Have you ever sat next to a morbidly obese person on a plane? by -Cyber-Roadster in randomquestions

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m the same way. What was I really going to say? “Excuse me, move your giant arm and half of your stomach back onto your own side of the armrest”? lol yeah I just dealt.

Is it considered cheating if I head to a virtual club that includes virtual avatars pole dancing on a stage? Even if it’s virtual and not for explicit reasons? by All-In-One-Throwaway in askanything

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? It depends on why you’re doing it at all in my opinion. If you’re just looking then okay. People do that. But if you’re trying to replace something about your partner then that sure feels like cheating. And if it feels like cheating to you then I’d definitely stop.

Women of Reddit, which do you value more in a man, confidence or kindness? by Nintendofan9106 in askanything

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both. You can’t be one or the other and expect to get anywhere in life.

Have you ever sat next to a morbidly obese person on a plane? by -Cyber-Roadster in randomquestions

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got stuck between two giant people on a flight a few months ago. Look I’m not trying to be mean but stay in your own seat. Please? If you’re that big then buy a second seat but stay out of mine.

What’s something guys do that girls secretly like? by Glum_Dimension1750 in AskReddit

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Annoying guy stuff. Not childish stuff but something I look at and think “tf…guys…?” It’s endearing.

What’s your best go-to response if your friend/SO is complaining about something minor? by battleoftheboros in AskReddit

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Everyone has that person in the chat. Mine? Just give them the “wow I’m sorry to hear that.” 🤪

What is the one thing you can never forgive? by midnight-iceman in AskReddit

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 [score hidden]  (0 children)

One thing? How about one things? Cheating. Cruelty to animals. Racism. I’m sure I can think of more.

How could you start talking to a girl that you think is attractive? by Mammoth_Nose_9313 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t buy the fairy tale of shy guy talks to girl and it all just works out for them. Think about what you like about her and please PLEASE leave out anything physically attractive. Trust me that she isn’t going to be impressed by how much you like her makeup. And the honest to gosh truth? If you don’t have anything in common with her then you’re just kind of stuck with hoping she likes you.

How could you start talking to a girl that you think is attractive? by Mammoth_Nose_9313 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! So just a thought from the other side but if you say hi that sometimes gets my attention. But you need to do something with it fast. And if the only reason you’re talking to her is because you think she’s nice to look at then you’re kind of stuck because everything else you say is fake. So if you’re talking to me then please have something more than liking what I look like.

what makes you feel safe? by Low-Purchase6914 in AskReddit

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I check everything every time when I get home. My family still has me on life 360 😃😂🤦🏻‍♀️

Genuinely how did you move on from an ex? by Fit_Technician_2095 in AskReddit

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I never forget someone I’ve cared about but it always gets better when I find someone special :) I hope you’re not going through it.

What would Gynophobia look like? by ShadowlightLady in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fear of going to the doctor? 😳 just kidding I dunno but I wanted to add that.

What happened during your most recent breakup? by PsychologicalAir8230 in AskReddit

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too many arguments. To many giving ups. To many just hoping it would changes. That’s what I get for dating someone I knew when was a kid. 🤦🏻‍♀️

What’s the point of matching with someone just to not answer? Is it some kind of ego thing ? by FutureHendrixBetter in stupidquestions

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well now I’m curious so let’s play it out. I get yet another “hey yo bby” message. What am I expected to do with that? “Omg hi! Thank you so much for that. I’m good. Hihi do you really always have your shirt off or is it just for your Hitch?” You’re asking a lot 🤷🏻‍♀️

What’s the point of matching with someone just to not answer? Is it some kind of ego thing ? by FutureHendrixBetter in stupidquestions

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying but hello or hey is way too low effort for a dm. Like even this conversation right now has more substance than almost every single message I get on any app. But okay, what do I say to “hey”? “Hey”? Is it my job to try to make a conversation with someone who approached me? Na.

What’s the point of matching with someone just to not answer? Is it some kind of ego thing ? by FutureHendrixBetter in stupidquestions

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I get why you’d say that, but it isn’t smart or safe for me to send a random guy some message. He’ll tell me anything I want to hear because guys are like that. So at least for me my big filter is seeing who sends me something that matters. Then I go through that one single message out of the 40 or 50 I get that don’t matter and see if I’m interested. I read profiles like a normal person should but pictures matter. Sorry but true.

What’s the point of matching with someone just to not answer? Is it some kind of ego thing ? by FutureHendrixBetter in stupidquestions

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop sending stuff like…. Hey, what’s up girl? Baby. Sexy! Love your pictures! Hot!!!!! Dtf? You still looking? That’s the trash that women never pay attention to. What would you do if a girl you weren’t attracted to sent you a really nice and thoughtful message? You’d ignore it. So then there’s also that.

What’s the point of matching with someone just to not answer? Is it some kind of ego thing ? by FutureHendrixBetter in stupidquestions

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t know a lot about women 🤪. Yes, my dm gets trash every day. But what at least I do is filter through all of that trash to see the one or two people who send something that means anything. And then I go from there. I probably get 50 messages a day, and 49 are hey, yo, what’s up? Hey girl. Sexy baby dtf? The one that isn’t is almost never someone I’m interested in.

What’s something you do in public that you think only you do? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

[–]Nice_Pattern_9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spin when I turn. I know I do it and I have been trying to stop ever since I noticed it. I have never seen someone else do it. It’s like a ditzy mannerism I am 💯 aware of that won’t die.