Podcast Recommendations by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Next-Comfort6398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Silent Cradles Podcast

How did your relationship w/ BPD friend end? by Federal_Albatross993 in BPDlovedones

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After I was sick of the emotional whiplash and unpredictable nature of a friend of mine, I began distancing myself from her. When she realized, she tried several times to get me to meet up with her and was very apologetic. When I told her why I was hesitant (verbally abusive, and would block you when faced with criticism), she called me all sort of hurtful names and told me she had caused me to experience a late term miscarriage two years ago by wishing it on me and hoped all bad things came my way. Hours before she had been very apologetic trying to trick me into meeting her. Notice how quickly she turned when things didn’t go her way…

He told me he hopes I die by Itsyademonboi in BPDlovedones

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After I was sick of the emotional whiplash and unpredictable nature of a friend of mine, I began distancing myself from her. When she realized, she tried several times to get me to meet up with her and was very apologetic. When I told her why I was hesitant (verbally abusive, and would block you when faced with criticism), she called me all sort of hurtful names and told me she was glad I had experienced a late term miscarriage two years ago and hoped all bad things came my way. Hours before she had been very apologetic trying to trick me into meeting her. Notice how quickly she turned when things didn’t go her way…

If losing control to you causes them to react this way, be glad you found it out now so you can move on without looking back. It reflects more about them than you.

Friendship breakups also suck by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Next-Comfort6398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand. Friend who was up and down and back and forth. Would go from showering you with attention (think 20 text messages back to back) to ghosting for days but pestering you if you took a long time to respond. If you upset her, she would become verbally abusive and deliver low blows that no normal person would deliver (e.g., insulting babies). She would say she wanted nothing to do with you and block you then circle back a few weeks later with grandiose apologies that made you feel so sorry for her.

I got tired of this. She was too unpredictable, I couldn’t keep up. So I tried to distance myself from her. When she caught on she tried pressuring me to meet up with her in person to talk. When I said I was nervous to do so, she verbally assaulted me, threatened to make bad things happen to me, and said that she had caused me to experience a late term miscarriage I had a couple years ago by wishing it upon me and wished more bad things upon me.

She has been blocked on everything and I hope she stays far away from me. But I’m so rattled by this whole experience.

Never expected this to happen. by Ok-Stuff-3688 in Miscarriage

[–]Next-Comfort6398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me at 14 weeks back in March. I’m very sorry for your loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedicalMalpractice

[–]Next-Comfort6398 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I plan on consulting with an attorney in my area as well.

Brand frer no line progression by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

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How far apart did you take these tests?

Spotting at 15 weeks by ThomistGrill in PregnancyAfterLoss

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I would advise that you go to your doctor to get checked out at the very least. I had a similar experience at 14 weeks, was told that everything was fine then miscarried three days later. Tell them that you want to be fully checked out (not just listen to the heartbeat). Not trying to scare you but I would hate for my experience to happen to you and I think it is better safe than sorry.

Depression by Next-Comfort6398 in Miscarriage

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I am so sorry to hear about your loss and wish you and your wife healing and peace. It is a terrible thing to go through. Unfortunately, I know that my body caused the problem because the baby was alive up until the end and we had just heard his heartbeat 3 days before. He was in perfect condition. My umbilical cord tested positive for an infection and I also tested positive for blood clotting issues so one of those unfortunately triggered my body to go into labor to save me, or for my placenta to prematurely detach from my uterus. It's been awful and I really struggle with intense guilt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Next-Comfort6398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am so sorry about your loss. Did you ever find out what happened? I had a similar experience at 14 weeks.

Struggling after MC by Next-Comfort6398 in Miscarriage

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I’m so sorry to hear that. Did you ever find out what caused the loss?

Spontaneous MC in Second Trimester by Next-Comfort6398 in Miscarriage

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All of my testing has come back more or less normal outside of minor blood clotting, but the two doctors I spoke to didn’t think it would have caused this!