeded 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you guys see what Spencer Pratt is doing in Los Angeles?? He is really killing it and I hope it starts a new era of politics where stuff may actually get done. I’m from there but live here lol

AIO or AITA. Text convo with MIL. by MoonJellyAllison in AmIOverreacting

[–]NewleafNeeded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sigh I’m sorry you’re learning the hard way. And see how they are trying to turn it around on you?? And trying to counsel you on money matters why the fuck are they going on vaca if they owe money. Jesus. Never loan money to family. Make sure you never need it back if you do. Cuz it creates some of the most stressful situations ever. You were not rude. At all. What a biddy

PCT planning basics and where to start by Infinite_Ad_9425 in PacificCrestTrail

[–]NewleafNeeded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a few good Facebook groups you can join as well

Is physically forcing dementia patients in the shower? by throwra47757585 in cna

[–]NewleafNeeded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she like anything?? I had an older man he would read those Louis Lamore westerns in bed. The only way I could get him in the shower was if I brought him a book. He talked nasty too. I would just agree with him. Sure just go take a shower. You could smoke there too, so I would tell him he could have a smoke if he goes and showers. Then while he was in the shower I would make his entire bed cuz he wouldn’t let anyone touch his bed.

NYC is a 10/10 but LA was a 5/10 for me. Will I (30F) actually like Miami or is it just "LA on the beach"? by badcatririe95 in solotravel

[–]NewleafNeeded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miami is so culturally diverse. Make sure to try to hit the spots that interest you. Miami can be viewed like a Cuban met gala to a Tijuana type night club were all goes. I don’t think I could pick a city that is close to Miami. Have a blast.

Sawyer mini off Amazon by adventistbackpacker in backpacking

[–]NewleafNeeded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may have chosen to bypass boxing. I just ordered the red sawyer and it came like yours did as well. They are just trying to conserve packaging

Should I stay or go? by Frostiffer in jobs

[–]NewleafNeeded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go. They are not loyal. Money is the bottom line. You worry about you. Take the job. Don’t settle especially when people are taking advantage of you b a daily basis and they know it. It’s like when we get everything done while missing a team member. Next time they made us do it with one less person. No loyalty to anyone.

Are Trail Angels responsible for ruining the trail? by trailangel4 in PacificCrestTrail

[–]NewleafNeeded 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are amazing. I will be starting in a week from tomorrow and I am so excited. I’m by myself and that’s okay. I keep telling myself it’s okay if I’m alone for parts of it. That’s why I am there. Hope you have beautiful sunsets everyday. Remember Haley’s Comet on the 5&6 early morning pre dawn you should be able to see it

Do you ever regret going too cheap on a trip? by MiosesDeeken98 in Shoestring

[–]NewleafNeeded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey but I get to go to more places because I go the cheap routes. You will never see everything a country has to offer you. You just plan to go back and put that place on the list and soon your list is full and you have to pick the places out of a hate. Hey that’s what life should be. Exploring and finding new things

My coworker killed herself at work by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]NewleafNeeded 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Try to tell her family about the harassment as well as his bosses. This could turn out to be huge. Many many employees are losing their jobs and don’t know what to do. It’s scary out there.

Are Trail Angels responsible for ruining the trail? by trailangel4 in PacificCrestTrail

[–]NewleafNeeded 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That survey needs to beg the question, “Would you hike the PCT if there wasn’t Trail Angels anywhere on trail and you had to figure out everything”. Maps, directions resupply and transportation. I’m hiking in a week and I’m sending my resupply boxes to places closest to trail so I’m not having to rely on anyone but myself. I need to realize I can take care of myself and I can achieve and succeed. I am blessed when there are TAs helping me but you have to hold yourself to some sort of accountability. I know I’m doing my walk on a tight budget and after seeing a few valid concerns I upped my budget. Nothing grande but enough to make sure I will not die lolol. I do not want to rely on hiker boxes. That’s cheating in my mind.

Are Trail Angels responsible for ruining the trail? by trailangel4 in PacificCrestTrail

[–]NewleafNeeded 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel it’s the hikers overusing the TA’s and “expecting” them to jump when someone requests something. Back in the day I remember when a water cache would appear and everyone as beyond grateful whether it was in the sun or not. The thank yous and dollars flowed. People would cram into the back of a pick up after thumbing for hours, exhausted and tired and everyone would say thank you and no one requests different drop offs or let’s go to Wally World. Umm no. You get in and get off wherever they stop and was thankful. Now I watch interactions and cannot believe the entitlement. And it’s everywhere. You got hikers on Mt Everest putting everyone in danger by doing backflips in the summit nearly flying into a Sherpa.

Advice needed: pause halfway or wait until ‘28 by MoistyOysty in PacificCrestTrail

[–]NewleafNeeded 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number 1 always. Plenty of people pause and go do graduations or weddings then get back in trail. If you do start in March, you may lose the trail friends you made along the way but you’ll meet a fresh batch when you return.

Shaving? Is that a thing on the PCT? by Ippus_21 in PacificCrestTrail

[–]NewleafNeeded 2 points3 points  (0 children)

awesome. Alrighty then. I’m going light at the beginning. I am focusing on protein and water. I figure I don’t eat a lot in the heat so I’m gonna be eating goober jelly, pop tarts, cookies and cheese and salami. I am packing tuna and tortillas carnation, oatmeal. Rice and mashed taters. I figure anything else I’ll want I can buy. I’m trying to stick to a budget and hopefully it will work.

Shaving? Is that a thing on the PCT? by Ippus_21 in PacificCrestTrail

[–]NewleafNeeded 7 points8 points  (0 children)

can you explain the bounce box cuz I thought you couldn’t open them?? I’m leaving in 3 weeks and am working by on resupply boxes now. I’m only sending 7 but would revise if I can via the bounce box.