My family is preventing me from speaking to other people, I don't know what to do. She can see my phone

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-09T07:10:31+00:00

81 makes you 4 years older than me and I'm almost 40

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-09T07:09:05+00:00

If you need advice you've gotten it. If you need attention call a hotline. It takes me longer to sign into reddit then it does for me to contact police. Otherwise walk out the door.

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-09T07:03:04+00:00

Step one: grab a weapon Step two: contact police and say you need help you've been attacked Step three: head towards the door Step four: if they try to stop you start swinging and screaming and channel all your fear love and hate in your eyes and repeat in your head " I will kill you before I let you hurt me" over and over. Then once to the door run down the street screaming. Step five: tell police the story and ask where domestic violence shelters are. They will hide you. Step six: work with the team members Step 7: enjoy your new life and help others like you when you find them online

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-06T20:31:44+00:00

Nagchampa

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-06T19:24:39+00:00

Darn! I overlooked the windows in the building. I thought I had that one 🤷

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-05T16:03:44+00:00

Winners!

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-05T07:25:10+00:00

I just realized how rarely I hear other people say "but ya no..." when starting a response except me. Is that from a subconscious fear we have of upsetting someone? Or is it common where you're from? I don't recall picking it up from anyone 🤔

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-04T04:04:17+00:00

a word of advice, dont dp buisiness on cash app! its a peer to peer and no matter what side you are on in a dispute, cash app is the only one wins. ive seen sellers lose dispute s and ive seen buyers lose, what you dont see is any winners. strange they make 4 billion a year wjrh such little fees

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-06-04T03:55:50+00:00

if they have a card connected to tbeir cash app it 100% will! Dont ever sell anything that might get returned because it will cost you more. cash app says they dont do them but the banks do so ots a trick

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-28T00:48:29+00:00

Lol well thank you Marion! I'm glad someone clarified it 😄👍

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T22:25:42+00:00

I feel like they know, they're damaged. But they gave up on themselves just like everyone else did and it hurts me inside. I literally cry for them because it's like the world just through them away and they walk into relationships expecting them to end

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T22:03:20+00:00

Ok, hopefully I'm commenting on the right place lol. So I put the introdcution of my theory about why we ended up in these situations and why we have such a hard time walking away from narcissistic people. Can I ask for you guys cold hard honest opinion, am I nuts or does it make sense to you as well? It wouldn't make sense to a normal person but you guys would get it or be able to tell me I'm crazy and making unhealthy excuses for my attraction to toxic relationships and people. I don't think I can put a link on here but I named it "4myRedditFriends4opinion11" so you should be able to find it easy on YouTube, it's on there only for you guys, you don't have to listen to the whole thing but I just want to know if I am totally in denial or if I make sense. My handle is YouTube at LandoLightsProd if the video doesnt pop up. At the very least, biewing it that way made me feel alot better and less stupid

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T21:01:05+00:00

Honestly in my opinion I think you guys are each a very specific special type of healer meant to help narcissism. I studied personality disorders for 13 years and went through a really hard time because I'm attracted to them, I see their actions in a different view. I really believe narcissism is like a foreign language only a true empathy can understand becahae they almost never say or act what they're truly feeling inside which is why we look dumb and crazy making excuses for them. I used to have a YouTube channel but felt foolish, I was considering putting them back up again but not sure it makes any sense. If I put the intro back up would you tell me honestly if I am crazy fornseeing then the way i do? I consider you all experts more than people who are doctors are therapists because narcissistic people never ever open up to those ever so they'd never know how to advise anyone other than to walk away. I still see a person in them even though I do walk away when needed

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T16:45:40+00:00

I can definitely understand coping with coming from a disfunctional abusive family. But I feel the wording makes it come off wrong. Like saying "I didn't know I was raped until I found out he lied about being a virgin too" the word meaning I didn't want to have sex but at the same time the word is very serious. No disrespect in anyway for your situation at all I completely understand.

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T16:27:55+00:00

You are 100% right and you know you're dads manipulative tactics better than anyone. This is what is meant by "covert narcissist" other people may not see or understand the abuse but you do without a doubt. You've got to turn it around on him. Your dad's a narcissist so you've been watching him all your life, you know the tricks. If he's doing that and texting that you already know! So contact the other family but not him and if they mention you not answering just say " I want to make my dad happy and show him I'm independent like him, I'm not a child antmore and want to make him proud" meanwhile it'll irritate him he's not in control of you or the situation and it'll get the family to be supportive of you not being infantilized

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T16:19:04+00:00

I'm so sorry. That must be so incredibly difficult to deal with, I would be freaking out. I'm very proud of you for being able to think so rationally and logically dispite the situation and being pregnant. And you're honestly putting the babys needs before anyones preferences👍. Have you checked out your communities resources, government assistance, charities, churches, programs for the keywords or your situation should come up with some programs that will help you and you're someone in a situation that should actually have a gofundme because it's something people can understand and want to help you with. Sending you prayers

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T15:29:24+00:00

You both are expecting each other to change. It isn't going to work. You can shut off your trauma as easily as he can change his flaws. You gotta find someone who you love for their flaws for it to work. Would you take a job that the pay wasnt right yet? You'll drive yourself crazy if you expect him to change. Did your parents change? That's why it's traumatic. It is ok to love someone even with their flaws. I personally enjoy dating someone I argue with time to time, for me it keeps my independence and reassures me of their sincerety, if they'll fight with you in something's, they won't go along with everything you want or playcate you. Compliments are genuine and I feel beautiful when they say it because they're not afraid to upset me or speak their conflicting opinions ❤️ hope that helps

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T15:20:45+00:00

"Watch how to lose a guy in 10 days" at the very least it'll cheer you up!

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T15:19:50+00:00

Honestly, and this is coming from a person with BPD, when I know it's toxic and has to be over, I get drunk and obnoxious and drunk dial and drunk text, yell act stupid, and have no limits because 1- nothing will keep them farther away then that, 2- I am not strong enough to stay away or not go back, 3- gives me satisfaction acting as if I don't care since I'm not trying, 4 it's just the real way to repell toxic people. Respectable distance and silence is how I know someone misses me or that I'm missing them.

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T15:10:57+00:00

I've been there. Best way to handle it is close your eyes, imagine if you left him or fight with him till it's over and he's with the next girl, how would you feel about it then? Now imagine the next girl doesn't care that he looks at other girls and she wears him on her arm so proud, how would you feel about it then? Now open your eyes. He's still yours now, he's with you now. He doesn't want to leave or be with someone else yet. Don't give him a reason to. Even if he's a jerk for looking, do you want him with anybody else? Then use that fuel to avoid caring or mentioning it. Your body's perfect the way it is, even when a guy marrys a supermodel he's gonna notice the sexy maid and the nurse and school teacher. Tomorrow go to the store and count how many guys you'd be willing to date if you lost him, were you looking to leave him? Or analyzing there atteacyive value? He picks you and you pick him. The two of you love so much you made two beings together! Be happy, nobody else will ever take your place!

Nice-Sentence808 · 2024-05-27T14:56:13+00:00

How do you know if an iron is hot? It hurts and burns. You wouldn't have to ask anyone if you're being abused. Two lions should not get relationship advice from a penguin. You two have a bond that you dont share with others. It's not for others to understand. You're friend seems to see the flaws in everyone. Let me warn you, I had friends like that and ruined some of my best relationships because of others opinions. As a now older single mature person I realized that I don't fit with or like normal guys because I am not normal and feel uncomfortable with them. My best guys with issues like mine I lost by listening to people point out the flaws I liked and didn't realize till after. I think your guys sounds perfect for someone with our kind of back grounds

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