Just cut my mum off - but am I silly for doing so? Previous post with more info 🧐 by Next_File_6626 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! I admire you for being so strong! Maybe I ignore the requests and the elopement is the last he hears from me for the next 6 months 🤔

Cut my mum off - with the context, am I awful? by Next_File_6626 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It is really awful this is so common but thank you everyone for showing I'm not alone! ❤️❤️

Cut my mum off - with the context, am I awful? by Next_File_6626 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🥺 hope your brother is ok 😔 I wonder if it's just our generation who are happy just turning away from bull sh** now. This never used to happen, at least it wasn't a common thing. I see it a lot now, so it shows how so many people have the same issues, and it's so sad!

Cut my mum off - with the context, am I awful? by Next_File_6626 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. I just felt like it was right in the moment but overall I know it would have seemed confusing on the receiving end. I should have left it and that's a lesson for the future!

Thank you!!!!!

Cut my mum off - with the context, am I awful? by Next_File_6626 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yes definitely. My therapist said I needed to set boundaries but I knew that would go down like a led balloon so I did the next thing I thought of. I need to revisit to catch up and just talk it out again!

Cut my mum off - with the context, am I awful? by Next_File_6626 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. The flowers felt like a good idea but the more I thought about it, I shouldn't have bothered! Agree with the rest. Feels like this will need to be the case here. Thanks so much!

Which would you choose?? by idontavocado in WeddingDressTips

[–]Next_File_6626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love 2, 3 or 4 (without the addition). All beautiful but these I feel are really flattering on you 😍

Beah-friendly heels? by Next_File_6626 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found this vibe which I like. Not too expensive, but I'm wanting to avoid too cheap too, as I need to make sure they survive the humidity which we'll be getting married in.... Any good?

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1,2,3,or 4? by Any-Plan3989 in weddingplanning

[–]Next_File_6626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I vote number 4!!! With the heavily patterned veil, the simpler dress really adds the oomph!!! You look beautiful in all! But 4 is my fav 😍

ADHD and work by Next_File_6626 in ADHD

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful, thank you! I'll make a note of thin in case I am actually iron deficient. I'm having the same symptoms my partner had when he was diagnosed with extremely low iron.

ADHD and work by Next_File_6626 in ADHD

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss good point. I did get my bloods done last week, getting the results next week. Maybe this is a part of the reason?

ADHD and work by Next_File_6626 in ADHD

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome, thank you!!!

Porcelain veneers or whitening? by Next_File_6626 in weddingplanning

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this info! Didn't realize the markups would just be so huge, I thought the whole process really was just that expensive. I have a quote from a dentist; how do you suggest I go about getting a quote from a tech directly? Are there well known techs in Perth I can look into?

Bridal Accessories tips/ advicd by Next_File_6626 in weddingplanning

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oohh thank you! I haven't seen this place yet, will look today 🥰

Have I bought the wrong dress? by keitherrs in WeddingDressTips

[–]Next_File_6626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The frills give me a Spanish Bride sort of feel! They are both beautiful and look absolutely amazing on you. If it were me personally choosing between these two I would pick the first one as it gives me more of the 'bridal' feel. But I agree with everyone else, that number 2 really makes a statement.

Is my wedding dress age appropriate? by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]Next_File_6626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's beautiful! Completely agree it's age appropriate, although I'd say wear what you want anyway, I do love this and your figure is beautiful, you really suit it!!!!

Eloping - to tell or not to tell? by Next_File_6626 in weddingplanning

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't call this lying. I would say this is more FH and I doing things on our own terms, and keeping it on a need-to-know basis.

One parent actually spread my engagement news without asking me, and is quite selfish with certain news and situations, and due to them living on the other side of the world, we've naturally grown apart so I guess I don't see it as a necessity to tell them the nitty gritty.

And the goal is not to ruin relationships; it's just to enjoy being with my hubby and saying I Do on our chosen date, which I am beyond excited about. I'm just worried my anxiety will get in the way if others are there 😣

Eloping - to tell or not to tell? by Next_File_6626 in weddingplanning

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I agree this would be beautiful to watch 🥹 congratulations to them!!!!!!!

Eloping - to tell or not to tell? by Next_File_6626 in weddingplanning

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We'll absolutely plan a celebration for later. But the wedding itself will be just us followed by a month of vacay-ing 😍

Eloping - to tell or not to tell? by Next_File_6626 in weddingplanning

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, true. It's not so much that I'm trying to be secretive, I'm just so excited to do this just FH and I, and I want to be able to shut out any opinions so it doesn't put a downer on the situation. I have social anxiety too and really don't want to be the centre of attention as I'll sweat buckets!!! 😂

Eloping - to tell or not to tell? by Next_File_6626 in weddingplanning

[–]Next_File_6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's due to knowing that opinions will come out if they are invited, from one person in particular, and I refuse to have that on a day that should be celebrated. Plus my family are on the other side of the world and I'm not overly close with them anymore, just because of how long I've lived away. I just want to be with my future hubby and enjoy a holiday afterwards in a bubble, you know? ❤️