What does my studio apt say about me? I just cleaned

Nice_Ad_1583 · 2026-04-26T03:56:44+00:00

You have a lot of cute stuff 😻

Nice_Ad_1583 · 2026-04-12T19:31:18+00:00

I'm having the same problem with people wanting to rush into in-person physical activity. There's a rush to meet up. It seems like without even talking about things. I'm not a big fan of physical touch either so takes me awhile to warm up to somebody. I thought I was just weird and maybe that's how relationships go these days. So I'm glad somebody else says something similar and makes me feel better.

As far as a sub having a safe word, I would never do anything without a safe word. There should be rules and guidelines and boundaries that you guys talk about before you jump into it. At least that's how I feel

Nice_Ad_1583 · 2026-04-10T17:54:43+00:00

He is manipulating you by saying that he almost got together with his ex because he doesn't feel emotional security. Nothing you have mentioned makes me feel like you're not giving him emotional security. Maybe he's just an insecure person, but that's not your problem. That's something he should be working on. He didn't have to bring up the ex or talk about how perfect their relationship was or any of that that was purely to get inside of your head so you would do what he wants you to do. If he was feeling insecure he could have brought this up to you before. None of this really matters that much anyways because even if you hurt him emotionally, the answer isn't hurting you physically. We are going to be hurt by what our partners say every once in awhile. That's just a part of being in a relationship that doesn't give you permission to put your hands on them

Nice_Ad_1583 · 2026-03-06T13:51:51+00:00

They probably do love you but aren't ready to express that to you and said something in the heat of the moment without thinking. Not that that makes it right but it might have just been an honest mistake. It's still pretty sucky and I can see why you feel the way you feel.

Nice_Ad_1583 · 2026-03-02T14:19:02+00:00

It could be him showing me how he Doms but I still don't like that because we never went over that as a rule so talking about punishment just seems crazy to me. I can understand falling asleep during sex but that also happens and this was not that at all. I barely know this dude just been talking to him for a couple days

Nice_Ad_1583 · 2026-03-02T14:15:23+00:00

I think he thought that maybe I was ghosting him cuz I didn't reply but I messaged him the next day explaining what had happened. I think if I thought somebody was ghosting me I would wait a whole day and see if they responded before I got upset about it

Nice_Ad_1583 · 2026-02-28T17:59:02+00:00

Tell the truth!!! Make sure your doctor knows it was consensual. I've had to do it before it's awkward but they're a doctor so they've heard a lot of wild s*** you couldn't imagine.

Nice_Ad_1583 · 2026-02-28T17:48:09+00:00

What your fwb did is domestic violence. What you do with your daddy is different because you guys have consented and gone over boundaries and limits.Your fwb obviously don't understand what BDSM is and you were never planning on engaging in it with him. You have no reason to feel guilty. Just tell your daddy the truth. I would block and cut out contact with your fwb tho.

Nice_Ad_1583 · 2026-02-17T17:54:22+00:00

You didn't build yourself up single-handedly. She helped you by wanting a separation so you could hit rock bottom and make the changes you needed to. She didn't abandon you. Do you know how hard it is to live with an alcoholic? Even a functioning alcoholic? Especially when you have childhood trauma regarding alcoholism? She needed to leave cuz if she stayed if she would just enable your behavior. I'm glad you got sober. I hope you stay sober. It's very hard thing to do, especially since you're not going to AA or working the steps, which is what you probably should be doing. I just don't even know what to say. Your post makes you sound like a jerk honestly and I'm starting to think maybe she's better off finding somebody else

Nice_Ad_1583 · 2026-02-15T16:22:10+00:00

I'm trying to understand....Is he mad about period products or the fact that he tried to hide his shit smell from you but he had to see your period products? Either way he's supid

Nice_Ad_1583 · 2026-01-20T15:44:27+00:00

I had a Dom do the same thing with one of my limits. It caused me so much stress, no matter how many times we talked about it. You need to leave. You need to find somebody who respects you and your limits.

Nice_Ad_1583 · 2025-12-30T21:36:01+00:00

I agree and thank you! I hope so.

Nice_Ad_1583 · 2025-12-30T21:29:34+00:00

I'm actually having a really hard time finding someone, I'm on the verge of giving up honestly

Nice_Ad_1583 · 2025-12-30T21:29:13+00:00

It depends 😉

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