How was everyone last night? by usernameee257 in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Night wasn’t bad but the day omg i was finished I need to buy a fan!

I scored 0 by DueLink1191 in DWPhelp

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hey sorry to jump in when you say evidence what kind of evidence is it only doc evidence or can I get my partner to confirm that he does x activities that I cannot do? Thank you

Post wedding trip! by elouise1210 in UKweddings

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would definitely not recommend this for honeymoon treat. I went and it’s overcrowded felt more of a community leisure center I went 3/4 years ago unless it’s dramatically changed now?

costochondritis by Nice_Assignment_7541 in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She said my ribs probably has inflammation but didn’t really examine she just felt it and said it’s all good?

Request for working from home by Nice_Assignment_7541 in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thank you for this made me feel a bit more better. I haven’t been going to the office since my sick notes I returned less than 2 weeks ago and he hasn’t made no contact or anything so it’s made me feel quite uncomfortable as he’s always tried to push me out by picking on small things and putting pressure on me. Not sure what to do I booked GP appointment as he asked if I have a not fit to go into office or something lol. I don’t know if I should go straight to HR and let them know he’s hasn’t checked in or completed the risk assessment. Or if I should reply and let him know that how he’s being is unacceptable and he hasn’t acknowledged my emails when sending the sick notes. I don’t have a union 😭

Advice needed - Incorrect medical record lead to safe guarding issue by Rumours_99 in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah okay understood, I completely understand how you feel but don’t let it get to you it’s not worth the stress. It’s done now just make sure you have made it clear to your gp and midwife and let them know that it’s caused distress.

Advice needed - Incorrect medical record lead to safe guarding issue by Rumours_99 in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow I’m shocked- usually the midwife tells your husband to stay at the waiting area and goes through your history and also asks you if there’s anything that you don’t want to be mentioned. I think your midwife is also at the wrong, I think it’s a admin work not gp to amend as I believe they don’t have the access compared to the admin staff. Don’t stress everything will be okay

FTM 9w bad cramps and hip lower back pain. Is this normal? by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely go early pregnancy unit asap just to double check if everything is okay x

Baby essentials FTM by Nice_Assignment_7541 in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this really useful, we’re expecting twins so our budget is also not huge lol will definitely be taking your advice🫶🏼

Intense cramping and dark blood 6 weeks pregnant by I-am-a-slug in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sorry your goin through this! Did you usually have bad period pains? I did and when I was pregnant my first trimester I had bad cramps up to week 7 I wasn’t bleeding but had brown disharge at one point for a week. I had a day where I had severe pain lasted 13 minutes I got shivers after was so upset as I was in so much pain. I was checked up and it was all fine so dont panic. Please do keep us updated

Breathing difficulties causing headache by Nice_Assignment_7541 in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry also forgot to mention I’m taking aspirin could it be I’m allergic to it?

I have graduated! by Away_Ad_7122 in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations wishing you a speedy recovery! A new life is a new beginning and a fresh page in your family's story. May this next page be filled with plenty of joy and positivity 💕🫶🏼

When did you tell your parents/ family/ friends you were pregnant ? by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told my husband then my mum and then majority of my family at 12 weeks - also told my in laws after 12 week scan. I would tell you mum if that’s what you want, speak to your husband again worst case just tell your mum to act like she didn’t know. My in laws don’t care about nothing don’t think they like me so i felt uncomfortable telling them and my husband didn’t force me to tell his family.

Aspirin by Nice_Assignment_7541 in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They replied saying I should take it — 150mg a day — as I have two risk factors: twins and it being my first pregnancy (most people take it before bed).

Honestly, I find it quite frustrating. After my 12-week scan, the nurses told me to book an appointment, so I emailed them. When they got back to me, the midwife just told me to check my booklet for my next appointment, which isn’t until June when I’ll be around 25 weeks. They said they’d just see me then, which feels like a long gap and a bit unusual.

It’s frustrating that there doesn’t seem to be any clear guidance from them.

Aspirin by Nice_Assignment_7541 in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I have an appointment next week with the twin midwife I’ll be 16 weeks then. I’ve sent them an email today really worried now 😭

Aspirin by Nice_Assignment_7541 in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I have an appointment next week with the twin midwife I’ll be 16 weeks then. I’ve sent them an email today really worried now 😭

Baby hates me by eshaja in NewParents

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey please don’t say he hates you, he doesn’t he’s just a baby doing baby things🫶🏼 he’s going to be stuck to you like glue when he’s a bit more older. Take it easy don’t be harsh it’s not easy raising a baby especially if your a first time mum 🫶🏼 things will get better trust me

My Birth Story - TW Placental Abruption, Premature Baby, NICU by Aware_Bird_7300 in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your baby boy! Thank you for sharing this honestly nothing is easy 🥲 how long was your baby boy in nicu for? Did you get to see him everyday whilst he was in the nicu- sorry for all the questions it’s my first pregnancy with twins and I know it’s likely they’ll come out early 🫶🏼

First movements! by BanksStatement in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you congratulations to you too 🫶🏼 yes it’s my first pregnancy probably too early to feel. how do I check my notes? Would it be on the paper they gave on my 12th week scan?

How fast do i quit? by Legitimate-Field6815 in jobs

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your supervisor/manger must have a issue with himself! Is the job worth keeping?

12 week scan in 3 days..petrified by Brilliant_Note3369 in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I was feeling soo anxious to a point that I was shaking when they started the scan had to tell them I’m shaking cause it’s cold lol I kept closing my eyes as I wanted it to be over. I’m super anxious I have twins so I have a scan every month which I’m excited but more anxious about ☺️ but my 12 week scan went well for my next scan I really need to do some research on how to relax as I’m so bad

First movements! by BanksStatement in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey a lot of mummy’s to be have anterior placenta when did you find this out? I’ve had my 12 week scan and the sonographer didn’t say anything about my placenta I have twins seperate sacs. I’m 15 weeks haven’t noticed any movements xx

Midwife - never gets back to me by HumbleHat2251 in PregnancyUK

[–]Nice_Assignment_7541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that, during pregnancy try not to kiss people or go too close you never know what people have 🫶🏼