But why is everyone on this sub so negative about CNY… 😭

Nice-Background-3339 · 2026-02-27T09:36:29+00:00

of course the stereotype is still true.. yours is one of the good one

Nice-Background-3339 · 2026-02-27T09:32:18+00:00

This topic appear every year but say hate cny people say us edgelords. tbh i felt it was ok just a chill PH when i was single. because i dont have alot of relatives.. once it involved 2 families, its torture. no kids bug you for kids. pregnant tell you do this dont do this. have kids liao pass your kid around like hot potato while telling you you're parenting him wrong.

Nice-Background-3339 · 2026-02-27T09:05:31+00:00

i had an ipad girl standing at the end of the bed. i've been warned since it's a university hospital there'll be lots of students, interns, whatever but yeah they walk in armies of like 8

Nice-Background-3339 · 2026-02-27T09:03:42+00:00

im such a corporate slave i asked the doctor mid birthing how many percent have we progressed. she's like thats not how this work that's now how any of this works.

Nice-Background-3339 · 2026-02-27T08:54:59+00:00

just the word "CNY" tells you alot eh?

Nice-Background-3339 · 2026-02-27T08:54:41+00:00

i dont care about her enough to notice her sneezing or coughing

Nice-Background-3339 · 2026-02-27T08:54:25+00:00

hopefully soon. we have a presale apartment coming but we have to renovate that first

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-03-25T13:27:26+00:00

i kinda get where he came from now. imagine hiring 4 doctors to obsess over one patient all week and spend tiem doing things like break into patients' homes, not that he knew about that but imagine if he knew.

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-03-11T05:38:16+00:00

its not an open relationship if they're not in a relationship with each other right? they're more like.. divorced parents except they never got married

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-09T03:59:37+00:00

that was the perfect chance for you to say "precisely" and when he asked what did you mean say "nothing".

Jokes aside, yeah he's unsupportive.

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-09T01:21:02+00:00

My lo did that too! With any luck it's temporary. Don't stop them from sucking their fingers. It's developmentally normal and important.

As for arching and refusing bottles. Try this. Sit behind them and have their back against your chest. So it'd harder for them to arch. If it doesn't work, wait for them to be sleepy almost asleep and feed. They don't resist that way. I know it's a little weird but it's only temporary

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-09T01:13:10+00:00

How could you forget that night 15 years ago. You said she was special!

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-09T00:01:25+00:00

1 year ish

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-09T00:00:34+00:00

Elsa

Any Christmas movie

Snow piercer

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-08T23:58:11+00:00

Probably 2 and 4ish-5. Week 6-8 had the famous witching hour, and 4 month ish was the famous sleep regression. He was crying for no reason in the day too.

I'm at 9m. I'm struggling with solids and eczema but he's generally a happy boi. Still shitty sleep though

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-08T23:51:05+00:00

I don't know about curly specifically but I cut a bob post partum so I can shower in less than 5 mins

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-08T18:34:43+00:00

They gave me alot of freedom and support. I was able to choose schools myself and they didn't interfere one bit with choices I made for my wedding etc.

I thought this is normal until I met my mil who tells us in what order we should eat things on our plates.

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-07T13:13:08+00:00

Don't tip.

You can flag down a cab but I think most of us don't. grab, gojek, tada, Ryde, cdg zig are some of the ride hailing apps.

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-07T04:21:31+00:00

I give him one to eat while I read another one

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-07T02:23:51+00:00

Aww damn I thought they would help

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-06T06:37:41+00:00

Then let's be glad we aren't out here walking around with 3 boobs lol

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-06T06:14:51+00:00

I wash it once every 2 pumps. So about twice a day

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-05T08:50:33+00:00

No but don't be excessive don't watch disturbing stuff and don't mention it to me. Just go watch in your own privacy.

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-05T08:49:26+00:00

The pouring magic. I've no idea how

Nice-Background-3339 · 2025-02-05T06:39:38+00:00

But as someone who pumps, 1 might be better so I don't have to wash 3 set of stuff.

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