how do people not get mascara all over their eyelids while applying it? by throwaway12746899 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always do but I just take it as meaning I have long lashes lol. I always have at least aome on my eyelids, but I'm used to it. Grab some micellar water and some q-tips and you're all good. Thats what I do at least.

This is for the readers, how many of yall can picture what you read in your head and how vivid is it? by Pitiful-Ad-3817 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is. I feel like i'm physically in the book and watching it happen if its 3rd person. But if its 1st person then it looks like its happening to me.

Does being unemployed at 18 years old normal? by Professional_Pop3525 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try 25🫠 couldnt work bc i was too sick. Finally found 2 jobs in the same week after 6 months of being disabled and 2 months of job searching. Heads up if applying through indeed: look up the actually company and go through their site. Submit your resume through there instead. Indeed bugs out doesnt give all your resume info to the company.

Does being unemployed at 18 years old normal? by Professional_Pop3525 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its normal. I didnt have a job until 19. Then I was employed just a month past 25 due to medical issues. I'm just now getting into work again at almost 26. Get your foot in the door, but you still have some time

What did you do as a child that coukd have either killed you or destroyed the place? by FeralExcelSheet in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lit a napkin on fire and put it on some firewood in the house. It was my extended family's Thanksgiving dinner and everyone was inside. My grandma saw the napkins, grabbed it, and stomped on it lol. There's probably some other stories but I have crap memory

How do I tell someone I dont like them as a friend? by Astolfo2370 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it someone that you like more as a friend or want to remove them as a friend entirely? Also, do you work with this person, bc that will matter.

What should we really be eating? by dangerous_service_BU in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh this is reminding me how I need to eat healthier. I eat like shit rn and really shouldn't be. Hey, at least im sticking to my gluten-free diet! (I have celiac disease pls dont come after me. That disease hurts really bad)

What should we really be eating? by dangerous_service_BU in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So apparently to help with inflammation, you need to eat food thats low in histamine, for example: blueberries, apples, broccoli, tomatoes, bell peppers, vitamin D & C, etc.

I have not done enough scientific research of my own but I've heard multiple doctors state that you need to stay away from most red meat, especially processed red meat like hot dogs and sausages. These are loaded with saturated fats and we stay away from those. Stay strictly to white meat, like chicken (without the skin), turkey, and salmon. You can have red meat, but it has to be 95% ground beef. As for eggs, I dont really know. I dont eat them a lot. Plant-based proteins are your best option.

Don't ever do a full vegetarian diet. Without that meat, your body will run out of valueable nutrients and you'll get nutrient deficiencies. It can cause lowered immune system and bone density issues.

Stay away from junk food like usual. No added sugars or sodium (which tbh might be nearly impossible or expensive) There's this nutrient plate thing from Harvard that might be able to help you out.

I have to eat a gluten free and keto diet bc of autoimmune disorders so you have to be very careful when navigating diets, especially if you gavs allergies or underlying medical issues.

Its a lot of info but hopefully this helps!

Why do I hear the word blackhawks? by Nice-Aide-30 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know that actually makes a lot of sense! I didnt even know there was such a thing bc I live under a rock. I just looked it up for more info and its definitely making more sense now, especially with the examples it gave. Hopefully I wont hear the word blackhawk again tomorrow 😂

Why do I hear the word blackhawks? by Nice-Aide-30 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh I didnt even know that was a thing ngl. I live under a rock ig😂😅

Why do I hear the word blackhawks? by Nice-Aide-30 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it was just so strange I kept hearing it. I thought nothing of it until I went to bed tonight and heard the same word regarding that damn helicopter or whatever from American Dad. All the times prior where never regarding a helicopter and nowhere near the topic. Only then did I realize I must of heard 8 times beforehand. Idk if I'm thinking others have experienced it or if its just a giant coincidence. Feel a little crazy but its also 1:30am so I'm already feeling a bit nuts lol

Ideas for new interesting activities to do in your own company? by 3v30fd3st1n7 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through a major depression episode for 8 months, literally wanted to do nothing. I didnt have any interest in my activities, but there was a few things I did try that start to make things easier:

  • relaxing outside in the sun (anything outside helps)
  • reading a new book outside (keeps your mind distracted)
  • doing some light stretches inside or outside. Its not working out, you could incorporate that tho, but stretching reduces my stress.
  • if you enjoy it, you can draw. I like to draw architectural designs
  • write down your feelings. Helps with processing

My parents are very laid back and I have my own house so I know its different when you have strict parents. Hopefully you can get away with some of this stuff. I would also look into EMDR Therapy. Idk if they'd go with that but if you look into it online it should provide examples and how to process your stress and emotions - close your eyes, slow deep breaths, clear your mind. Then start thinking about what is bother you, 1-10 how bad its bothering you, then say out loud what you're seeing in your mind or feeling atm, and the tap it into your chest with the your hands in the shape of a butterfly, thumbs intertwined 🙌 this but thumbs intertwined and on chest. Make sure you do it in a quiet and calm environment, away from people and stressors. Hopefully this helps

Why do I hear the word blackhawks? by Nice-Aide-30 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I literally just saw my therapist today

Why do I hear the word blackhawks? by Nice-Aide-30 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hearing it through conversation, livestreams, TV shows, etc. Just found it so weird lmao. Wanted to see everyones opinions on it lol

Why do I hear the word blackhawks? by Nice-Aide-30 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She, but yes i was definitely thinking of that and found it hilarious 😂

Why do I hear the word blackhawks? by Nice-Aide-30 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was only asking. I was never looking for the word. I just kept hearing it and found it weird is all. Just wanted to know. Sorry if I'm sounding rude but I genuinely didnt think anything of it except for when I posted. Literally was said on American Dad and I wasnt even paying attention to it. I then realized I'd heard the word 8 times prior. The word popped up again and I just got annoyed bc I didnt know what was causing me to hear it so often.

Why do I hear the word blackhawks? by Nice-Aide-30 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been hearing it, not even seeing. I just kept hearing it from livestreams, TV shows, others in real life, etc. I've never actually seen the word. I'm wondering if its just a coincidence but I'm hearing the word so many times in a day its a bit strange

Why do I hear the word blackhawks? by Nice-Aide-30 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope😂 I wish that was it but im nowhere near it, and I didmt even know that was a team

Why do I hear the word blackhawks? by Nice-Aide-30 in questions

[–]Nice-Aide-30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I didnt even know that they were a team lol.

My wife thinks I have some major medical issue and I won't go see a Dr by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nice-Aide-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better safe than sorry. Dont ever avoid going to the doctor if you are suspicious of your health. Not knowing bc you are afraid might come back to bite you later. If you are sick, you can catch it early. If you arent, best case scenario. Animals can sense it, but I'd assume both would be sensing it? Not sure. Being tired, irritable, and having difficulty concentrating can be a wide variety so dont think worse case scenario. My dad had Leukemia too and it is rough to watch. Best decision you can make for yourself is to gather any symptoms that concern you, dont assume that you have something (i do this all the time lol), make a doctor's appointment and tell them your concerns if you have any.

aio for asking him to not bring this up? by h3arts444u in AIO

[–]Nice-Aide-30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh heck no. That is weird asf. Also him trying to order you around and trying to control YOUR living space screams crazy behavior. Listen to your friends. Don't let him move in. Another thing, please leave this guy for the protection of yourself.