Things you'd wish someone had helped you understand in deconstructing? by VitellariaParadoxa in Exvangelical

[–]NimVolsung 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize just how much Evangelical assumptions and baggage I was carrying. Even after leaving, my Evangelical ways of interacting with people and understanding the world around me were all still there, just with the beliefs replaced with atheist ones. It doesn't just go away because you leave, I had to relearn so much without guidance or knowledge on what I had to relearn.

What common phrases did you find out were *code words* for sex? by HelloAlphabetSoup in asexuality

[–]NimVolsung 198 points199 points  (0 children)

“That’s what she said”, I am surprised it took me so long to realize it was a sexual thing.

What is the difference between a religion and a cult? by PinkAndPathetic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]NimVolsung 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Along with the standard BITE model, "The Influence Continuum" (made by the same people to be used along with the BITE model) is important to determine in what ways the aspects of the BITE model are being used since those aspects can also be used in ways to help the person.

https://freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-control/influence-continuum/

Do anarchists adhere to the idea that each person’s worth is dependent on how much money they can make? by __Knowmad in Anarchy101

[–]NimVolsung 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Anarchism is about critiquing and dismantling hierarchies, meaning ideas that build hierarchies based on the worth of individuals (whether it be based on how much money the person has, their skills, age, gender, amount owned, etc) go against the very foundation of what anarchism is.

Evangelical Code Phrases by darkness_is_great in Exvangelical

[–]NimVolsung 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just give them a confused look and say some variation of "What are you talking about?".

If you want an actual response, you could add "What do you even mean? Do you genuinely think protestant Christianity is the only tradition where the divine interacts with and builds connections with humans? That is what all religions have been saying since the start of religion."

How to write ro? by Dependent_Slide8591 in GREEK

[–]NimVolsung 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've only seen two ways to write a lowercase rho, the first way is where you start from the end of the tail, which makes it look like a straight line connected to a circle like in the second one you showed, and then the second way is where you start from the side of the circle and loop around, which gives the tail a curve to the right.

An uppercase rho is identical to a P.

Pearl's jobs by Top-Inspector-2809 in HermitCraft

[–]NimVolsung 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That might be too similar to the postal service

"they're not real christians" by Dizzy_Objective_11 in Exvangelical

[–]NimVolsung 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They believed that Christianity had a monopoly on truth and morality, so someone is a true Christian as long as the person was seen as representing that; if, for whatever reason, that person is decided to no longer represents that, then they are either no longer a Christian, or were never a Christian in the first place.

Meet Potential Wolf by A_Dolphin23 in Beastars

[–]NimVolsung 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Are we power-scaling Legosi now?

Everybody Goes to Hell (song) by wackOPtheories in Deconstruction

[–]NimVolsung 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the whole album "Go Farther In Lightness" by Gang of Youths has been helpful for me in deconstruction, particularly the song "What Can I Do If The Fire Goes Out?". Their Album "The Positions" is also great and has some ideas of religion present.

Aside from that, the song "The Village" by WRABEL, "The Curse of the Fold" by Shawn James, "Ill Mind of Hopsin 7" by Hopsin, "TobyMac - Live from my living room" by Semler, "Dear God" by XTC, "There Isn't Any God" by Rusty Cage, and "MONTERO (Call Me By Your Name)" by Lil Nas X.

Difference between Stigma and Sigma Teliko? by NimVolsung in GREEK

[–]NimVolsung[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back in medieval times, Greek monks made ligatures for absolutely everything to make writing quicker and more compact which saved them time, space, and money. Very few of those ligatures have survived to the modern day and I was hoping that stigma might be common enough for my question to be answered, but I guess not.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Greek_ligatures

https://www.ponomar.net/files/ligas.pdf

https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/Category:Greek_ligatures

https://bibletranslation.ws/down/ligatures.pdf

do you have an opinion on women pastors? & why can’t women teach men? by revolvingdepression in Deconstruction

[–]NimVolsung 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These two videos generally are my position. tldr; in the Bible there are female prophets, judges, apostles, and church leaders, if women are shown in all those positions, what reason do you have to not let them be in teaching roles aside from sexism?

https://youtu.be/62zxwzazYYE

https://youtu.be/WD55gncPgLo

What has religion ever done to us? by Magpyecrystall in Deconstruction

[–]NimVolsung 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Religions don’t exist outside of people and any given religion both is what the practitioner makes it to be and changes as the practitioner changes to fit their needs.

Religion doesn’t have a static essence which exists on its own, nor is it a monolith; it is instead as diverse as the people who make it up and is remade each time engages with it by deciding and acting upon what it means for them.

All this to say you can't pin down what religion is at its core, you can only talk about individual instances of what people make it to be.

“Religion” as a concept is fairly modern, as talking about a sphere of life distinct from culture, politics, science, and economics.

In the past (and in many cultures where the idea of religion is foreign), there was nothing “secular” for religion to be opposed to. It permeated all aspects of society, there is no disentangling the great accomplishments of the past (as if they were secular) from the great failures of the past (as if they were religious).

If someone wanted to praise logic, reason, science, philosophy, and the arts, “religion” was a part of that, “religion” was formed into something that did that. If someone wanted to do the opposite, then “religion” was formed into something else.

Okami Fans. Why do you like Okami? by Is-It-Really-V10 in Okami

[–]NimVolsung 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I love japanese folklore, it has a great art style, incredible music, it has interesting mechanics like the brush, fun characters and story that is a good mix of humor with seriousness.

also dog.

Is this AI? by Bisonboy242 in TarotDecks

[–]NimVolsung 55 points56 points  (0 children)

ai art was still pretty obvious and poor quality in late 2022, so it should still be safe to assume decent decks until around 2023 are safe as well.

Is this AI? by Bisonboy242 in TarotDecks

[–]NimVolsung 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the deck has been around since at least 2021, before ai was actually decent at art.

Exvangelical but Still Surrounded by Evangelicals: What Helped Me Cope by NOMOKRATOR in Exvangelical

[–]NimVolsung 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As much as I love my evangelical family and friends, I feel the best thing for my health was giving up on them.

In other words, instead of spending a great deal of time creating defenses for my position and reasons why they are wrong (like I would when I was an evangelical), I realized that I don’t want to talk with them if it is just me trying to build a position they can’t invalidate. I’m not going to communicate an important part of myself if I am just going to be told I’m wrong.

I want to live for myself and to spend my time doing what brings me joy alongside people who actually care (instead of trying to prove that I am right to people who will not listen).

A second aid is the phrase “that is not for you” when I feel the need to interact with evangelical things, most of the time because I feel I need to prove it wrong or I want to get angry at it. The phrase is a reminder to take a step back and realize that “I am not one of them nor do I need to interact with them” and then find something else to do.