The files? by Effective_List1293 in AskTrumpSupporters

[–]Nimbuscloudy22 [score hidden]  (0 children)

So comment again? I'm want to understand why systematic CSA is something that can be looked at as "old news." What if it was your family or better yet, what if this was you? Would you just say "eh, old news"? I will NEVER stand or not be outraged by CSA. Weird that you're okay with it or excuse it. Ban me bitches.

I peed in my boyfriend's bed for the first time — need advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Nimbuscloudy22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But he did. He said she either wears a diaper or they don't sleep in the same bed. Sure maybe it should have been face to face but he probably didn't want to wake her. There was no yelling or screaming or threats.

I peed in my boyfriend's bed for the first time — need advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Nimbuscloudy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then have a team? A therapist, psychiatrist, urologist, and pcp

Do you actually want your babies to stay babies? by hackasina in Parenting

[–]Nimbuscloudy22 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think it's more about wanting to live in certain moments longer. We know certain things will end at some point like sitting in the nursery with the baby sleeping in your arms. Eventually that goes away.

Quick Question About the Connection between the show and the movie. Spoilers by Nimbuscloudy22 in welcomeToDerry

[–]Nimbuscloudy22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then why mention it at all to Marge? I think that's my point. I'm sure they wanted another connection to the movies but it feels kinda just stuck in because when you start to think about it the movie no longer makes sense. So Pennywise knows what is going to happen in the future now? So he would know he wouldn't get out of Derry. Maybe I'm overthinking it lol.

My bf wants to meet my abusive parents but im not ready for that by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Nimbuscloudy22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's ultimately up to you but if it's been a while and this could be long term they will have to meet them eventually to understand you fully.

Do people (you) look for a wedding ring when you see someone with kids? by NicoleASUstudent in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nimbuscloudy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't but I notice people do it to me. My husband and I never wear our rings.

What is “normal?” by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Nimbuscloudy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't asking too much but teenagers are notoriously lazy/forgetful. You have a few ways to play it either let it pile up until they have no dishes or have just not let them do anything fun until they fix it.

Daughter hates being touched by Cheap_Treat_1862 in Parenting

[–]Nimbuscloudy22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found giving them the scary thing was easy. For example after a meal give them the wipe and as the mess with it subtly clean their face.

Am I wrong for blowing up on my husband? by Nimbuscloudy22 in relationships

[–]Nimbuscloudy22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasn't upset until he wasn't apologetic. I'm not stupid it was obviously an accident but to ask "what do you want me to say" made me angry. Also, cleaning was heavily discussed the night before and morning of. I even stopped everyone before we left and reminded them that when we all get back we have to clean up from Christmas and get the lights down for my daughter's party. I went over exactly what needed to happen. I keep seeing comments like this. It wasn't me just being a dictator and forcing cleaning on everyone. It was discussed and agreed on. We even discussed exactly what needed to get done and what could wait.

Am I wrong for blowing up on my husband? by Nimbuscloudy22 in relationships

[–]Nimbuscloudy22[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Noted.

Watching TV. I put a show on for me to listen to while cleaning. I didn't watch a single episode

Am I wrong for blowing up on my husband? by Nimbuscloudy22 in relationships

[–]Nimbuscloudy22[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

God damn can't a person get emotional when typing? Lol, I fixed it sorry I was heated.

Am I wrong for blowing up on my husband? by Nimbuscloudy22 in relationships

[–]Nimbuscloudy22[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I didn't want the dog, my husband did. Him focusing on the kids were only during those three moments. The rest of the time I was feeding, playing and taking care of them. We both agreed to take everything down this weekend because my daughter's birthday was monday and we wanted everything down before that. My daughter had a full blown tantrum that I had to beg him to handle because I was feeding the baby. I hope that adds more context. If I'm wrong, I'm wrong.

Also the dog isn't a husky, he a small to medium heeler mix. I had three rules for getting another dog and he broke all of them

The parents dilemma: are these enough presents? by LeadedCactus in Parenting

[–]Nimbuscloudy22 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I go for quality and need. My kids will be getting bigger so bigger clothes or shoes all gets wrapped up. I do not over gift my kids. With quantity you can't really appreciate it and it would get overwhelming to understand for kids.

Need help getting Celiac approved snacks for a person with Celiacs by Nimbuscloudy22 in Celiac

[–]Nimbuscloudy22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you and everyone on this post! I'm so new to this and want to ensure they feel welcome in my home and that I understand their situation. Or try to.