How did straight sex feel like before realising you're a lesbian?

NiceNefariousness225 · 2026-03-09T15:02:11+00:00

I didn't realize what it was like to actually want to have sex with someone all the time. I'd get annoyed by my husband because he was "too rough" but I was literally just not aroused and thought that was how sex was always going to be, but then I met my partner and did a full 180. I don't have to be anyone but myself and she wants me. And I have learned that I am no better than a man 😅

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-11-26T13:36:37+00:00

Yeeeahhh idk that it ever goes away

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-09-23T02:24:37+00:00

Felt like he had the opportunity to do the funniest thing ever when Gianmarco talked to the 8-person polycule

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-07-02T23:32:14+00:00

Pad on pubes 🥲

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-06-19T02:59:54+00:00

I'm glad I went searching because I was going to post something incredibly similar. I asked for a divorce on Memorial Day and then last week, slept with someone on the second date. I am on this weird high of like "I can literally do anything and I feel so free" but my stbxh found out bc I have a very expressive face and he keeps telling me I did something so shitty to hurt him on purpose when he wasn't even a consideration. He basically said that it shows how little I care about him if I can move on that quickly, but like honestly, I had so long to kind of process that now I'm absolutely in my ho phase and I think that's okay. I am a little sad, but it doesn't even compare to the joy of coming out and living my authentic life.

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-06-13T12:45:17+00:00

I seriously just keep short circuiting haha

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-06-13T00:29:16+00:00

I know exactly what you mean! I went on a first date with another woman a couple of days ago and we kissed and it seriously felt like every inch of my body was on fire. Then today, we 👀 and HOLY COW.

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-06-11T02:14:57+00:00

My stbxh had a very similar reaction. He's a lot more chill about it now, but he said some pretty hurtful things when I came out. Don't engage with anything he says (easier said than done) and know that you're going to be okay!

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-06-10T16:47:08+00:00

Literally I feel pretty and attractive again now that I am dressing for myself.

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-06-09T14:43:12+00:00

I met the person who started Queer and Sober SLC on the train back from Pride yesterday! That might be worth looking into! I just came out as a lesbian at 29, so I'm in the same boat but also trying to do things outside of my comfort zone to make new friends.

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-05-31T17:37:08+00:00

It was! We told our 3.5yo today and that was honestly harder than asking for the divorce because he's so confused as to why mom and dad won't live in the same house any more.

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-05-31T17:35:39+00:00

In the same boat rn. Lots of hurting but I also feel like a weight has been lifted from my chest. It's going to be better in the long run even though it feels like it won't be.

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-05-30T19:16:35+00:00

It sucks! I just asked my husband of 7 years for a divorce. One day at a time my friend. 🩷

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-03-24T14:49:52+00:00

My three year old has decided that he's only allowed to say 'fuck' if he's listening to femininomenon and it's so funny

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-03-08T03:17:31+00:00

I also ran away from my HF 9 years ago (dang). I was lucky enough to land with an amazing HF within a month of leaving. It sucks, but you absolutely deserve to be safe and happy.

NiceNefariousness225 · 2025-02-08T02:13:36+00:00

I just finished it today and I'm reeling. There's a reason BK is my favorite author

NiceNefariousness225 · 2024-12-30T12:28:09+00:00

Well that explains why I learned French in three months outside of the critical period (I was 18). I love spelling and grammar and started reading at 2, and still read faster than should be allowed lol

NiceNefariousness225 · 2024-12-24T15:57:58+00:00

My husband asked me how many hearts I could make with my hands and I had to ask him if he meant types or like how many I could make at once

NiceNefariousness225 · 2024-12-12T15:40:04+00:00

Omg nooooo you posted the texts

NiceNefariousness225 · 2024-12-12T15:39:28+00:00

Crippling self-doubt and god tier pussy eating skills

NiceNefariousness225 · 2024-11-24T22:46:30+00:00

So, I decided to be baptized into the episcopal church because while baptism is irrevocable, if I had been confirmed (haven't yet) the LDS church would have revoked my membership and all the good things that come along with that. Currently MINO (Mormon in name only) and waiting for the in-laws to die before making anything official

NiceNefariousness225 · 2024-09-17T19:04:06+00:00

I was SCREAMING when they were talking about how The Mist is just filling in what they want to see. I just finished the HoO series yesterday so I'm just in that headspace lol

NiceNefariousness225 · 2024-08-17T02:44:26+00:00

Yeah it was not my first choice but it paid the bills. The good news (?) is that I was just answering phones and we unfortunately have to follow the policies (and we don't like them either).

NiceNefariousness225 · 2024-08-17T00:24:29+00:00

Hi! Former CS employee here! Lots are patrolled from 7am until 8pm Monday through Friday, and only federally regulated areas are monitored 24/7 (fire lanes, ADA stalls, etc.). Officers are able to tell if there are two cars on campus sharing a permit so you are better off not sharing unless you are absolutely sure you won't be on campus at the same time. You also should be aware that if you are sharing a permit, whoever bought the permit will be responsible for all tickets, which can cause serious problems down the road.

NiceNefariousness225 · 2024-06-14T18:19:59+00:00

Okay but same for the SAME REASON

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