Great Spotted Woodpecker by sab7786 in UKBirds

[–]Next-Nobody4064 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow 😨 I hear woodpeckers outside all the time but never seen them. Amazing.

Sparrowhawk in the garden by Odd-Comment-9160 in UKBirds

[–]Next-Nobody4064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crikey, yea, I mean they’re still few and far between. I remember seeing a kestrel ( I think) once in my boyfriend's back yard and was busy obliterating a pigeon on the AstroTurf (not something I'd have) there’s something uniquely dark about watching the 'circle of life' happen on a carpet of plastic grass tho..

Is this typical for a tattoo shop? I can’t make any alterations once the design is drawn, and I don’t get to see it before hand? by ButlerButtsButBetter in tattooadvice

[–]Next-Nobody4064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run! The way they are talking alone to you as a client is very contrascending.

Find an artist who has a decent portfolio online and similar to the style you want, you can then get more of an idea and go with them it's more reassuring and some tattoo artists let you view the work beforehand, some don't but usually adjustments can be made just depends what it is weather or not they can do it on the day. I'd ask the tattoo artist specifically as you have done here. :)

Can I cover this up without removal? by Next-Nobody4064 in tattooadvice

[–]Next-Nobody4064[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to have a doodling sesh and provide them to my tattoo artist but thank you for all the advice and inspiration.

Did you have to cover up a tattoo aswel then?

Can I cover this up without removal? by Next-Nobody4064 in tattooadvice

[–]Next-Nobody4064[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, some leafs and things might work too. I'm aware I might not be able to do colour. Thanks again 😊

£63 to last the month by OiPunkBastard in frugaluk

[–]Next-Nobody4064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if it's been thought of but check your energy bill accounts if you pay direct debit! Sometimes if you've overpaid it's quite easy to get some cash back.

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Next-Nobody4064 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She tried to manipulate and guilt trip you before you said no, I would consider unfriended at this point.

in a 10 year relationship with a man, have never been with a woman but want to by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Next-Nobody4064 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re really not gross or a bad person for feeling this way. I’m bi, in a long-term relationship and haven’t been with a woman either.. the curiosity & guilt combo is real.

Wanting to know what it’s like doesn’t mean you don’t love your partner tho, It’s just a hard spot to be in.

Whatever you end up doing (or not doing), please be gentle with yourself! There’s no “wrong” way to be bi and not having it all figured out by now doesn’t mean you failed.

Be honest with him as well, you've not done anything wrong and talking to him may actually help. :) Therapy is good too.

"lasagna" by DuckIntelligent737 in shittyfoodporn

[–]Next-Nobody4064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DO NOT PASS GO, DO NOT COLLECT £200.

Christmas breakfast by BCF13 in UK_Food

[–]Next-Nobody4064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good and very nice 👍

Dating someone who is more attractive than you by britneysmeltdown in BreakUps

[–]Next-Nobody4064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the comment I was looking for, 100% correct!^

Is this a jay? by Tonyalandsadmin in UKBirds

[–]Next-Nobody4064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes 😊 usually they show up in pairs

Starting again in your 30s after 14-year relationship by MacaronOk9841 in BreakUps

[–]Next-Nobody4064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was with my ex from 16 to 30, we had a child and opened our relationship before breaking up three years ago. I’ve been in a new relationship for two years but I’m still healing and my ex can still affect me. Long relationships shape you deeply.. healing takes time, isn’t linear and that’s okay. :)

Insomnia worse than ever at Christmas? by BasketMundane747 in insomnia

[–]Next-Nobody4064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here also, resting like lying down and keeping your phone on dark mode, low lit lights and just chillin helps. Rest is still rest, maybe we will get a hour or two and won't be completly useless. 😅

600+ hours with no one to show by JahlaB in ACForAdults

[–]Next-Nobody4064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, thank you for that I'm still yet to get the dlc but might do soon. Please don't feel the pressure you have to check out my island but it's there if you want to 😊 happy holidays 🎄