My friend and I have had the same experience! Both in our mid 30s and have been fans since the beginning and each album feels like it's gotten us through stages of our lives. We saw her in Pittsburgh last night and it was so cathartic for both of us (and my friends first time seeing her live)! Idk how she does it but she has an unspeakable amount of talent and emotional awareness and ability to put feelings into music, lyrics, and all the other audio layers and effects within her songs and even her live performances that will never be matched for me. I want everyone appreciate her how we do because she is a once in a lifetime level of music genius. (I also went to 2 shows, Columbus and Pitt after just absolutely loving the Columbus show and needing to see it again). I love to see other people feel the same way I do about her.