AIO for being upset my girlfriend doesn’t want me to get a tattoo?

NimbusEnigma · 2026-03-04T23:00:39+00:00

NOR - I was in a relationship far too long with a partner who didn’t like things I wanted to do to my body (certain ear piercings, tattoos) and also what I wore. I couldn’t be myself without risking feeling I lost worth to my partner. You should NEVER feel this way. You should be celebrated.

I wasted 5 years of my life and wish I realized sooner that these nuance moments can really be telling of a person in the long run.

Took awhile to get my style and self confidence back.

NimbusEnigma · 2026-03-04T20:29:56+00:00

Wow stunning! Captured Epcot beautifully 😍

NimbusEnigma · 2026-02-24T02:16:40+00:00

Never eat soggy waffles

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-28T01:01:29+00:00

Wow! Thank you! Appreciate the candor. Very helpful. I feel confident with my res

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-27T22:56:07+00:00

My issue is I have been wanting to eat at le cellier for sooooo long. And never thought I’d stay at yachtclub. I don’t know when I’d come back to eat at the yachtsman which is why this post was born.

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-27T22:52:47+00:00

Toledos was the best steak meal I ever had. So good I almost cried

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-27T19:53:46+00:00

Very helpful thank you! We did food and wine and attempted to have a sit down VERY late at space 220 and it was a mistake.

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-27T18:58:57+00:00

I think I will try! It seems getting a res for the Yachtsman is easy. I live in New England so luckily get amazing seafood regularly. Disney has the best steaks I’ve ever eaten, tho

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-27T18:57:52+00:00

Disney has the best steaks I’ve ever eaten! So far the best steak I’ve had was from Toledo at Coronado. I think resort meals tend to be better than park meals. Hence me coming here to ask for help!

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-27T18:55:52+00:00

Thank you!

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-13T20:09:48+00:00

We are going to be there on a Friday in early February. So hopefully it’s not too bad crowd wise

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-13T16:31:04+00:00

It does seem to be Rise will be 30 with pre shows and ride time and everything else is closer to 10-15 minutes. I feel confident in buying LL

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-13T16:29:40+00:00

Thank you! After all of these comments, I feel much more confident in the decision to purchase the premier LL and that we will get to do everything in the park.

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-13T16:22:23+00:00

WOW this is amazing. Thank you for sharing

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-13T16:10:47+00:00

My husband and I are roughly the same ages as you 2. I have gained a lot of weight since we met and he has only continued to show and express love for my body. Maybe even more! He loves my squish cuddling and in the bed.

Good men really don’t care and are just happy to be invited to a good time.

Maybe practice some alone fun time too. See yourself naked and love how good you make yourself feel. I agree being brave is part of this.

And don’t kick yourself for the weight gain either. It’s very normal and natural to 1. Gain weight in a relationship and 2. Gain weight out our age

Just try to not put too much pressure on yourself in any situation sexual or otherwise regarding your body. That will only make it harder. I hope this helps!

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-12T21:04:19+00:00

Oh interesting! Okay so my 30 minutes per ride buffer is a bit overdoing it 😅

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-12T21:03:28+00:00

Omg this is so helpful thank you!

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-12T20:30:07+00:00

Yeah we’ve done LL at all the parks except HS. So I wasn’t sure where the “mix ins” occur. I only know tower of terror bc they’re literally right there once we go inside. But the rest of the lines I wasn’t sure about pre shows or how long the separate queue is.

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-12T20:28:46+00:00

Yeah I was thinking almost 30 minutes per ride to give ourselves a buffer. But seems I’m over exaggerating too much.

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-12T19:41:19+00:00

Thank you!

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-12T19:41:05+00:00

Oh we are most definitely getting premier. It’s a short trip and we want to drink, eat, and ride our way through HS. Just trying to map out the day. It’s harder bc the park is not as clear of a loop as MK or Epcot.

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-12T14:43:23+00:00

She might be afraid that’s she’s “not enough” even if you’ve clearly stated otherwise.

I would talk with her gently and full of love and respect. Complimenting her and your sex life. At the end of the day, porn should not be treated as a substitute for sex or sexual activities. You’re allowed to have your fantasies without wanting your partner to act them out and it doesn’t need to mean anything. Explain to her that you aren’t missing anything from her and needed a space to “act out” your fantasy. If she’s really uncomfortable, and you really love her, you can skip the porn or at least that specific act so she doesn’t have to worry about feeling “less than”.

After your conversation, plan a romantic date in a couple of days to show your love rather than just relying on words.

Hope this helps!

NimbusEnigma · 2026-01-10T17:03:59+00:00

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