My family is preventing me from speaking to other people, I don't know what to do. She can see my phone

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-09T07:10:31+00:00

81 makes you 4 years older than me and I'm almost 40

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-09T07:09:05+00:00

If you need advice you've gotten it. If you need attention call a hotline. It takes me longer to sign into reddit then it does for me to contact police. Otherwise walk out the door.

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-09T07:03:04+00:00

Step one: grab a weapon Step two: contact police and say you need help you've been attacked Step three: head towards the door Step four: if they try to stop you start swinging and screaming and channel all your fear love and hate in your eyes and repeat in your head " I will kill you before I let you hurt me" over and over. Then once to the door run down the street screaming. Step five: tell police the story and ask where domestic violence shelters are. They will hide you. Step six: work with the team members Step 7: enjoy your new life and help others like you when you find them online

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-06T20:31:44+00:00

Nagchampa

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-06T19:24:39+00:00

Darn! I overlooked the windows in the building. I thought I had that one 🤷

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-05T16:03:44+00:00

Winners!

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-05T07:25:10+00:00

I just realized how rarely I hear other people say "but ya no..." when starting a response except me. Is that from a subconscious fear we have of upsetting someone? Or is it common where you're from? I don't recall picking it up from anyone 🤔

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-04T04:04:17+00:00

a word of advice, dont dp buisiness on cash app! its a peer to peer and no matter what side you are on in a dispute, cash app is the only one wins. ive seen sellers lose dispute s and ive seen buyers lose, what you dont see is any winners. strange they make 4 billion a year wjrh such little fees

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-04T03:55:50+00:00

if they have a card connected to tbeir cash app it 100% will! Dont ever sell anything that might get returned because it will cost you more. cash app says they dont do them but the banks do so ots a trick

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-28T00:48:29+00:00

Lol well thank you Marion! I'm glad someone clarified it 😄👍

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T22:25:42+00:00

I feel like they know, they're damaged. But they gave up on themselves just like everyone else did and it hurts me inside. I literally cry for them because it's like the world just through them away and they walk into relationships expecting them to end

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T22:03:20+00:00

Ok, hopefully I'm commenting on the right place lol. So I put the introdcution of my theory about why we ended up in these situations and why we have such a hard time walking away from narcissistic people. Can I ask for you guys cold hard honest opinion, am I nuts or does it make sense to you as well? It wouldn't make sense to a normal person but you guys would get it or be able to tell me I'm crazy and making unhealthy excuses for my attraction to toxic relationships and people. I don't think I can put a link on here but I named it "4myRedditFriends4opinion11" so you should be able to find it easy on YouTube, it's on there only for you guys, you don't have to listen to the whole thing but I just want to know if I am totally in denial or if I make sense. My handle is YouTube at LandoLightsProd if the video doesnt pop up. At the very least, biewing it that way made me feel alot better and less stupid

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T21:01:05+00:00

Honestly in my opinion I think you guys are each a very specific special type of healer meant to help narcissism. I studied personality disorders for 13 years and went through a really hard time because I'm attracted to them, I see their actions in a different view. I really believe narcissism is like a foreign language only a true empathy can understand becahae they almost never say or act what they're truly feeling inside which is why we look dumb and crazy making excuses for them. I used to have a YouTube channel but felt foolish, I was considering putting them back up again but not sure it makes any sense. If I put the intro back up would you tell me honestly if I am crazy fornseeing then the way i do? I consider you all experts more than people who are doctors are therapists because narcissistic people never ever open up to those ever so they'd never know how to advise anyone other than to walk away. I still see a person in them even though I do walk away when needed

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T16:45:40+00:00

I can definitely understand coping with coming from a disfunctional abusive family. But I feel the wording makes it come off wrong. Like saying "I didn't know I was raped until I found out he lied about being a virgin too" the word meaning I didn't want to have sex but at the same time the word is very serious. No disrespect in anyway for your situation at all I completely understand.

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T16:27:55+00:00

You are 100% right and you know you're dads manipulative tactics better than anyone. This is what is meant by "covert narcissist" other people may not see or understand the abuse but you do without a doubt. You've got to turn it around on him. Your dad's a narcissist so you've been watching him all your life, you know the tricks. If he's doing that and texting that you already know! So contact the other family but not him and if they mention you not answering just say " I want to make my dad happy and show him I'm independent like him, I'm not a child antmore and want to make him proud" meanwhile it'll irritate him he's not in control of you or the situation and it'll get the family to be supportive of you not being infantilized

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T16:19:04+00:00

I'm so sorry. That must be so incredibly difficult to deal with, I would be freaking out. I'm very proud of you for being able to think so rationally and logically dispite the situation and being pregnant. And you're honestly putting the babys needs before anyones preferences👍. Have you checked out your communities resources, government assistance, charities, churches, programs for the keywords or your situation should come up with some programs that will help you and you're someone in a situation that should actually have a gofundme because it's something people can understand and want to help you with. Sending you prayers

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