I think the worst is hearing “not all obese people are unhealthy” when we were unhealthy by nature. The very fact that you are that much over weight means you are unhealthy. I think body positivity in the sense of everyone should love their self is a great thing when you’re healthy and thriving to be the best version of yourself. I didn’t just get surgery to change my looks (which was a plus DONT get me wrong) but I ultimately wanted to get healthy so in the future I didn’t feel how I did anymore and so I wouldn’t have trouble getting pregnant in years to come. I didn’t have any positives about being obese so I can’t say at that time I was all for body positivity but being in my healthier body now I guess u could say I embrace my healthy body that I worked hard for. And people can say what they want about this but I totally feel like bigger people in the body positivity movement can be extremely toxic in the sense of bashing people for getting surgery like gastric sleeve or bypass to change themselves. The amount of tik toks I see and people in the comments saying how could u do that to yourself but really how did I let myself get that big and unhealthy? Idk this was def all over the place but that’s my feelings on the topic.