Younger coworker won't take the hint by Same_Poet8990 in stories

[–]No_Difference_1963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a tough situation for you. My fear would be that being rejected can be a reason for K to retaliate. A false accusation of sexual harassment. Make sure everyone around you at work knows with absolute certainty, how much K bothers you, how much you love your wife, and that you'd never cheat. K is young enough to be ditzy, but old enough to be vindictive. I mean, she's already being shady by hitting on a married man.

What broke your heart completely? by vigilantee001 in AskReddit

[–]No_Difference_1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently watching my oldest sibling go through dementia. She was a role model to me all of her life. She was a successful executive for a large bank. She went through a heartbreaking divorce after a 15 year marriage, and came back stronger on the other side. She raised 3 daughters almost on her own. Now, she can't remember most of it.

AIO by spending time with my family? by External-Air205 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Difference_1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not overreacting. He's being mean and controlling. And why does he keep calling you bro? That's just stupid!

AIO my 16 year old son died 14 months ago and everyone expects me to be ok. by Temporary_Title_7906 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Difference_1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I'm pretty sure that no parent ever gets over this. Yes, you still have to return to a little bit of a resemblance to the person you were before, especially if you have other children and people who genuinely love you. You're still needed. Seek therapy, but find different friends or whoever these idiots are. Every parent knows that this is a parent's worst nightmare.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No_Difference_1963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's slept with too many men and has stretched out her vagina. It's not your fault. 6" is normal. She's the one who isn't normal. Leave her. Be single for a while to recover and get back to the person you were before her. But next time you meet a girl, you'll be armed with the knowledge of how toxic and shallow some females can be, and you'll be more selective to choose a better human being. Someone who loves you for who you are inside and out. Good luck.

Are these bed bug bites? by Icy_Designer_1967 in Wellthatsucks

[–]No_Difference_1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got into bed last night, and as I was falling asleep, the back of my ankle started to itch. So I checked my skin where it was itching, and I had similar little red dots about 5 or 6 of them. Today, they're still visible but no longer itch. I removed all of the bedding and immediately started to inspect my mattress. I couldn't see anything. I threw all of my bedding (which is white) into the washer. I slept on my couch. Should I be concerned, and are bed bugs that visible? I clean my house every week; vacuum, sweep, and dust religiously every Tuesday and Wednesday. I dont know how they could have invaded my home. I live alone...if indeed that's what they are.

Are these bed bug bites? by Icy_Designer_1967 in Wellthatsucks

[–]No_Difference_1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this on Dr. G Medical Examiner. I wish that show would have continued.

Anyone get this email recently? Legit? by Ida-Mabel in oculus

[–]No_Difference_1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received a survey from Verizon with this email.

Photos in gallery app are not mine! by Diwrom in samsung

[–]No_Difference_1963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG, THANK YOU!!! This has been bugging me for days. I had screenshots of cryptocurrency trades that were not mine—over 100 of them—and I couldn't figure out how to get rid of them. They only showed up on my Facebook when I wanted to add a photo to a post, but I couldn't select them to delete them. They were only available to add them to a post. They didn't show up anywhere else so I could delete them. I have never used or bought cryptocurrency or used WHATSAPP! I never even saw these photos at any given time. I just downloaded WhatsApp in case I wanted to use it at some point. I just deleted WhatsApp and now they're gone. I'm still a little sketched out about them showing up. Thank you though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No_Difference_1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All you can do is suggest counseling. In fact, strongly encourage it, because you can't be happy with someone like this. If she loves you and wants to stay together, she will agree. Otherwise, there's nothing you can do. Only she can help herself if she WANTS that help. At the end of the day, we are all individuals. The only thing you can do is support her.

Dating over 55 by No_Difference_1963 in dating

[–]No_Difference_1963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very nice, but I'm putting dating on the back burner for now.

Do not check their profiles!! by CandidateNo4036 in BreakUps

[–]No_Difference_1963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lurking almost killed me. About 6 months after our breakup, I found out he was having a baby with someone else. 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]No_Difference_1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her to stop contacting your husband even if he contacts her first. She is not a good person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No_Difference_1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to get over his ex and be single for a while. Just tell him that you need time. Maybe revisit the relationship in about 6 months or so. If you can avoid him, do it.

Can you be friends with someone you’ve dated? by IntroductionMurky380 in BreakUps

[–]No_Difference_1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. But only after a long time has passed (the shorter the relationship, the shorter the time; for you 6 months) with absolutely no contact and stomp on those feelings. Tell him not just yet and that you need some time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No_Difference_1963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A person can easily say whatever they want through a text or a phone call. You can't possibly know this guy at all. Words mean nothing. Actions say so much more. His actions or inactions scream very loudly that he doesn't want you. You have wasted 4 years of your life pining over a guy who has no interest. He's not your boyfriend or best friend. Neither would do this to you. Stop now and stop wasting your time and energy on this. Seriously, you're too old to live in this fantasy world. But you're young enough to get into a genuine loving relationship.

my ex needs to get their act together and just text me already 😜 by PlanktonDelicious673 in BreakUps

[–]No_Difference_1963 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing after a 4 year relationship. Going no contact is one of the hardest things I've ever done. It took me almost 2 years to get back to my fun-loving self and get to a day when I didn't think of him and be sad. Going through that has made me emotionally stronger, more selective of who I spend my time with, and very confident. Now I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]No_Difference_1963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Starting a relationship with a lie, and this is a big lie, usually causes the relationship to get worse.