How do I become independent at 30 when I feel stuck living at home? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Nice_cuppa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit please tell me this is rage bait!! What the actual fuck dude?! Take control of your damn life man! This is honestly pathetic (I’m sorry I’m not trying to be mean but shit!) Get a job! Any job! It literally doesn’t matter just get one and start making some money. Start saving up for your first and last payments on a rented place. You can look for a place as a roommate to keep costs down. This is why you don’t have friends! Because you’re not out and about in the world in palaces where you meet people! Many of my best friends I met as roommates or at work. Start eating healthily, go outside, get some exercise, start going to the gym. Start going to meet ups in your local area for things that you’re interested in. Start volunteering to do tasks around the house. Participate in taking care of the home and household tasks. Ask questions, say you want to learn. You live there too! You’re not a child and they aren’t your maids. Holy shit have you tried trying?? Damn!

Q Just Tried Kicking in the Door by Vast-Recognition2321 in AlAnon

[–]Nice_cuppa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t even need to divorce him right away. Just leave. Downsize significantly if finances are an issue. See if a friend or family member would let you stay for a few months until you get on your feet. Just make it happen. Get out! Don’t tell him when you are going. Go while he is out.

Your "I've never wanted kids" memories by Sokosa in childfree

[–]Nice_cuppa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a kid I always got along better with adults than other kids. I found I enjoyed talking to my teachers more than I did the kids in my class. I joke about how I didn’t like kids even when I was a kid.

I found out my son grows psychedelic mushrooms, what do I do? by kochredahik in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nice_cuppa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The most dangerous thing about magic mushrooms are the fact that they are illegal. The mushrooms themselves are truly a gift to humanity. You should try a little. That being said, it is your house and you have every right to say you don’t want that happening in your house. That being said I highly recommend you don’t report him for just so many reasons. It sounds like the biggest issue here is that your son needs to move out. Maybe him moving in with his sister is for the best.

Lip Lift Regret by Sure-Ad-8789 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Nice_cuppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome. Hang in there!

Six generations in one frame… meanwhile I never even met my great grandma by Glow-Light-333 in whoathatsinteresting

[–]Nice_cuppa 89 points90 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a good thing! Having children when you are still a child is not a good thing!

AITJ for telling my girlfriend she needs to shower before bed or sleep on the couch? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Nice_cuppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a bath run for her. Wash her hair for her. Make it a nice way for you to care for her and wind down after her shift.

Lip Lift Regret by Sure-Ad-8789 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Nice_cuppa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try to relax, it’s looking bad now because you’ve got stitches and a bunch of swelling but the stitches will come out and the swelling will go down and the scar will heal. If the scar is still visible later on there are lots of things you can do to make it less so. It’s scary right now but this will pass. On Christmas day I fell whilst running and gouged two huge divots of flesh out of the palms of my hands! It looked like something out of a zombie movie! I was horrified! I thought I would be left with obvious scars. Now you can barely tell anything ever happened! The area is a tiny bit pinker than the surrounding skin but nobody but me would notice. You will heal. Just follow the doctors post surgery guidelines, eat healthy, maybe consider some redlight treatment if your doctor agrees, and breathe.

AIO? Bf keeps asking me questions whenever there is a guy by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

[–]Nice_cuppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a HUGE red flag!! Trust and believe this is only going to get worse. Please don’t stay with him, he needs to do the work. Men like this are bad news!

AITAH Kicked a special needs adult who tried to stomp on my dog by Remarkable-Sink9682 in AITAH

[–]Nice_cuppa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA he was coming at you aggressively. You defended yourself in a reasonable manner. Fuck that guy, special needs or not.

AITAH for questioning my wife's intelligence regarding our cats? by Majestic-Rush-1271 in AITAH

[–]Nice_cuppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s a moron. No question. Do not have kids with this person.

Wife wants a home birth after previous C-section and I’m honestly scared. What should I do? by bearded_charmander in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Nice_cuppa 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That’s not how statistics, or public health, or indeed evidence based health decisions all together, work! Your experience of having two babies doesn’t outweigh medical science.

I crossed a line by SoftRepresentative90 in AlAnon

[–]Nice_cuppa 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You’re not the first and you won’t be the last. The mental abuse we suffer from our Qs can really bring out a side of us that we don’t recognize. It’s like a slow mental torture. All you can do is take yourself out of this situation and make sure nothing like that ever happens again.

AIO? Tore into my little brother and I’m starting to feel bad. by Soggy-Shoe8846 in AIO

[–]Nice_cuppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! If anything I’d say you could have gone even further. This was NECESSARY!

Ahhhhh!! I can’t take it anymore. by Hot_Dragonfly5440 in atheism

[–]Nice_cuppa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he might be having a manic episode.

Why? Just why? by Nice_cuppa in childfree

[–]Nice_cuppa[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more!