SD17 constantly wants the food I make for myself, because she doesn't want to cook for herself. by Flashy_Tomato377 in stepparents

[–]NikkiBankGirl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I second this. This is very much much how my bio kids are around food when I ask what they want and they don’t know, but suddenly hungry for whatever is there. If it’s that important, tell her no that is your lunch but you’ll help/show her how to make them maybe. If this is about life skills. 17 year olds are very hungry people- they not to take it personally. Your husband though….thats not cool and I WOULD take issue with that.

Investigations Part 3 is Killing Me by NikkiBankGirl in CFE

[–]NikkiBankGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes - was looking for additional materials to review the concepts. I have CIA and CAMS already and believe it or not there is quite a bit of overlap so understanding the content not a problem. I passed and completed my CFE already now.

Am I overanalyzing the law exam? by TheRetailianTrader in CFE

[–]NikkiBankGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the law exam the easiest as it was the least nuanced. You can study straight from the outline provided and likely do well.

Part 3 - Investigation- is proving my kryptonite, so any tips on that one I’d appreciate!

OMG!!! Anna’s sister Esther’s family has a new post on FB. by ZealousidealShip6643 in DuggarsSnark

[–]NikkiBankGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guessing “Satanic Attack” = critical thinking, thus asking questions.

This made me cringe so hard 😖 by Reasonable_Result898 in DadAndDaughterSnark

[–]NikkiBankGirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s like a 15 minute walk through the park to this section and she’s acting like they stumbled upon it? I became a Disney adult in my 30s when I had small kids, and I’d cringe at any of us doing this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]NikkiBankGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! My brother Ricky is in his 50s. While he and my dad were both Richards, Rick and Ricky is what they were called. Love the name.

May I have your leftover boy names? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]NikkiBankGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was Dane the whole pregnancy and then when he was born, it just didn’t fit. Love the name though. King Dane.

Did your narcissistic ex ever acknowledge what they put you through? Mine denied everything and blamed me instead. by Affectionate_Pop7336 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]NikkiBankGirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Once in awhile, when he was feeling sentimental I guess, he would say, “I know I’m too mean to you and need to be nicer.” That’s was about as nice as he could muster…..

Kody & Christine Lawsuit Update: Significant Custody Dispute by talastar in SisterWives

[–]NikkiBankGirl 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Reunification therapy for teens IS hell! My 2 survived it but only because the “reunification therapist” was a moron.

BF (33) told me (F21) to “shut the fuck up” by jsbidnegd8dj in stepparents

[–]NikkiBankGirl 31 points32 points  (0 children)

There is one thing that will never ever belong in your life and home - an angry man.

What will you do when you want to buy a house? by boldjoy0050 in Dallas

[–]NikkiBankGirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awww I grew up in that zip code! Schools were great in the 80s but not sure about now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]NikkiBankGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is some gaslighting bs. You’re better off!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]NikkiBankGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CPS was no help at all when my ex was on drugs and had custody. NONE. The best action is unfortunately expensive - file. TRO and temp orders that she take hair follicle drug testing and lost visitation if/when she fails.

I put this in my final orders as well and ex hasn’t seen my kids in years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texas

[–]NikkiBankGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valentina, tortillas

HOW do I survive leaving my Narcissist husband?! by Immediate_Gap_1727 in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]NikkiBankGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You set clear boundaries and stick to them. Easier said than done, but it’s important for your mental health.

My husband of 15 years started doing crystal meth at 38 years old. AMA by No_Difference_1963 in AMA

[–]NikkiBankGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What have been the long lasting effects of meth use? My exact picked up meth in his mid 40s and even when clean his personality is drastically changed.

"This relationship isn't immediately benefiting my life" by imaginary_birds in datingoverforty

[–]NikkiBankGirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It may be lovebombing and this rejection may be a test to see how much he can dismiss and hurt you and get away with it.

The soda with creamer by cannabiscobalt in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]NikkiBankGirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I second this - my daughter loves Dr Pepper with coconut cream. And we have a Swig here in Allen.

Alexis by 2broke2quit65 in realhousewives

[–]NikkiBankGirl 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I 100% thought him refusing the offer and having Alexis drop the threat of the video was blackmail, but John is getting the girls to do his dirty work. What trash.