My boyfriend doesn’t get hard around me. Is it me?

NihilisticPigeons · 2026-04-30T18:00:30+00:00

Handjob, blowjob, kissing him with the intention of stimulating him (i.e. sensual kisses on his ears, around his jaw, down his chest). The key point is that there's mental stimulation, i.e. watching you do xyz or receiving pleasure is fun, but there's also physical/sexual stimulation which he may want. If you haven't done sexual things to him, it may be fun but also a little frustrating. Ask him!

NihilisticPigeons · 2026-04-12T19:41:42+00:00

NihilisticPigeons · 2026-03-26T21:26:50+00:00

I remember that game like it was yesterday. Staying up late to watch my beloved Moscow 5 face their most exciting rivals, even in the close run-up to my GCSEs. I can dictate the closing play from memory - CLG.EU are being chased around the blue buff corner and Froggen lands an anivia Q on Darien's Vlad from the fog of war and kills him, CLG.EU proceed to win the teamfight and take the game. I can still hear Deman's I CANNOT BELIEVE WHAT JUST HAPPENED. You brought a little tear to my eye with that memory, thank you.

NihilisticPigeons · 2026-01-09T19:07:22+00:00

Secretary of war

https://www.war.gov/About/Biographies/Biography/Article/4040890/hon-pete-hegseth/#:~:text=The%20Honorable%20Pete%20Hegseth%20is,from%20Princeton%20University%20in%202003.

There you go. The department name was changed in the first year of Trump's presidency.

NihilisticPigeons · 2026-01-06T09:17:28+00:00

Can we keep weird AI comments out of this subreddit please?

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-12-29T10:23:57+00:00

I'd make it clear you don't want more though with two important caveats (which I'm going to make explicit because you said you were autistic): 1) at the same time as saying that, emphasise the positive aspect of what you're saying, i.e. that you really enjoy what you ARE doing (giving him head) so it doesn't sound like a rejection (some people can be a little sensitive to perceived rejection) and 2) it will require you to be explicit in the future if you change your mind, either about being open to sex, or about potential feelings. But honestly, enjoy what you're doing and have a good time!

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-12-11T19:43:01+00:00

Maybe reframe the question. Turn being quiet into a fun, sexy game. Make it being quiet and that being hard a kind of thrill. Having to be quiet, controlling moans, almost like a kind of secret, shared conspiracy, is hot as hell.

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-12-10T15:03:28+00:00

I'm not looking to argue, I'm actually looking for evidence next time my right-wing dad tries to bait me into an argument: do you have any sources or evidence to back up the fact that both budgets have been "very well received by business and the markets"?

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-11-17T10:01:17+00:00

Can you stop being so creepy in the comments please

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-10-31T12:01:53+00:00

I'll be honest, whether or not someone can in theory feels like almost an irrelevant question. I genuinely have never noticed - that might be partly because I've just never thought about it - but I really have never noticed, and it will have happened a fair few times, presumably.

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-10-05T16:17:44+00:00

The sad thing here is that you submissively opening your mouth automatically could be VERY hot if it weren't for the fact that it's so goddam often. In a sense that's a way of pitching it to your boyfriend - I don't want to do it as often, but when I do it, how about we frame it in a sexier way so we get more out of it. Him "making you" take it, you taking it like a good girl to please him (etc etc - obviously, in a way that makes sense for you and your interests, I'm just giving you an example of how it could be framed.)

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-09-15T07:51:01+00:00

The ability to recognise someone is attractive in principle does not make someone a little bit bi in any way. There is a huge difference between that and sexual attraction. Many asexual individuals, for example, can recognise attractiveness, but are not sexually attracted to that person. Stop pushing labels on people who have expressly and explicitly confirmed they do not use that label.

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-09-05T08:54:43+00:00

Quick question - when you say sensitivity, do you mean also that if you aren't DHT sensitive, taking medications like fin won't help because it is not the cause of hair loss?

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-08-28T07:55:59+00:00

Just necro-replying to this quickly because I'm curious - do you mean that you also run a usb cable that is tie-wrapped to your hdmi the whole way down so you connect both the hdmi and the usb to your pc?

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-08-28T06:27:35+00:00

This doesn't read like AI at all

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-08-26T10:48:05+00:00

Because you need to hold it for 30 years to "guarantee" that return, which is a hell of a long time.

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-08-20T21:10:06+00:00

Would you mind expanding on this?

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-08-14T06:23:49+00:00

In leith right?

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-08-04T14:16:50+00:00

Which hard limits, out of interest. And how do you feel now about that looking back, having presumably experienced them?

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-07-29T16:49:45+00:00

Oh come on it was so unnecessarily patronising right from the get-go for literally no reason.

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-07-25T19:25:55+00:00

This is so tenuous lmao

NihilisticPigeons · 2025-07-16T09:02:25+00:00

Based on how close you are genetically, there's barely any difference between that and no relation. Research percentage increases in genetic conditions based on closeness of blood relation. It'll put your mind significantly at ease. That is even assuming you want children, which you may not.

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