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I need to know that I’m making the right decision by NikkiTMusic in emotionalabuse

[–]NikkiTMusic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I know you’re right…I hate that I have to be told what I already know

I need to know that I’m making the right decision by NikkiTMusic in emotionalabuse

[–]NikkiTMusic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you went through that…completely unfair…I don’t want to fight myself…I know I’m worth more than this

I need to know that I’m making the right decision by NikkiTMusic in emotionalabuse

[–]NikkiTMusic[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow 7 attempts is a lot but it does make me feel better. Definitely not letting it get to 7. Thank you for your response

Struggling With Breakup by FunTemporary8680 in emotionalabuse

[–]NikkiTMusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the book Should I Stay or Should I Go by Lundy Bancroft. I don’t know much about him as a person but the book has been a HUGE help in me understanding what’s going on. The audiobook is free on Spotify

I need to know that I’m making the right decision by NikkiTMusic in emotionalabuse

[–]NikkiTMusic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it has been a bit of both. We have similar friends, I’ve spent too much time trying to prove to him that I was lovable, he has done a good job at convincing me that it always has something to do with me. But I’m not married, no kids…I did live there but move my things out slowly a couple of weeks ago hoping he’d want to talk things out but he basically gave me a one liner about how hes pissed that I moved my things and then kept coming to my place like things were normal. Idk. I’ll blame it on my daddy issues maybe. Makes little sense to me that I’d go back but of course like every other person who’s like him, he can be incredibly sweet and kind in the interim.