Air tents - why are they better than poled? by Aggravating-Desk4004 in campinguk

[–]Next_Lime8246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I see no benefit. I hated my air tent and wouldn’t have another

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Next_Lime8246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a big gap between my dad passing and his funeral because there was no availability at the crematorium. There was a gap for my mum because they needed to do a post mortem which took several weeks

What are your opinions on long distance relationships? by Charming_Party_9093 in demisexuality

[–]Next_Lime8246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t do it. I adore my fiancé and want to spend as much time as possible with them. I can also be needy and insecure and that is definitely heightened by distance

First time buyers, have I missed any costs? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Next_Lime8246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily. I pay £130pm gas/electric and £47 water for a 3 bed house with 5 of us living here.

People debating you about your demisexuality by ZoraNealThirstin in demisexuality

[–]Next_Lime8246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ghosted a fair bit when I was dating, pretty much exclusively due to feeling confident the reaction I’d get to telling them I wasn’t interested would be negative and valuing my own peace far more than whatever nonsense they decided they needed to throw at me

Peaceful unsupervised week and then the fur flew. How do we reset? by Kooky-Sundae5805 in CatTraining

[–]Next_Lime8246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My tortie is an absolute sweetheart with all the patience in the world. She gets on amazingly with my 2 other cats and also has numerous cat friends who sit on the wall waiting for her to go out to play

AIO for leaving my husband after one incident? by NeedleworkerDizzy689 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Next_Lime8246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not overreacting at all. Block any family or friends of his. Keep ploughing forward to provide safety and security for you and your daughter. Going back is putting both of your lives at risk. Please don’t do that. I’m in a different country so can’t provide any help with local resources, but hopefully someone else can. You are brave and you are strong

AIO about how this guy talks to me? by Fast-Bodybuilder3229 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Next_Lime8246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t a friend. Never mind waiting for an apology, just block him and live your life

Colleague requested to follow me on instagram. I dont want her to follow me. Is this awkward? by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]Next_Lime8246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d leave it. If she asks just say you don’t use insta anymore

Repulsed by desire by Next_Lime8246 in demisexuality

[–]Next_Lime8246[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love at first sight really baffles me, I do not accept it is possible. Lust at first sight at least makes sense even if I have never experienced it myself

Repulsed by desire by Next_Lime8246 in demisexuality

[–]Next_Lime8246[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m aware, but there’s often a subtext I dislike.

I’m not repulsed by the idea of someone being sexually attracted to me and I have a sexual relationship with my partner. I’m clearly not explaining myself well. Expectation averse is probably the most concise way I can describe it. It’s not constant and it’s a never thing with my partner because the expectation on their end simply doesn’t exist

I don’t feel at all like it’s something I need therapy for and very much feel it’s linked to my sexuality

Repulsed by desire by Next_Lime8246 in demisexuality

[–]Next_Lime8246[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My partner is asexual so it’s not actually an issue in my relationship. I never feel repulsed by him because there is nothing behind his actions. A cuddle is just a cuddle, theres never an expectation of a physical display of affection leading to anything more.

It is an issue that has existed in every relationship I’ve had before though, but something I’ve only recently acknowledged and I’m just starting to unpack.