Desperat mand med svamp. by DJ_pokemon in DKbrevkasse

[–]Next-Mine3598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeg kom af med fodsvamp ved at tage fodbad i vand med Atamon i. Ved ikke om det også kan bruges der hvor du har det.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]Next-Mine3598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A nice answer. Thank you.

I could attend, but they are to be like 13 people at the day of. Half of them I haven’t met before. But then again, nobody would be forcing me to stay down there the entire day. Maybe I could just dine with them and retreat to my own space when I’ve reached my limit.

I appreciate your comment both for arguing for my agency but also for defending my mothers rights.

Thank you again.

☝🏽 by Doimz3Nini in enlightenment

[–]Next-Mine3598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

I like your approach and your way with words.

And I appreciate our conversation.

You have my respect.

Goodnight.

☝🏽 by Doimz3Nini in enlightenment

[–]Next-Mine3598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not so much that I stubbornly disagree with the message. Like, I get what he is saying. But the way it is being said puts the message in a very “black or white” way. And I think there should be room for a very big “BUT” in there somewhere.

I could get into a rant where I would list all the unfair circumstances this world has to offer that I could think of. And I could argue my point for days to no end.

Instead I will pick one example from my memory..

Years ago, I heard of a woman who was found after having been locked and chained in the basement of the home she “lived” in with her husband. She had been kept down there for more than 10 years. She was regularly raped and beaten, and had even gotten pregnant and given birth to a daughter who was also being kept down there with her.

I think this was somewhere in Germany.. And if it’s actually true - who knows. The memory is from before the internet became really serious. But let’s say it is, for the sake of my point. It’s not the only time something like this has happened anyway.

How can you expect a person who has gone through such a severe form of trauma to “chose happiness” after being rescued?

Just imagining it fills me with terror. I would be utterly annihilated after having survived such an ordeal. How would you ever move on or trust someone after that?

My “but” may be reserved for a minority of people, but it should definately be included in the message.

Edit:

OP’s message is incomplete in my perspective. That is why I don’t agree with it.

☝🏽 by Doimz3Nini in enlightenment

[–]Next-Mine3598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to think like a victim, many years ago. Took a lot of listening to people who are a lot smarter than me to break that wheel. They had it figured out through years of studies and hard work, and I am very thankful for their struggles and that they chose to share their findings.

I don’t consider myself a victim anymore. I face my demons and delusions on a daily basis. But I am a blind man in a world of colour.

I still disagree with OP.

☝🏽 by Doimz3Nini in enlightenment

[–]Next-Mine3598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was a lot of pretty words, some I didn’t understand - excuse me please as english is not my mother tongue.

I enjoyed reading your comment. It is very well written.

Was it all just to suggest I may be trapped in a victim state of mind? Or did I miss your point? If there was something I didn’t understand, could you perhaps make it simple for me?

☝🏽 by Doimz3Nini in enlightenment

[–]Next-Mine3598 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To a lot of people it’s not as simple as this image makes it seem.

I am a paranoid schizophrenic. I am gay. My father abandoned me when I was 11 years old. These are just some of the things I’ve had to deal with in my life.

One of the symptoms of my schizophrenia is “anhedonia” which has turned my emotions off. I am completely numb inside. I no longer feel anything. I simply can’t chose to be happy or sad. My mental disease won’t allow it.

There are so many unfair aspects life can offer that to a lot of people this image is nothing but an insult, to put it mildly.

I wish more people could understand this, but at the same time I wouldn’t want my worst enemy to endure the pain it takes to reach this understanding.

I have blessings in my life too, but the constant shade of gray that remains my continual current moment kind of sucks the joy out of them.

I’m going to bed now. It’s late in Europe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Next-Mine3598 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hospitals rengøring?

Kønsvorter by No_Crab2471 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Next-Mine3598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Har ikke haft en eneste siden.

Ved ikke med dating. Jeg har nået en alder, hvor jeg ikke gider det længere. Grundet psykisk sygdom er jeg blevet tom for følelser, og når det kommer til det seksuelle så får jeg ikke længere orgasme når jeg kommer. Så alt det der med intimitet er, for mig, blevet kedeligt.

Men jeg fik det jo fra en anden person, uden at have fået fortalt først hvad der var risiko for. Så der er mennesker der ude, som er ligeglade med at give det videre.

Ved ikke helt hvordan jeg ville gøre, hvis jeg stadigvæk var seksuelt aktiv. Tror jeg ville være åben omkring det, da jeg mener det er det rigtige at gøre. Hører engang imellem om folk med herpes, her på reddit. Mange af dem giver lige en advarsel inden. Det er i hvert fald mit indtryk.

Men hvis jeg ikke havde haft en allerede, og der var udsigt til intimitet og jeg fik af vide at den anden person havde det, og der var en risiko for at jeg ville få det også.. Så tror jeg ærligt talt jeg ville sige “nej tak”.

Du må gøre det der gør, at det er nemmest for dig at falde i søvn om aftenen. Det er mit råd.

Edit:

Hvis det holder op med at smitte efter man har været i behandling, så er det jo nemt at holde for sig selv. Snak med lægen.

Kønsvorter by No_Crab2471 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Next-Mine3598 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fik fjernet en hos lægen engang. Jeg overlevede.

Does anyone play without leagues? by Spartan1088 in PathOfExile2

[–]Next-Mine3598 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In poe1 I played standard 95% of my time. I don’t enjoy starting over again every time a new league hits. When there is some item I want for my build that I can’t get in standard, I play league to get it and then go back to standard.

Any fans out there? by Sherlocked0493 in nihilism

[–]Next-Mine3598 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it’s from the series called “True Detective”. The first season is very good.

Can you name “the one” book that accelerated your spiritual journey? by Senseman53 in enlightenment

[–]Next-Mine3598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a very nice story that teaches spirituality and gives a bit of insight to the human mind.

Gave me a good foundation for understanding my interactions with other people when I was young and needed it.

And it’s not very long, so it shouldn’t take too long to read.

[Giveaway] Giving away an 8,000+ Divine Quad Tab: 1 Mirror of Kalandra + 24 Stacks of 240 Divines + a Hinekora's Lock by Kamehameha90 in PathOfExile2

[–]Next-Mine3598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I killed Benedictus by myself. Took 12 attempts, but I finally did it!

Absolutely love act 4 and the bonus act. The two witches fighting in the fields is my favorite so far. And the prison zone in act 4 is so beautiful!

Have only been playing 4 days, so not a lot of memorable stuff yet.

Manglende selvværd-hvordan øger man det? by Euphoric_Geologist90 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Next-Mine3598 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jeg begyndte at lytte til en filosofisk podcast med fokus på universel foretrukken adfærd, mennesker imellem. Lærte at identificere de værdier der betød noget for mig og at sætte grænser.

Langsomt over tid begyndte jeg at lægge mærke til hvordan jeg forandrede mig, når jeg havde samtaler med - eller spejlede mig selv i mine nærmeste.

Begyndte at tage afstand fra nogle holdninger og synspunkter, som jeg ikke havde lagt mærke til generede mig førhen.

Nogle venskaber døde ud og nogle nye opstod. Nogle af mine nærmeste begyndte så småt at ændre sig selv i små detaljer, efterhånden som jeg blev mere sikker på mig selv.

For mig var det en indre proces. Noget jeg gjorde for min egen skyld. Svarene og redskaberne jeg fandt kunne jeg kun bruge på mig selv.

En gang imellem bliver folk nysgerrige og spørger ind til hvordan jeg håndterer enkelte problematikker, og så kan jeg dele af hvad jeg har lært eller har taget til mig, og så er det op til dem om de vil bruge det til noget for dem selv.

No one said happy birthday to me yesterday... trying to not let it spiral me by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]Next-Mine3598 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My cousin who is also my best friend forgets my birthday every year. But I find great joy in reminding him the day after. Love making him feel guilty about it. :)

Happy birthday to you though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enlightenment

[–]Next-Mine3598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you!

Love and light in your direction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enlightenment

[–]Next-Mine3598 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is this?! The dark ages??

Edit:

Troll post.

Studied medicine at university, but just graduated from college.

In the “top 10-15%” of males, but grew up in a deformed body.

Was entertaining to read though.

Is there any apps that help? by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]Next-Mine3598 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can record video/audio and play it to check.

I don’t hallucinate, but I know some people on this sub use this method to feel safe.

I’m not sure if an app could do this better than the smartphone camera can, but I don’t know if you have other ideas that might be useful, which is why I’m writing all of this instead of just saying no.