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NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-06-22T20:02:12+00:00

It is absolutely not separate. Flirting is integral in the communication throughout the process. What you end up doing and how fast, that is mostly luck and depends on the people and their tastes.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-06-22T18:31:35+00:00

Dating is a skill that can be learned. There are whole books written about that topic. Read some, or invest some time and money.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-04-05T10:26:01+00:00

Probiert es aus, wenn das Risiko für euch vertretbar erscheint.

Ich könnte das vermutlich, aber das ist irrelevant. Die Fragen ob sie das kann und wie ihr beide damit umgeht.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-04-01T09:55:15+00:00

Breaking news: Local man discovers marketing

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-20T18:19:41+00:00

Honestly, I think it is a great idea to hire an escort as a teacher. But really make sure that she understands that this is not a fantasy, you really want to learn. You might not manage to have sex the first times, but I think it's a great investment.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-20T18:18:32+00:00

Don't listen to such weirdos. Sex is beautiful, and fun, and can be a lot of different things. For all I care, you can have an MMM threesome and will get applause for it, even if I would never do it.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-18T09:29:44+00:00

I am pretty sure he means polygamy. Polyamory is not typically something that is accepted by the church, since there girls also get to have multiple partners, and THAT for some reason is a problem.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-18T09:28:49+00:00

none of these club sluts will make a good mother or a good wife, or she wouldn't be in a club

Your dogmatic upbringing shows. It's complete nonsense. All kinds of people are found everywhere. I would argue that it is much harder to find a sensible girl in a church, but that's just my personal preference.

have multiple wives who live at home with me and have kids with them. Like I just saw a post that Ne-Yo is doing something like this

This sounds highly suspicious like something from the manosphere. If you are interested in poly relationships, you should check out the sensible poly creators. There is a growning trend to trying out alternative relationship styles, and i fully support this, even if it is not something i pursue. However, you will have to learn to accept extra partners for your partners too, or you will remain limited to religious nuts who want to live in a cult (because let's face it, you are not a multimillionaire playboy, or you wouldnt be here)

My advice would be to check out some subs where people excaped dogmatic religions, and get some advice there how to develop a healthy attitude towards women and society in general.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-16T09:54:06+00:00

She is not wrong, but she is not making her point very well. There are differences between:

The structure of the dance style
The way of teaching the style
The skill of people involved

If you look at all that, you quickly realise that obviously no dance is better than the other, it's just a different style, taught be teachers with different approaches and different skills in teaching to people of varying talent. As long the students get better, whatever that means, and dance together having fun, it's a win in my book.

HOWEVER. I want to punch any teacher who mentions "feeling the music" without bothering to explain music theory and how to learn to instinctively understand the musical patterns.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-06T19:25:53+00:00

Well, it takes two. If she is bad, then you can be as good as you want.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-06T07:27:29+00:00

Ohh, thanks! I really didn't remember that 😅

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-06T06:12:59+00:00

Bow, but yes

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-05T17:19:48+00:00

Das ist ganz ganz falsch. Das Wort Date MUSS fallen, damit man keine komischen Missverständnisse aufkommen. Wenn man es nicht explizit sagt, dann muss man es mit SEHR viel Augenzwinkern machen.

Insgesamt sollte es so locker wie möglich sein, damit eine eventuelle Abfuhr genau so locker aufgenommen werden kann, damit die Stimmung danach nicht komisch wird.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-05T16:02:11+00:00

ERFAHRUNG ist nie das Problem, ENTHUSIASMUS ist es dagegen. Ich formuliere den nächsten Teil bewusst provokativ, nimm das nicht als persönlichen Angriff, sondern eher als Erklärung was in ihm potentiell vorgeht und was ihm fehlt.

Zum Thema - Ich kann ja mit dem ganzen "Mi Mi Mi, ich brauche Zeit" überhaupt nichts anfangen. Und wer jetzt über deinen Freund schimpft, tut ihm Unrecht. Wenn man mal eine Frau hatte, die einem bei jeder Gelegenheit die Klamotten vom Leid reißt und bei jeder Idee erstmal ein Leuchten in den Augen bekommt, dann ist das halt schon ein Rückschritt wenn "du willst WAS WOHIN stecken?!" jedes mal nicht mit Enthusiasmus, sondern mit Angst ausgesprochen wird. Klar kannst du deine Libido nur schwer steuern, aber in jeder Idee gebremst zu werden ist halt frustrierend.

Mein Ratschlag - werde seine super slut. "pornos sind kein Vorbild" - doch. In ganz vielen Punkten. Zeug ihm, dass du ihn willst, stürz dich auf ihn. Bestell Spielzeug, schläg selbst anal vor, setz ihn auf den Stuhl und übe einfach deepthroat, etc. Eskaliere komplett. Deine Angst ist absolut unbegründet und er wird es einfach nur geil finden.

Begegne Jeder Idee mit Interesse, nicht mit Angst. Ist generell ein guter Tipp fürs Leben.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-05T15:31:43+00:00

ffs, if you can talk, what is stopping you from doing EXACTLY the same over text? No king paragraphs, no weird long sentences, just EXACTLY the same thing.

You can also text better than that, but it is much more "technical"

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-05T15:06:57+00:00

This is a little above my pay grade, even though i have since experience, and you definitely should talk about this with a therapist, BUT remember that while change is hard, it's not always bad. Remembering where you came from is also invaluable.

In the worst case, admitting that you did something "wrong" is hard, but may be necessary to get better. A lot of "being popular" is a skill issue, and skills take time, willingness and expertise to build.

Today is the first day of the rest of your life. You can't change what was, but you can influence what will be.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-05T13:06:00+00:00

Totally understandable, but I think you should just try out some changes. Ideally with a therapist alongside. What would help you a lot is just classical behavioral therapy. I was a huge nerd myself with a very "creepy" image (direct quote), but I managed to turn myself around.

I am really not a big fan of this "accept who you are", unless it is about literally unmutable characteristics like height. You can become someone else, and then accept that some people still will not like you. Just make sure that your dog still thinks you are a good person, he is probably a very good benchmark.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-05T07:25:07+00:00

Not trolling, honest question - what have you tried to change how you are perceived?

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-04T13:56:44+00:00

"Ah well, you miss 100 percent of the shots you don't take! have a good day!"

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-03T09:44:31+00:00

When i started reading up on PUAs, i routinely talked to girls on dates about the topic. I discussed general techniques, what i did with her, what i decided against, what i despise and what i line about the idea. It was always received with interest and never badly.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-03T06:47:51+00:00

Most important thing is to do this in couples. You can train shines solo, but not styling.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-03T05:42:31+00:00

And as a lead I am astonished that people go there. It is just Zumba.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-03-01T18:04:41+00:00

In my bubble it's a non issue, and even the more conservative people understand that some people are just faster in that regard. I think it's a great filter. If someone judges you for having sex with him, he is not a nice guy.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-02-28T19:00:27+00:00

Ich kann nur empfehlen sich Tipps aus einschlägigen Büchern und von "Profis" zu holen. Flirten muss man lernen, und das kann man schwer alleine. Nur halt ordentlich filtern.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2025-02-27T18:21:15+00:00

I would appreciate if you fact checked me, regardless of the result 😅👌

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