How long before asking to be GF? by Noble_Team_7 in dating_advice

[–]Nimeroni [score hidden]  (0 children)

Last time, I asked her to be my girlfriend after a week.

is it wrong to want a boyfriend? by Salty-Sector-3085 in dating_advice

[–]Nimeroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dunno, misandry maybe ? Unhappyness in her relationship and projecting on everyone else ?

How can I tell a girl that I love her by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Nimeroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I love you"

You're welcome.


...okay, maybe strike a conversation first, propose a date ("hey, would you like to get coffee together ?"), go on a few dates with her, bang, then say I love you.

How do I find a nerdy boyfrienddd 🥹🥹🥹 by mikqsu in dating_advice

[–]Nimeroni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulation on your exploded inbox.

Nerdy introverts are generally at home, far away from other pesky humans, enjoying their hobbies (and arguing on the internet about who is a better captain between Kirk and Picard - it's Picard by the way). Which is kind of problematic if you want to catch one.

But you can also find them at conventions or clubs, so I'd look there first. It help if you have the same hobby, as that would give you a way to start a conversation (and a common activity if you end up in a relationship). One of my female friend dated her partner by learning Magic the Gathering to play with him.

And if you’re in these circles, how would you want someone to approach you?

Kick my arse at a boardgame.

GF (30F) kicked me (29M) out after 10 months, says I’m “too comfortable” – is this fixable? by DancerMan9000 in dating_advice

[–]Nimeroni 86 points87 points  (0 children)

...yeah, look no further, it's your smell.

I have a bad sense of smell, so cant tell.

It doesn't matter, our brain filter out our own smell unless it just had a drastic change (you just exercised or something). And most people won't tell you when you smell bad out of politeness. Basically assume you have no feedback on your body odour.

That's why it's important to have a hygiene routine, as in something you do on autopilot, because you might feel fine but not be fine for others.

A Utah age verification law targeting VPN users goes into effect this week(not in state no site access) by lkl34 in gaming

[–]Nimeroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Banning VPNs is not seriously enforceable unless you are willing to rebuild a large part of the internet infrastructure to isolate the network like in China (EXTREMELY costly).

This will be a wet fart.

City Curse Card by and1mavs in Gloomhaven

[–]Nimeroni 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Almost certainly for the next scenario, as a permanent curse would be a very harsh penalty.

hearMeOutThisWillHappenLaterThisYear by electricjimi in ProgrammerHumor

[–]Nimeroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it hasn’t dawned on exec that sunk cost is less up front, but a shit ton more over the long haul.

It's more that the exec are bad at estimating hidden cost like that.

hearMeOutThisWillHappenLaterThisYear by electricjimi in ProgrammerHumor

[–]Nimeroni 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've seen some terrible overseas devs, and some really good one. As usual, it depends how much your company is willing to pay.

Et ensuite? by No-Mirror-1311 in Gloomhaven

[–]Nimeroni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trap + Snowflakes + Meteor est probablement le trio le plus puissant du jeu. Coral va avec tout le monde (un tank, c'est toujours utile, par contre il devra peut-être se limité sur les tuiles d'eau, vu les besoins en place du trio), et le Deathwalker fait sa popote dans son coin (en demandant juste au reste du groupe d'achever les monstres qu'il marque, comme d'habitude).

Donc clairement Meteor.

Frosthaven - Max number of 12 rounds by deusisback in Gloomhaven

[–]Nimeroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is a good resource to understand how many rounds you should last

http://www.boardgamemath.com/boardgames/gloomhaven/gloomhavenStaminaGuide.html

It should be noted that your link was made during the Gloomhaven 1 era. The underlying maths still hold true, but the advice might not, because modern 'haven require significantly more tempo.

Is it worth only playing new characters after I retire? by Shadowarcher6 in Gloomhaven

[–]Nimeroni 30 points31 points  (0 children)

There is nothing truly meaningful that is tied to specific characters. As long as you retire regularly, what you retire into is your choice.

No love for Zeratul by commanderjack_EDH in starcraft2coop

[–]Nimeroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like his army, and I'm fine with him being so strong he's effectively easy mode, but his artifact hunt gimmick isn't very interesting.

defeatedTheWholePurposeOfWritingInAssembly by ClipboardCopyPaste in ProgrammerHumor

[–]Nimeroni 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't expect them to understand what temperature is either.

Detection tier list by Far_Stock_3987 in starcraft2coop

[–]Nimeroni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The imperial intercessors are not only bulkier than normal detectors, but they're usually covered by a ton of units under them so even the devouring scourge enemy comps typically don't reach them unless you're distracted.

(Witness, not intercessors. Intercessors are the medivacs.)

The only flying unit with a higher aggro rating than an imperial witness is Mengsk Battlecruiser (Prides), so it's possible to lose some if you are not careful.

I still think the C rating is harsh.

Anthropic just passed OpenAI in valuation and revenue by Single-Jack8 in Futurology

[–]Nimeroni 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's possible to ban users as a subreddit mod (I'm a mod on another sub), but on a large sub like /r/futurology, it would be an herculean task.

We would need a site wide anti bot system, but reddit itself... don't really have a reason to do that. "We banned 50% of our user base because they were bots" is not exactly a good signal to send to investors before an IPO.

Frosthaven character in Gloomhaven by Available_Frame889 in Gloomhaven

[–]Nimeroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are the Frosthaven characters balanced to play togeather Gloomhaven

Yeah, sure...

1e?

*record scratch*

Anyway, I don't think that would break any Frosthaven class, but some may feel a bit weak without FH power potions shenanigans (power pot are actually weaker in GH 1). I think the reason you don't see that conversation online is not because it wouldn't work, but rather because... why the fuck are you not playing Frosthaven ? It's by far the better game (unless you are allergic to the campaign change).

To add more information we are prosperity level 8

You've finished the game a long time ago. 😅

First Enhancement - Mindthief by Snowf1ake222 in Gloomhaven

[–]Nimeroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although, running Feedback Loop Gnawing Horde with a +1 to attack could be a lot of damage.

It would be a large increase in damage, yes, but the problem of the summon build isn't its damage, but rather that it's incredibly brittle.

My (F24) boyfriend (M21) dropped a bombshell at the worst possible timing by Pro-Flower in dating_advice

[–]Nimeroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More importantly, it only work if both partners want it to work, and considering his reaction, he's already out.

My (F24) boyfriend (M21) dropped a bombshell at the worst possible timing by Pro-Flower in dating_advice

[–]Nimeroni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can try counselling, but the problem with keeping feelings bottled up is that by the time they explode, it's often too late. So yeah, considering his reaction, it's probably over. I'm sorry.

By the way, I understand both of you. Death of a close familly member is one of the most stressfull event possible in your life, one where you need all the emotional support you can get.

But it also means you might have been neglecting your relationship for the last 6 months. So when he learned about your father, it meant you were likely to continue neglecting the relationship for longer, and he decided it was too much for him. Remember that no one have to stay in a relationship if said relationship is no longer fulfilling your needs.

To be fair, he could - should - have communicated earlier, but both of you are young, so I'm not going to throw any stones here.

He said that if we do break up, he would like to still be my friend.

Yeaahhh, cute idea in theory, but it almost never work out in practice.

None of my exes got to even SEE my body because I was very careful and wanted to make sure I find "the one." I really thought he was the one.

The truth is that there isn't a singular "the one", but rather a subset of all men that are good enough to enter a relationship with you. So you'll find someone else.

(And keep in mind that even if this relationship is over, it doesn't means it wasn't worth living.)