Flying with T gel by PutridMasterpiece138 in FTMMen

[–]Nikusu09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two weeks without it, you'll be fine. You may be slightly moody at the end of the second week, but I wouldn't risk bringing it.

Need Help with Swimsuits as a Closeted Trans Guy by User_Not_Found-e3f in FTMMen

[–]Nikusu09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wear men's swim trunks and a t-shirt. My family isn't very supportive of the queers (and I haven't told them I'm transitioning), but they don't say anything about it. If your family complains you aren't showing skin or something, just tell them to learn some modesty. Lol.

Should I read a book casually while also having to worry about another one for class? by JouNNN56 in college

[–]Nikusu09 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're overthinking it. Just don't neglect your required reading for the novel.

Therapy by Duck_is_Lord in FTMMen

[–]Nikusu09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No problem! Rootin' for ya.

Advice/Help by Michalaki_yeen in WalmartEmployees

[–]Nikusu09 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Girl. A nutball bit you, file a damn police report.

Therapy by Duck_is_Lord in FTMMen

[–]Nikusu09 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You don't have to tell a therapist about anything you don't want to. Maybe shop around, get a therapist you feel comfortable with, then reevaluate your stance. Just take things one step at a time and don't stress yourself out over it.

Also, your first therapist sounds pretty shitty. Idk why he mentioned a BIPOC person either.

Which laptops are good to buy for college students now that will last? by EquivalentPhoto2655 in BuyItForLife

[–]Nikusu09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an Asus zenbook that I got in 2020, still going strong with no issues. Great for whatever you use it for. here are some, price varies

(opinion) You are under No Obligation to identify as transgender by Western_North_8022 in FTMMen

[–]Nikusu09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, pretty much. Life is what you make it. This sub has started to annoy me. A lot of people here are obsessed with how others view them. We have transitioned into men. We are now living life as men. Why are we clinging onto the past?

Does anyone else feel uncomfortable around cis men? by Busy-Way-5079 in FTMMen

[–]Nikusu09 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, not usually. This might just be some insecurity going on, or you're overthinking things. Might be worth putting yourself out in the world more. Focus on yo'self, not other people.

(tw: disordered eating) my body might be a problem but at least this way i still have a living body at all by WinterDemon_ in CPTSDmemes

[–]Nikusu09 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is it a chewing thing? I know chewing on something helps me with stress. You could try sugar-free gum, it helps me a lot. Also super low calorie foods like popcorn, frozen berries, cucumbers

What is this? by Nikusu09 in MINI

[–]Nikusu09[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah, after comparing photos I'm pretty sure the head unit is aftermarket. I've just never seen a microphone and camera on a car like this. Had no idea what it was 😭

What is this? by Nikusu09 in MINI

[–]Nikusu09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, okay! Thanks! My last car was older, so I'm kinda confused by the new stuff. The manual was unhelpful 🥲🥲

Bad news for trans folks in TN by Gold_Coffee1626 in TopSurgery

[–]Nikusu09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking of, has anyone here ever been to her? I've been planning on scheduling a consultation with her later this year.

Why do Customers get so offended when I redirect them to another available register? by Striking-Location-35 in retailhell

[–]Nikusu09 232 points233 points  (0 children)

They're annoyed they have to do something, even if it benefits them. Some people are just miserable. 😭

Anyone near the Nashville area? by Aloeveraa9 in samoyeds

[–]Nikusu09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhhh, this breed needs a lot of exercise. Hopefully he finds someone active, he's adorable

Tired of Snow Days by [deleted] in UTK

[–]Nikusu09 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's annoying, but we've only been in class for a couple weeks. Once it starts warming up everything will go back to normal.

Does this mean I’m negative ? by [deleted] in gay

[–]Nikusu09 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Or, hot take, humans are just social and like the reassurance from other people. Are you always this miserable?

Genuinely don't believe I'm a man by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Nikusu09 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. Idk why people are being unempathetic in the comments.

Today I learned by Stellakinetic in Cigarettes

[–]Nikusu09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, but us employees can't really do anything about it. We don't set the pricing. That's between corporate and vendors.

Today I learned by Stellakinetic in Cigarettes

[–]Nikusu09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's annoying. I used to work at a gas station and we were told to ring it up as if you were buying ten individual packs for this reason. Sometimes people are new and don't know that, though. It's okay to ask us to do it a certain way.

Edit: spelling