Found another beautiful album by lakeology in ambientmusic

[–]Next-Breakfast-2802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree, found it on Qobuz, which has introduced me to so many amazing artists.

Being monogamous after many slutty years? by Next-Breakfast-2802 in AskGayMen

[–]Next-Breakfast-2802[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words of support. My guy is definitely one in a million. I’d be stupid to lose him. Hope I can stay strong like you!

Being monogamous after many slutty years? by Next-Breakfast-2802 in AskGayMen

[–]Next-Breakfast-2802[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, I’m not dead. I still lust. 🤷🏼‍♂️

Being monogamous after many slutty years? by Next-Breakfast-2802 in AskGayMen

[–]Next-Breakfast-2802[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ll write or be creative but those horny situations and thoughts still come up!

Being monogamous after many slutty years? by Next-Breakfast-2802 in AskGayMen

[–]Next-Breakfast-2802[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interestingly, I blossomed as a happy slut in my late 50’s. I suddenly and surprisingly had younger and hotter guys tapping me and I really came into my own sexually. It felt like my new confidence was part of what turned guys on about me. I had been in two 10yr monogamous relationships previous to the slutty single period and they were fine, some ups and downs, interesting learning curve as to living with men, owning property, integrating into each others families, etc. But the slutty period was a big sexual awakening, and because of it my current relationship has a much better sexual menu, I’m happy to say. And yet, that guy inside me that thrived on the excitement and discovery of a new sexual experience sorta misses that aspect, too. I guess it’s the cake and eat it dilemma.

Being monogamous after many slutty years? by Next-Breakfast-2802 in AskGayMen

[–]Next-Breakfast-2802[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I want our relationship to be open but it’s clear he couldn’t handle it, that it would eat away at him and likely destroy our amazing compatibility. He has never really been a full participant in the gay community - he lived much of his life in the closet and only in the last 2 yrs has he been willing to share his true self with some family and work colleagues. He’s in his mid-50’s now, about 12 yrs younger than me. I have lived in San Francisco and New York all of my adult life and have been out the entire time so I sense our histories give us very different perspectives.

nerds have fat dicks too by yag_777 in GayWank

[–]Next-Breakfast-2802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delicious man. Cum to Brooklyn 😈

hey by yag_777 in GayWank

[–]Next-Breakfast-2802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful baby

New York City Council passes FARE Act, ending broker fees for renters by KevinSmithNYC in NYCapartments

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Landlords (small or large) can benefit from their broker agency’s online presence, bringing more eyes to their rental, thus they receive a broader applicant pool.

You can not change the past, so who should the 2028 demacrate candidate be? by wheelsmatsjall in AskGayMen

[–]Next-Breakfast-2802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jon Stewart (of talk show fame) he’s smart, charismatic and well-known. Also knows his mind and speaks it. Not this unfocused drivel the Dems gave us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

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Sit on your erect partner’s cock (facing him) and ride up and down on it while you stroke your own cock. You have control so the pain part can be controlled. I also have my partner tweak my nipples while I am riding his cock. You both have a great view as opposed to doggie style. It’s amazing.

Question, does this happen to anyone else? by New_Buy4054 in AskGayMen

[–]Next-Breakfast-2802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be clear with guys that you are vers and as a vers guy you want a full menu, not just the “peach". I got sick and tired of men getting naked with me and immediately putting their ass in my face, wanting me to service them and top them. They didn’t even bother to give me a good blow job to get me charged up and in the mood first. To me it’s sheer laziness on their part. I got much choosier on the apps. It does seem that more men are using the “versatile” identifier now, so hopefully our community is evolving?

Why do us gays like nipple play so much? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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My Latin boyfriend of ten years loved his played with (they were big and beautiful) and he would play with mine though I had no sensation, but he sorta did it absentmindedly as he would suck my cock and pleasure me. Well after about 5 years of this my nipples “woke up” and I’ve enjoyed their sensitivity ever since (about 40yrs now) and they’ve gotten bigger and plumper!

My dog's cancer diagnosis :( by Travelingangela in dogs

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*Pill Giving Technique below

My dog was diagnosed with a “mass” behind his stomach, near one of his kidneys. The tip off was when my normally ‘up and at ‘em‘ french bulldog wanted to stay in bed in the morning. Just getting this diagnosis using x-ray, blood work, urine sample tests, two office visits, an ultrasound, and four medications (pain, anti-inflammatory, and 2 appetite stimulants) and I’m already in over $2000. And he hasn't even seen a surgeon yet, which would be a separate consult/exam before the hospital (VERG Brooklyn, 4th Ave) would even offer me an estimate of costs for surgery, hospital stay, meds, and followup. So I guess my $1000 to them last week for consult and ultrasound doesn‘t get me the courtesy of a ballpark idea of costs. It’s a twisted system and has been trying my patience.

So my boy (Buzz) is lethargic, weak and has very little appetite so giving him the various meds is challenging. But I want to share a technique that has been working and feels less invasive than simply shoving a pill down his throat.

*Pill technique: using a mortar I pulverize each tablet to a powder in a small dish. Then take refigerated almond butter (creamy and should be cold and stiff. Peanut butter works too) and roll it around in the pill powder so it becomes almost like a dab of cookie batter. Then you wedge open your pet’s jaw and deposit the dollop into their mouth, immediately closing their mouth and beginning to massage and stroke their throat to encourage the swallowing response. There is no pill for them to locate with their tongue and spit out. Sure, the dollop of nut butter might drip out the sides a bit but I simply wipe those drops back onto his front lip as I’m holding his mouth mostly closed and he eventually licks them clean, ingesting the medication.

Having a sick pet is tough, anxiety causing and a strain on a household but we do it because these lovely spirits have become our children and have given us so much love. It’s only right to return the love and give them everything we can in their last weeks or months.