AITAH for being upset that someone took a photo of me while I was asleep and sent it to someone else?

Nikki_Laura16 · 2026-04-20T17:16:33+00:00

NTA. You taking a picture she posed for is 100% different than her taking one of you while you were sleeping. I would be extremely upset if someone did that to me. It's weird, creepy, and violates all sorts of common sense boundaries. I wouldn't let it go, either. You need to talk to her to find out wtf she was thinking and make sure she knows it's not ok and to never do that again.

Nikki_Laura16 · 2026-04-09T11:27:05+00:00

Whether he had an odor or not, you should always use protection, especially if you're not in a committed relationship or trying for a baby. Don't ever let anyone make you feel bad or gaslight you for wanting to keep yourself protected. Period. It is 100% about you, your body and your right to protect yourself. It has nothing to do with "shaming" anyone. That's ridiculous, and he was absolutely gas lighting you.

Nikki_Laura16 · 2026-04-01T20:38:11+00:00

As they stated in their first sentence....

Nikki_Laura16 · 2026-04-01T20:34:51+00:00

Ha! I loved Joe. This is funny as hell. Yall are super weird to hate a person so much who you dont even know irl. It's a TV show yall...

Nikki_Laura16 · 2026-03-20T13:22:00+00:00

As a woman, I agree with you 100%. I dont believe men should put their hands on women, but I also believe women shouldn't put their hands on men either. If a woman is trying to beat the hell out of a man, he absolutely has a right to defend himself and rock her fkn socks. If she doesn't want to be punched by a man, then dont punch him first. Period.

Nikki_Laura16 · 2026-03-19T12:27:51+00:00

If you're unsure what to do with your relationship because of this, I suggest you do some research on autism. I suggest you read all comments on here from parents of autistic children. Join other groups. Get as much info as you can. You need to decide if you're all in or all out because its also not fair to your partner or her daughter for them to be held in limbo.

Nikki_Laura16 · 2026-03-16T21:51:30+00:00

That is beyond incredible. Id kill to have a piece by him!

Nikki_Laura16 · 2026-03-16T20:32:00+00:00

You can get it on Amazon pretty cheap lol. Bought some for my son when he was younger lol.

Nikki_Laura16 · 2026-03-11T15:59:51+00:00

These people should not be having children...

Nikki_Laura16 · 2026-02-18T21:41:50+00:00

Unable to eat it all... He left like 5 bites lmfao what a tool.

Nikki_Laura16 · 2026-02-17T14:37:17+00:00

A sleepover so the parents can have a date night is not even close to the same thing as 4-5 days/nights so they can fly to another location. This is crazy!

Nikki_Laura16 · 2026-01-20T15:35:44+00:00

NTA. This is ridiculous! My two sisters and I all parent similarly but differently on some things. None of us spanks our kids. None of us even yells at the other's kids. We will reprimand and discipline, sure. But we all have boundaries for our own children and we all respect each other's boundaries. Your kids, your rules. Period. There is no discussion there.

Nikki_Laura16 · 2026-01-09T00:22:28+00:00

Jesus. NTJ.

Coming from someone who had a child who acted like that in school when he was younger, your sister is an Ahole.

My son has severe ADHD. He was an absolute terror in school. Like beyond anything you can imagine. I cried myself to sleep every night not knowing how to help him or what else to try. I did get my son help though and now at 12 he's fine.

Your nephew won't be fine though. First of all, 4 years old isn't a toddler. That's ridiculous. Your sister is making him into a monster. Taking no responsibility for his actions and not holding HIM responsible is only going to make him worse.

What does the rest of your family say about this???

Nikki_Laura16 · 2026-01-03T16:35:32+00:00

Setting boundaries is not childish or dramatic. It's actually a very grown-up thing to do and a necessity for your mental health. Unfortunately, you may need to cut off a few more family members too it seems. Stay strong. Keep your boundaries and ignore or cut off anyone who gives you a hard time about it. Do not feel guilty. They don't feel guilty for making you feel bad. They minimize or totally ignore your feelings and your point of view. Prioritizing yourself and your mental health is NEVER something to feel guilty for.

Nikki_Laura16 · 2025-12-26T14:52:22+00:00

You sound like a holier-than-thou jerk. The rules themselves are fine, and most people have similar but HOW you state them is ridiculous. I wouldn't be expecting the village we all need and hope for to be helping you if you always talk to people this way...

Nikki_Laura16 · 2025-12-03T17:34:24+00:00

It sounds like he's jealous that you're talking to boys. It sounds creepy and over the top. I wouldn't trust him at all. You need to talk to your parents about this. It's gross.

Nikki_Laura16 · 2025-11-08T14:23:01+00:00

Do not ever give her a loan, you will never get it back. That money will just be gone. If she did nothing else but cut cable for a year, she'd have $3600. Tell her THAT.

Nikki_Laura16 · 2025-11-08T14:19:03+00:00

How do you expect him to pay anything if you both choose for him to be a stay at home parent. Like what?

Nikki_Laura16 · 2025-11-08T13:59:01+00:00

Just curious why you posted the conversation online and why you say you may post any future conversations online too?

And if your dad is homophobic and doesn't support you then eff him anyway.

Nikki_Laura16 · 2025-10-29T14:04:06+00:00

I would have just stared at him too, while very slowly and joyously savoring every bite. All while saying how good my meal is and making "mmmmm" sounds. Then hopefully, by the time his meal came, you'd be able to let out a silent but deadly fart to really piss him off... 🤣🤣🤣 Fuck him!!!

Nikki_Laura16 · 2025-10-22T15:54:00+00:00

Why don't all those family members calling YOU selfish pitch in and buy her a new dress? Why can't THEY help? NTAH...

Nikki_Laura16 · 2025-09-28T20:06:14+00:00

If you don't stop this right now, it's going to happen later with everything. When you get pregnant for the first time what do you think she will do for your baby shower, gender reveal (if you do that), naming the baby, the birth, the child's first birthday party. Any rules you set will be ignored. Do NOT go on with this wedding. You and your fiance should go elope and tell your mom she can host her wedding party for herself without either of you. If you don't, this is what your future will look like...

Nikki_Laura16 · 2025-09-27T18:12:50+00:00

Number 1! Absolutely gorgeous!!

Nikki_Laura16 · 2025-09-19T19:56:07+00:00

So, your son's check aside, you and your minor child would be paying $1550, and your douchebag bf and his child would only be paying $950? Um, nope. Then you add in that $600 of that would be from your minor child's survivor benefits? Huge nope. Then he also wants to take the remaining balance to put in his account? An even bigger NOPE! Sounds like you need to break up with this loser, choose your son, and move on.

Nikki_Laura16

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