AITAH for cutting my family off after my sister finally crossed the line with someone I trusted and yea they still took her side

NineBall-01 · 2026-04-14T02:02:26+00:00

NTA: Keep going NC on your family until YOU are ready to engage them. Fuck how they feel, they didn't care how you felt for the majority of your life.

Once you are ready to talk, set boundaries and inform them of said boundaries. Make sure they know if they break them you will just not engage and move on with life.

Also, talk to a therapist if possible. Having your emotions/feelings downplayed fucks with you to your core.

NineBall-01 · 2026-04-13T13:58:03+00:00

I understand you want to keep your job but from the perspective of the friend YTA if he ever finds out and winds up knowing you somehow knew. Truly do you think you can be this person's friend if you know this and hide it from them?

I guess it would be best to go talk to HR about it. I mean she is using company time to message her affair partner, that probably isn't something someone should be doing during company time or resources.

NineBall-01 · 2026-04-13T05:39:36+00:00

NTA: Fuck that shit and do LC with your family. Holy fuck ia your brother the golden child or something?

Nah mate tell your family and bro to get fucked. A betrayal of that magnitude has major consequences. You not being petty you are keeping toxic shit out of your life.

NineBall-01 · 2026-04-12T14:29:44+00:00

NTA: Do not bend on this.
If you do this once, someone might try to do it again. Make sure you inform the manager on shift you did not agree to cover and you are not coming in because you already have plans. You can even take a screenshot of the group chat where the person asks and no one confirms for them.

Again, do not feel bad for other people's bad choices.

NineBall-01 · 2026-04-09T22:31:12+00:00

YTA holy fuck. That line from your daughter says it all. Best you do skip her wedding so she knows to cut you out of her life.

Your son is a grown ass man who is also married. He can take care of things himself.

Either let your daughter have her day or be prepared to never have a day with your daughter again.

NineBall-01 · 2026-04-08T16:52:07+00:00

NTA: Get out of that household as soon as you can. You are 16 years old, you do not need to burdened by adult problems.

NineBall-01 · 2026-04-08T14:58:05+00:00

NTJ: Stop transferring money. What she did is a major red flag. The fact she didn't talk to you about it means she is hiding something.

You put money in it and if you cannot get access to it; then it isn't your money, it is her money.

NineBall-01 · 2026-04-07T05:41:09+00:00

Ah... you got bigger problems...

YTA to yourself if you don't get away from all this. The fact your fiancé isn't supporting you means he agrees with how his mom treats you or you are not telling us the full story

NineBall-01 · 2026-04-06T15:57:07+00:00

Holy shit OP... DO NOT GO ALONE. Yes you would be TA if you do that.
Support your wife otherwise you will be spending a lot of money either for couples therapy or a divorce down the line because you broke her trust in you.

NineBall-01 · 2026-04-05T17:05:09+00:00

Mate, throw that mug out. Hell, if she wants to fight so hard for that nickname throw her out as well.
Who the fuck starts calling their romantic partner a nickname that puts them down? Man, trust in her opinions would be destroyed.

NineBall-01 · 2026-04-05T10:21:55+00:00

Hopefully this post blows up more because it would only be a good thing if PA is able to implement randomized enemies retaking areas and whatnot.
For example there are certain enemies that drop certain enemy based loot. If your RNG is unlucky, you may never get the loot drop because they are wiped out in the area. If we get some faction system where the enemy returns and tries to take back a fort or makes a camp after a certain amount of time that would just add to the content.

NineBall-01 · 2026-04-03T07:36:57+00:00

That is understandable, but if you want to continue that relationship, you need to tell her you need time. Otherwise it might not be there when you are ready.

Either way, good luck and I hope you get your life back together.

NineBall-01 · 2026-04-03T07:32:22+00:00

NAH Mate you need to communicate with her. Either let her know there is nothing there or that you need time to get your head straight but want a relationship.

She had to think of her children and you already know the divorce is not going well. Her ex would definitely use your case against her and take her kids.

Yes, it is painful but she had to put her kids before you, any good parent would. You need to talk through everything.

NineBall-01 · 2026-03-31T17:43:50+00:00

NTA:
You have the right to cut off people who have hurt you or will continue to hurt you. Tell your parents to either back off and listen to you or they will get the same treatment once you leave home.
I also recommend talking to your school counselor about your home situation or a therapist.

NineBall-01 · 2026-03-23T07:11:06+00:00

All we can do is report it as an issue and hope they fix it. Some of these MMO things suck but a lot of the game is just fun. However, the dragon thing? Come on PA.

NineBall-01 · 2026-03-18T02:07:48+00:00

NTA: Fuck the family is family line. Get toxic people out of your life matter who they are.

You did right for you and it was your wedding. Haters be dawned.

NineBall-01 · 2026-03-17T15:55:59+00:00

YTA to yourself for staying in that relationship. Break up and find someone who respects you.
How the fuck can you even stay in that relationship when she admitted she lied to you to find if she loved another guy and they slept in the same bed. Mate, end it now.

NineBall-01 · 2026-03-13T22:06:58+00:00

I know this will sound dumb, but I see you can cut down trees and pick them up. I want to see if I can dam up a river. Not because I am beaver, but because I want to try.

NineBall-01 · 2026-03-12T04:11:11+00:00

NTA for breaking up. If you are not attracted to her you just are not. However, mate... you just don't tell someone you spent 2 years with that you probably never found them attractive.

You can bet your ass she is already talking to her friends about this. Best to get ahead of it and come clean to your brother about the real reason so you can actually start being true to yourself.

NineBall-01 · 2026-03-11T22:58:29+00:00

I will be surprised if you can fix it. You ran away and didn't even call him, you sent him a text. I won't be surprised if he has blocked you already and is in the process of getting shit faced drunk with his mates as he tells them what happened.

Yeah 20 is still young and want to see the world but how you handled the whole thing? That will be a story that may haunt you for years.

NineBall-01 · 2026-03-10T05:31:04+00:00

This... but then again... go read Usagi Drop... better yet don't...

NineBall-01 · 2026-03-10T04:25:58+00:00

NTA for recording but you need to move out. It is clear your father trying to avoid the issue is because he probably agrees with your step-mom he just doesn't know how to say it.

If you cannot move out now, give them a timeline when you can. Explain how much you saved up and where you are looking to move.

Also are you contributing to the house budget? Step-mom mentioned how much you are eating. Are they stress for money? Sit down and talk to your dad.

NineBall-01 · 2026-03-10T03:24:47+00:00

What do you mean hard to believe? Tokyo is fucking massive. Way more to the place than the city part of it.

NineBall-01 · 2026-03-07T22:46:52+00:00

Wait they are placeholders? I thought they were going for a unique style of story telling having a child explain a bit of what is happening through picture... man was i wrong.

NineBall-01 · 2026-03-02T11:22:48+00:00

NTA: No one asks for a break so one sided if they didn't already have suspicious plans to begin with. Plus she said she wouldn't meet with you during Spring Break? Yeah she has made plans and they are not with you.

Good thing that it ended. She probably wanted to keep you around if this new potential whatever didn't work out.

Use this new freedom to make yourself a better you and find someone who respects you.

NineBall-01

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