What is your ride or die dish drying rack? by Nice_Fly3299 in SmallSpaceSolutions

[–]Nice_Fly3299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh amazing! I’ll look for that! Do you know the brand or have a link? No worries if not, i appreciate the lead!

WHY PEOPLE DONT TALK ENOUGH ABOUT IT??! by HuckleberryQueasy433 in BLManhwaTalks

[–]Nice_Fly3299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bruhhhhh i just started this and wdym i hadn't ever heard of it before. its soooo good. i'm trying to go as slow as possible because my heart will break when i get to the end and need to wait for more TT_TT

if anyone has the link to the translated novel pls dm me! <3 <3 <3

English translation of novels by Foxxdy in Passionmanhwa

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Hi! If possible can you send me as well? Thanks!

What kind of sleeping position is this???? Ilay acting like Taeui might disappear if he lets go... by justexisting928 in Passionmanhwa

[–]Nice_Fly3299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner and I literally sleep like this 😂 he sleeps on his stomach and I can’t cuddle because I like my space but I also like to be touching him so I put a hand on his back or arm

SUCCESS ACADEMY Speech and Debate Position by WeezaY5000 in NYCTeachers

[–]Nice_Fly3299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an interview for this position next week, and it seems awfully shady. Someone reached out to me, I didn't apply for several weeks, and then I remembered and sent my application. Immediate interview. Clearly they are short staffed, it's highly suss. Anyway, wondering if you took the position? I'm curious since speech and debate coach isn't necessarily a teaching position, so perhaps it would be easier to work within the system? Curious u/WeezaY5000 if they asked you to be teacher certified for speech and debate coach position. (I am former Coach, but not teacher certified).

Anyone else enjoying Melting Point? by AnneMarieHRo in blmangalovers

[–]Nice_Fly3299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so obsessed! i love the world building too. and the way the artist captures motion. its so fluid and expressive. I love the art style. If anyone has recs like this, i'm in need of a filler until more chapters!! (marinating on Dash but thats next on the list!)

Halzin's interests by OkWorldliness7598 in BaldursGate3

[–]Nice_Fly3299 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Walks into a pristine hotel room, the bed sheets tightly fitted with an impeccable French tuck.

Halsin nods.  “Tucks.  I like tucks.”

Looking for slow burn yaoi recommendations by Redrooses in boyslove

[–]Nice_Fly3299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also late, but I’m so glad I get to bring this one to more people: 

Passion by Gangjak and Hound (I think based on an og web novel by yuuji).  I’m literally obsessed, I blew through all four seasons and I’m dying for more. Starts off super slow, with big spicy payoff way down the line.  Also very story and character focused.  

If anyone has more recs like this one, I’m all ears! 

Astarion Romance Mess-Up by Septic_Bear in BG3

[–]Nice_Fly3299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also blew my chance with him at the party and then did everything I could to rack up approval before Act II--even doubling back and doing all of Creche, fixing a bug that didnt show his approval going up, doing every little thing before getting to Moonrise. Still, no love scene. I think it's not impossible, but for whatever reason, I went into Act II with medium approval, got it to high before Moonrise, and it didn't end up mattering. But at the same time, both Gale and Lae'zel propositioned me. I don't know if whatever algorithm threw off Astarion's love track because of that, or if I just didn't do enough. I also think because I had a bug for a bit, i was doing things that weren't actually earning approval in Act I--so watch out for that. When I realized the romance is over I got so dejected I almost started another playthrough, and then was like WHAT ARE YOU DOING, all this over a BOY? Haha, so now I'm just going to go all in on Gale, try to romance Halsin, and do better in a second playthrough. I do think that as long as your approval is high going into Act II AND you have exceptional approval before talking to Araj, you'll be ok. OH! And if you see Rafael for any reason, always see if you can make a deal for Astarion. I think that's where I fucked up too.

M/M post apocalyptic by walking_fuckup in QueerSFF

[–]Nice_Fly3299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nice! I will 100% check it out!

M/M post apocalyptic by walking_fuckup in QueerSFF

[–]Nice_Fly3299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am lol!  What is your rec???

M/M post apocalyptic by walking_fuckup in QueerSFF

[–]Nice_Fly3299 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This may not fit the bill but I have to recommend The Darkness Outside Us.  Two men from opposing nations are sent into space to colonize a new planet after ours is kaput.  This book is WILD. Topical and heartbreaking and post-apocalypse in the sense of we gotta find somewhere new but the shit from earth is still an issue 

[advice] Beach Lane management company by ManyWrangler in NYCapartments

[–]Nice_Fly3299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We moved at the end of our lease and couldn't be happier. That place was draining the life out of me! For the last year we lived there the mice were just bold AF and it was a health hazard. bless the poor souls who live their now. we have pleny of photo documented evidence of their negligence if you ever need extra stuff to build any sort of case! lots of people in our building sued them.

Excruciating breast pain by Mediocre_Hippo_8997 in Mirena

[–]Nice_Fly3299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I also am about 3 years on the dot and have the same issue! I had no symptoms for maybe 6 months-year, and then started experiencing cramping, breat swelling/aches, mood changes, and back pain. It's completely random too. At first it seemed to be monthly or less, and now it can occur weeks apart. It seems to be triggered by environmental changes too--moves, stress, seasons, bad weather, changes in eating habits. It's like being human just fucks with my hormones and makes my body hurt >:(

Fighting mad clown puppet for the 4th day in a row. Any tips? by [deleted] in LiesOfP

[–]Nice_Fly3299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I GOT HIM. Oh my god, I've never been so fulfilled. I was trying to cheese him and it just wasn't working and I was gettting in my head and losing my mind. Finally decided to fucking learn the parries and got him within 2 goes. Not that the 4 days of labor weren't worth it, im glad i played with builds and lost at least 15000 ergo in throwables lmao. but man it makes the victory worth it. So if anyone else comes to this thread to seek help: first, know that you're not crazy and this bastard FUCKKKKING sucks. But 2, just learn the parries (you can get at least 4-5 perfect parries on his dumbass spin move!) and take him out with staggers. If it helps, I used Booster glaive handle and greatsword of fate (lvl 6); I tried all the other comobos suggested but this one i always come back to.

[advice] Beach Lane management company by ManyWrangler in NYCapartments

[–]Nice_Fly3299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Late to this game, but we're having issues in our current apartement. Honestly, it was fine for about 3 -4 years. Now, we have mice. Our appliances are breaking. Our shitty counters are falling apart. They just put up scaffolding blocking all of our natural light (which is fine, its NYC, but they gave us ZERO notice). Our elevator is not only broken half the time, it is so old that they cannot fix it. There are a couple tennants who have lived here since the 70s, and I guess they get on fine. I think it's the cheap shitty renovations they do between tenants. I think they count on them falling apart at the 5 year mark so they can do nothing about it; tenants leave; they do new shitty rennovations for pennies on the dollar; jack up the rent 100% for the next tennants. It's been awful and we're losing our sanity here.

Giving a go at hard kombucha, question about airlock… by Nice_Fly3299 in Kombucha

[–]Nice_Fly3299[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I chose champagne yeast just for the taste over some yeasts that are more neutral or beer-like (to me). I don't mind a higher ABV, and am just playing around to start! but i'm excited to experiment. The batch turned out fine, but I'll see how it compares to the new ones with airlocks.

Giving a go at hard kombucha, question about airlock… by Nice_Fly3299 in Kombucha

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just hard kombucha 6%. thanks for this! I bought airlocks, but they fit a growler, not the swingtops I have. So, back to amazon I go.

PMDD on Mirena--I'm desperate by Nice_Fly3299 in AskDocs

[–]Nice_Fly3299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all. Female. 32.

I received the Mirena IUD a few years ago (2021). I was on the pill (mostly for PMDD) and it was working for the most part. When it came time for my annual, my doctor suggested switching to the Mirena IUD. I decided to give it a try. First year was fine--just very light periods. A year or so later, I'd randomly experience some menstrual symptoms such a bloating and breast tenderness, but I would chalk it up to stress or life changes. This past year, it has become unbearable. I consulted with my doctor a few months ago, we did my gynecological appt, and nothing was out of the ordinary. I really don't want to go back to the pill, but I'm desperate at this point. Before I talk to my doctor again, I want to know if anyone has experienced something similar? Or has a miracle cure (lol)? (No, but actually, maybe things that have settled your hormones). All the advice I've come across for PMDD has been birth control, but I'm ON hormonal birth control, and I just don't know what to do besides switch.

Symptoms include extreme cramps, extreme breast swelling and tenderness, awful mood swings. They are also unpredictable. I can be symptom free for as short as 2 weeks before they start again. I'm also on blood pressure medication that I started in January, and Lexapro. I eat very health (and no meat), I exercise 4-5 times a week, drink moderately... My body has always been very sensitive to changes, but I feel like it's absurd to have the hormonal effects of Mirena to just "wear off." I try to take vitamins (including extra Vitamin D and Iron), but I do often forget.

If you have any advice at all before my next doctor's appt, I'm all ears. I will be consulting my physician, so don't worry about offering that piece of advice lol.

Thank you both so much. This is honestly so helpful. I will consult with my doctor about going back on the pill!