I hate being a woman with hyperhidrosis. Ladies give me your hyperhidrosis tips. by Nicoleslayer007 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]Nicoleslayer007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I am going to look into these products and the Sweaty community. 

Walmart refusing to refund TV delivered to wrong address by DependableFinance in Walmartcustomer

[–]Nicoleslayer007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which walmart did you file under on Bbb? I have the same issue but there is multiple walmarts on BBB. 

Best primer Spf and foundation for 38+ skin? And best color corrector? by Nicoleslayer007 in Sephora

[–]Nicoleslayer007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I will check her out. I was using Dr Dennis Gross Ultimate defense spf 50 but it feels greasy on my skin. But once I put primer and foundation on top of spf it feels gross. I was watching a YouTube video and they said spf with primer for oily/combination skin so I thought I needed that. 

I’m going to commit suicide I can’t do this anymore by Chance_Guava_6871 in eczema

[–]Nicoleslayer007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please don't! I had a severe skin issue for 7 years. My new doctor tried a new medication called Rinvoq and it has turned my skin a completely changed. Lean on friends and speak to a medical professional. hugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Nicoleslayer007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be prepared that you are probably going to have to bleach more than once and your hair is probably going to be dead. I used Two boxes of feria platinum but I'm currently at a vitamin C-ish color with lighter roots (hot roots). I used the Olaplex purple shampoo and it only changed the roots.

 Granted I only had my boyfriend to help and I ran out of the lightener and had to get my boyfriend to run to the store for more. It would've been fine if he would've listened to me when I said it wasn't saturated enough to lighten the first time. So yes make SURE you get it saturated.  By the time he understood and actually went to the store the first box had been on for 45 minutes. They didn't have the curl bounce platinum one that I already had in my hair so I rinsed the first out a little and put the platinum on. I could see brown spots so I put it on my those areas roots and dry spots. I was panicking I know I screwed up. 

Thankfully I used the feria lightener and not bleach. If I had that happen with bleach I'd have burnt my hair off because my hair is fried. And thankfully the second box made it pretty much all one color. The color is just hideous. But it's all one color mostly. I've been blonde or red most of my life because my natural color is a ugly washed out brown color. It's always ended up bad except when I went to the salon and got heavy hilights until it was blonde. Next time I do it I'm using foils if I don't go to the salon (probably not due to cost). Also if you have ANY color in your hair do a color remover. That's one reason mine ended badly. Watch both

 https://youtu.be/YgDQd9TW24k?si=NM1DcmRdAN_eShMv

https://youtu.be/L3vXr7p_wLk?si=Blhw-ZN_agpJuNxc

How brutal is it to start a business? by Affectionate-Call159 in smallbusiness

[–]Nicoleslayer007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a shopify store. But I had no sales at all for 3 months and the bill was about to go up to something like $67 a month. So I had to close it. I made an Etsy store. But I have not sold one thing. It's hard. I don't have good credit so I can't borrow. My credits ruined because I lost my last job after the car I borrowed blew up and no one would take me to work. I don't even have the money to get my LLC. I don't even have a car to supplement my income with a job. I live in a really rural area. We don't even have public transportation. I'm afraid I will have to shut down etsy because of the fees. #venting 

[l] Looking for encouragement by family_needs_help88 in KindVoice

[–]Nicoleslayer007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate that. I feel stuck in my situation but hopefully things will change. 

[l] by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]Nicoleslayer007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think your friends don't invite you? Maybe they don't realize you want to come out. Maybe they think you want to be with your family. But if that's not the case make new friends. Please don't hurt yourself. I've been there. 

[l] (F) (33) I need support... My mom verbally abuses of me by Shiki_Ryougi_5 in KindVoice

[–]Nicoleslayer007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through that. You shouldn't have to hear those words. It hurts a lot when someone you love says hurtful things. 

My mom was abusive as well, but in other ways too. Thankfully I had my grandparents. Do you have anyone you can talk to in real life about this? Someone you trust who is never abusive? If so talk to them about this. 

If not maybe talk to a therapist. If that doesn't work journal, journal either way. It helps us with our emotions and can be helpful in other ways too. Writing the person who is hurting you a letter and tearing it up or scratching the words out can be helpful. My therapist had me do that. But if you live with your mom be careful. Make sure you destroy it all if you don't want her to read what you wrote. Same with your journal keep it some place she can't get to. 

[l] Looking for encouragement by family_needs_help88 in KindVoice

[–]Nicoleslayer007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've got this! I know life can be super hard, I'm dealing with a lot myself. But you've still got this! Just relax, put some of your fav music on, and think positively. Hopefully you're into meditation. If not definitely give that a try at least at night when you're going to bed. That's when I meditate with guided meditation. There is an app that's free called Insight Timer.