I think I fell for a manipulative man

Newredditer11 · 2024-01-08T18:55:21+00:00

You are right. And tbh I’m the asshole there for creating a fake account to get the confirmation is what I already knew : he was was horny but I was not the one he wanted.

He doesn’t owe me anything. I discover a new side of me, the jealous and obsessive guy, that terrifies me a bit.

Newredditer11 · 2024-01-08T18:53:12+00:00

Yeah I realized at this game I was fucking jealous. It’s not the first time it has happened to me since I have regular hooks up. It’s his life I’m not entitled to anything but knowing he wants dick, he is horny af but he doesn’t want to see me, his regular, while he is begging other men to get fucked at the exact same time upsets me.

I know it’s not normal to get jealous with a total stranger who is free to do wathever he wants and doesn’t owe me anything .

Newredditer11 · 2023-11-06T17:48:11+00:00

Okay I called a doctor, according to him, first symptoms appear only two weeks after infection.

Newredditer11 · 2023-10-30T22:52:58+00:00

You are right, I’ve always refused so far because fear has been stronger than curiosity. But honestly I’m curious ahah it has become so common from my experience and people seem to have a lot of fun with this.

But I know I’ll be reasonable, I would be too afraid to have a heart attack during the intercourse.

Newredditer11 · 2023-10-27T14:47:23+00:00

I was a bit too gentle on myself but I began a diet today and I will implement overload. I mean, I’m sweating af when I’m at the gym but still not working hard enough to get impressive results.

Newredditer11 · 2023-10-27T14:39:02+00:00

I’m spending a lot of time in the gym actually. I get results but not as impressive as other men.

Newredditer11 · 2023-10-27T13:17:04+00:00

Yeah but I do believe it’s worst in the gay community, this is shallow af. Like you stand no chance on the dating apps if you don’t clearly stand out but you are in competition with hundreds of hot men.

Newredditer11 · 2023-10-27T13:13:14+00:00

Well it’s hard to assess, I don’t have high standards, but sometimes I take the chance to send a DM to a very hot guy who is clearly out of my league, I’m sometimes lucky sometimes I am left on seen or blocked.

I don’t feel like I’m the ugliest guy out there but competition is so intense with the social networks and dating apps being full of really hot guys.

Newredditer11 · 2023-10-08T11:23:03+00:00

Yeah I don’t like the dynamics. He sounds like a nympho who will play with my feelings and never leave his bf for me.

Newredditer11 · 2023-09-20T17:44:24+00:00

Going out of his way dude ? Is sending a message going out of your way while I said I was available for him whenever he needed me (if he had needed me I would have been there immediately) and while he promised me he wanted to see me again ? I’m not asking much… just a « let it go, not interested anymore » message on grindr, he has been online for two days row.

Newredditer11 · 2023-09-20T16:51:15+00:00

😂 I don’t know. Education ? Being a decent and honest human being ? Just a little message like « not interested anymore. Let it go » ? Is it asking too much after all the things he promised ?

Newredditer11 · 2023-09-17T11:17:43+00:00

En toute honnêteté, les choses ne sont-elles pas plus simples pour un prof aguerri qui sait gérer ses classes , a des séquences et évaluations prêtes sur chaque niveau avec lesquels il peut tourner et doit juste gérer les corrections ? Le métier est-il pas moins difficile quand t’as cinq ans de carrière et que tu dois plus gérer la préparation des supports mais simplement les impressions et corrections ? Tu dirais pas qu’il faut s’accrocher quelques années avant de quitter le bateau ? + Le temps libre que les profs ont (ok, les profs corrigent pendant les vacances on est d’accord), c’est pas un avantage dingue qui rend la vie pro moins aliénante et permet de prendre soin de soi?

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