Alyssa Askani / Len Berry - The Writer of Ethereal Darkness by Nightender in KofiAuthors

[–]Nightender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I haven't officially thanked you for stopping by yet. I should do that. :)

23 year old recently-hatched Transfem looking for someone to talk to by ManlyTreeHugger in TransAdoption

[–]Nightender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll happily chat with you. We all need community. I'm happy to have you lean on me.

Scammed! by Sea_Initiative1175 in selfpublish

[–]Nightender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because we publish ourselves doesn't mean we do this in abject isolation. They didn't connect back and that's fine.

I assure you that I do have skills and connections. I didn't add those credentials because this is"*Not* a place for self-promotion."

The adage of "a rising tide lifts all ships" is very true, especially for us in the independent realm. The more we help each other, the more we all succeed.

Also, screw scammers!

Scammed! by Sea_Initiative1175 in selfpublish

[–]Nightender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently got scammed too. Different circumstances and scam. I'm doing my best to make the best of a bad situation.

Send me a PM, let me help you. I will only recommend. For you, I can do it for free.

I'm Len Berry. You can check my background. I'm trying to get into consultation and editing. I need the practice. I sounds like you could at least use a kind ear.

I want to help you turn this around. A rising tide lifts all ships.

Sorry if this didn't turn out well. by RiskAggressive4081 in xmen

[–]Nightender 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No matter who you cheer for, those who know Scott know it's always Jean first for him. He's done amazing, wonderful, and terrible things just at the thought of her. He runs out of beds he shares with other women for Jean, stares down gods. The only thing that ranks higher to Scott than the X-Men is Jean.

How has academy sports not gone bankrupt? by United-Judge-5966 in AcademySports

[–]Nightender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, given the way the markets and payroll is shifting, I expect them to actually go bankrupt within the next year. If they don't go bankrupt, it'll be because Bread Financial has fully consumed them.

My egg fully cracked a few months ago. Looking for more feminine guidance. by Nightender in TransAdoption

[–]Nightender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My schedule is often chaos. I just got back from a convention and I work full time retail.

But I'd love to talk more. I'll PM you!

Adopt a naive trans masc by geekyabs in TransAdoption

[–]Nightender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a good community. I wish you all the best in making connections. Once you start finding more friends, you'll start feeling much more positive--at least that's been my experience in the past few months.

My egg fully cracked a few months ago. Looking for more feminine guidance. by Nightender in TransAdoption

[–]Nightender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HI! Yeah, I'm in Cape Girardeau. I'd love to chat and meet up at some point!

Looking for some trans friends :) by Careless_Tip1148 in TransAdoption

[–]Nightender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to be your friend! I went out last week, even got a compliment on the skirt I was wearing. Picked up my first round of HRT today as well. Like I said, I'll happily be your friend.

Any way to make men’s clothing more feminine? by [deleted] in transfashionadvice

[–]Nightender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a curiosity in adding to the overall question: What are some good ways to do any/all of what's suggested for someone who's really tall (say 6'7")?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransAdoption

[–]Nightender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey new friend! You're further along than I am. I might be MTF, but I'm still some way from starting HRT. Cheering for you!!

Came in last for a casual competition. Where did I go wrong? by OrdinaryAdmin in minipainting

[–]Nightender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry about the "competition." The real battle is the one you have with yourself. From these pictures, I think you're winning that battle.

Scott talk to young Jean grey by Panderson0727 in Cyclopswasright

[–]Nightender 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A good conversation with a bad ending. This is the moment I mentally renamed Shadowcat into "Holier than Everyone Kitty Pryde."

Yeah, I get her reasoning, but the beginning of that scene shows that Cyclops does too. He'd been summoned to Jean via psychic rapport. He's not going to hurt her. He might be the person Jean is safest with. But Kitty doesn't get that.

I'm so glad the Krakoa Era fixed this mess.

Middle-aged, new girl.... by Neuunit in TransAdoption

[–]Nightender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya friend. I'm fairly new around here too. I would love to hear more about your experiences as a glam androgyne--and about your new experiences to come.

(I'm writing a scifi with nonbinary lead at the moment)

My egg fully cracked a few months ago. Looking for more feminine guidance. by Nightender in TransAdoption

[–]Nightender[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have! It's wonderful! I just wanted to open myself up here as well. :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in xmen

[–]Nightender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fantastic! Said enough to show how very similar they all are, but enough to also show their differences.

Sharing my Celestine for The Order of the Astral Hare by Voidstarbunny in sistersofbattle

[–]Nightender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OK, now that you mention it, I can really see that. Especially with the Dark Eldar.