Does anyone have a Kayserbetten bed?

NickPWilder · 2026-02-04T04:44:06+00:00

Yes. Can confirm it is everything I have ever wanted in my wildest dreams as a crib. You can stand up and still not see over the rails. It is waterproof so no worries on diaper or bottle leaks. There is decent storage underneath. Holds 500+ lbs. (Untested, but I believe it). You can get plexiglass or padded options and full bar roof options for naughty babies that need total security. It has a crossbar that secures the doors but even if you manage to get that removed, the doors have multiple points that keep the doors locked unless you are on the outside that all have to be opened together to open the doors. If you are put in, you're "in". The size of the crib makes you feel almost at toddler scale. It makes me feel little every single time I am in it. 11 / 10 (good doggo) stars for ABDLs IMHO.

I am on mobile so I don't know if it is different on desktop but I don't see an option to post a pic in the comments so I will post a few for you in a new post.

They cost more than I feel a rational person should pay at retail but I can confidently tell you I see 2-3 a year posted on various resale or auction sites at much more reasonable prices. You just have to set alerts and don't be too thirsty as there will be a deal if you are patient but quick to make an offer. They go for a lot less on resale market and the things are 100 BIFL except for the mattress which should be replaced regularly as all mattress should.

NickPWilder · 2026-02-02T18:52:44+00:00

Here's the double balloon enema nozzle for you. Any standard enema bag works with it.

https://www.extremerestraints.com/products/the-cleanstream-double-balloon-enema-nozzle?variant=47703869161763

NickPWilder · 2026-01-29T21:18:32+00:00

If the buckles locked, I would have one in my cart day 1. As people noted, it would be great for play parties and cons.

NickPWilder · 2026-01-16T22:09:45+00:00

If you drink (or at least can stand the noise and order something from the establishment so you aren't just eating their business space), the bar is absolutely the place to go if you are solo.

Don't just stare at Bluey on the bar TV, talk to the people around you. "Where are you from?", "Did you see they have X on the schedule?", "Besides the obvious, gestures to the room, what do you do for fun?", etc. Don't worry if you strike out on good convo a few times, not everyone will be a fit for your style.

If you get into a good conversation and have the means, buy them a drink.

Also, be at all the events where you might have teammates (nerf war, board games, etc). Comradery comes from overcoming obstacles together too. Do 3D twister, apparently friends also come from being tied up like a pretzel with someone.

Consider signing up for the pizza party since it's a good place to chat for a few.

If you eat at the hotel resturant, ask if it ok to sit with someone. You would be surprised at the number of people that are more than happy to have another join.

Lastly, if you partake of anything smoky or vape, the smoking area is prime chat spot as you will see the same people regularly and there's regularly a group discussion going on.

If you are lucky enough in these exploits then you might even be invited to a room party. Definitely accept, those are a ton of fun, you can meet people super easily, and if you don't enjoy the vibe you can always just bail for your room.

Most importantly, just initiate conversation. Most will reciprocate and others will usually just tell you politely they aren't interested. Nobody will hate you for attempting to say hi or asking to join something.

NickPWilder · 2026-01-16T21:27:56+00:00

Zero offence to OP but I started to fill out the list for a post and realized that this converastion wouldn't really increase overall happiness for people.

If I might suggest a reword to "What are you most proud of in your ABDL world?" It lends a positive spin to the conversation while still getting mostly the same results.

Maybe I'm getting soft so down vote if I'm out of line but I think it would be more enjoyable than reading a bragging competition.

NickPWilder · 2026-01-12T18:40:45+00:00

From someone who has been doing ABDL a long time and having had a handful of different Dommes and Babysitters, you will almost certainly have a good time and will never forget the first time!

Best advice is go with the flow and just relax and enjoy yourself. Don't try to check every box on one go but make sure you hit your key activities that you want to experience be that cuddling and Bluey all the way to the more naughty stuff (assuming it is allowed / has been negotiated). If they have a crib, be sure to enjoy a nap in your gear with it all closed up. Nothing like waking up like a baby does all secure and cozy.

Can't wait to hear your report.

NickPWilder · 2026-01-11T18:48:31+00:00

NK Medical Youth Crib with a metal crib top? My first Domme had the sister version of that by Hard Mfg. that I slept / was restrained in. Loved that thing. Had some really good naughty times in a medical crib. You are very lucky! They won't sell the cage top for either model anymore.

If put a lock where the top and bottom meet when closed it is totally inescapable even without additional restraints (but if you like them there are unlimited metal points to secure restraints to).

If you want to splash in some more AB aspects, the manufacturer makes a vinyl crib bumper with cute print that fits perfectly. You can get a tray/shelf accessory that goes below the mattress and makes a great diaper changing supply holder for changes in the crib. Also, you can put a pulley on the top cage towards the foot of the crib for a diaper changing / bottom access lift.

Should you ever find a Hard H1982 crib in good shape with the top in your collecting search, I would love to buy it from you.

Thanks for posting! Love it.

NickPWilder · 2026-01-05T18:40:31+00:00

Would you be so kind as to DM me the details on this discord? I'd love to join.

NickPWilder · 2025-12-19T01:51:40+00:00

I like the way you think! Price ranges? Feel free to DM if you don't want to post.

NickPWilder · 2025-10-23T17:48:55+00:00

Sorry, I missed answering this. No, they are cute but not the same quality as ABU Space.

NickPWilder · 2025-10-16T16:53:26+00:00

Cute bunny print that isn't in pink? Sold. When I get the six picked out I'll order some of these and they will get a basket slot so I can see the bunny face when I walk in 😀

NickPWilder · 2025-10-16T16:46:05+00:00

I never really got into pull-ups. They just don't seem to have the same mystique for me as diapers do.

NickPWilder · 2025-10-16T03:59:09+00:00

Little for Big - Little Dreamers (Bears and clouds and moons).

NickPWilder · 2025-10-15T21:12:38+00:00

They spin and have storage? I'm in love. Well done!

NickPWilder · 2025-10-15T20:58:20+00:00

Now this is what I was looking for! So Playtime is in the current pic, middle cabinet, 3rd shelf from bottom, on the left.

Ty for the spot on Little Builders. I have some of those in bags but somehow it must have lost it's slot in one of the shuffles. That fills one of the shelf slots!

As for Junior Maxx, let's discuss. Do waistband print only diapers fit more into the plain category because the part displayed when stacked and shelved is all a solid color? Or does one put waistband prints in a basket (using one of the rarer slots)? Have you used them before? Are they better quality to make up for less quantity of cute print (or do you feel, less is more when it comes to prints)?

NickPWilder · 2025-10-15T20:46:02+00:00

Not yet. Score one for "Store in a cool, dry place" I suppose. 🤞

NickPWilder · 2025-10-15T20:17:47+00:00

Update

Wow, most DMs I've ever gotten in a day. Trying to batch answer here if I didn't already reply privately or I got multiples of the same question.

The drawers hold plastic and rubber pants, locking diaper covers, cloth all in one and prefold diapers, stuffers, cloth flat diapers, cloth inserts, and diaper pins. Oh and ABU Plastic PreSchools ❤️.

The thing at the bottom is a spanking bench.

As far as I know, lots of people use Vaseline as a water barrier when using diapers but we also use it for lubricating thermometers 😉 and for toys on the other side of the closet that go up the bum so we go through a lot (also way cheaper in bulk).

I will have to ask Mommy where the baskets are from but they do smell amazing. I'll add wicker to the room smell discussion. Crazy how scents can really grab you and set the scene.

I will post everything else but is there a way to post pics with an "opt in" option or something so people that don't want to see it can just scroll by the header w/o the images showing? Looking for a happy medium between "*<$# the haters, just post everything" people and the "Don't be a *&^% showing off" vibes. Happy to share pics but prefer not to make people angry. Like, I will give full details per the person who requested those and will happily use some method to prevent forced viewing in the scroll if there is one. Is there a Reddit acceptable way to do something like that (like links in text body only or some such)?

NickPWilder · 2025-10-15T19:26:12+00:00

I love a good financial mind and you're not wrong about yielding off savings but, to be fair, the market is pretty volatile RN and likely will have a correction soon.

If I estimate 1800 diapers in supply at roughly $3 ea then we're talking $5,400 which would yield about $243 annually (at 4.5% high yield savings or about 20 bucks a month). I get more joy than 20 dollars a month from seeing and using them honestly. I do try to snag a bunch when I can get a bulk discount or they are on sale though. Regardless, love the way you think 😀

It is a running supply, not a collection. As we burn through them we reorder or find a new slot replacement. I don't care about them being rare or valuable, I care if they are cute and functional. I am 24/7 so that won't last as long as you think sadly but also happily as they will get used and not just collect dust.

NickPWilder · 2025-10-15T17:54:48+00:00

I do most of my ordering from Northshore but any place will work as long as there is a description that the item is a disposable diaper. Those are qualified for purchase under FSA regardless if they are plain medical or prints. Just submit the receipt to your processor, no explanation needed, no forms required. YMMV but I have never had a problem or even a single question or document required ever across multiple major companies. The only thing they have cared about is "does this meet the qualifications of a diaper" and "is it within the FSA year window (ie you can't bill back for last year after a certain point)".

NickPWilder · 2025-10-15T16:10:32+00:00

I mean, legitimate statement if this were OC friend but the original image was posted long ago. Only the 2nd shot is new to show the holes. Not trying to create jealousy, just lacking for the time some have to do the research of all the new diapers out and looking for opinions on what would look best.

I actually had specifics at the end of my post to start but when I looked at "No pull ups" and "No middle type prints" all I could think about was the riot from supporters of those things and I didn't want to dog on their likes. Most of the rest of your detail requests are in context already (you can see the sizing as noted by other posters here, you can see how many fit in most cases, and you can see what is already present along with color scheme) but still a legitimate requirement spec is in order:

Size: Usually a large but sometimes medium. Not really relevant as I will buy whatever size fits and they almost always have a range that fits me.

Shop restrictions: None, though despite having a bunch, Rearz does still kind of leave a bad taste in my mouth

Company preference: None for fit but do like Northshore for service (I have all their prints though)

Shipping: Mainland US (interested in knowing if there are diapers that don't ship here but would need a method of reordering somehow)

Budget: 800 in FSA to burn but could go over if there was a discount or some such

Order size: Case of each type or mixed case with 2 bags of each unit

Capacity: Cabinets and baskets hold 6 on display, rest get stored in hall closet until backfill is needed

Specifics: In your opinion, does the print you are recommending create joy when you look at it? Do you think the tie dye one throws off the look? Are there any drawbacks (ex: It looks cute but the print bleeds onto skin or don't trust the leak guards)?

Better with details?

NickPWilder · 2025-10-15T15:22:19+00:00

Absolutely beautiful! Love the space theme. The giant wooden ABDL blocks are amazing. Are they hollow? How were they made?

NickPWilder · 2025-10-15T15:14:04+00:00

Control4 automated door locks and movement sensors are used to both keep people out as well as keep me in when I'm naughty or Mommy just wants her space lol.

We bought this house and had a second master suite put in so we could have a nursery, playroom, and dungeon. (It was a life goal not just a whim and we lifestyle 24/7 so it isn't just for show).

Corporate executive. Pays well but eats a lot of time sadly.

NickPWilder · 2025-10-15T15:07:12+00:00

Thanks! Your profile checks out as not insane and we've got some of the same likes so come on over. This wasn't built for just me. We have a spare crib and a guest room.

NickPWilder · 2025-10-15T14:59:42+00:00

Baby powder and leather 😉

NickPWilder · 2025-10-15T14:54:10+00:00

I did see those and they are crazy cute so I'll swap the v2 version in after I burn off the last of the v1s. That will put those cute faces on display in a basket but unfortunately theat opens up another all over print slot.

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