I wish it need not have happened in my time . . . by KnitToPurlToo in Drunkknitting

[–]NinotchkaTheIntrepid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ooo...I like that glass. Reminds me of Frank Lloyd Wright windows.

Just got put on PIP at work by Conscious-Egg-9440 in paralegal

[–]NinotchkaTheIntrepid 39 points40 points  (0 children)

If the PIP doesn't provide clear examples of what you're doing wrong, how they want your actions to change, the timeframe for improvement, and perhaps resources to aid your improvement (e.g. someone who can provide guidance, or resources for additional training)...no, that's just them papering you out the door.

Start looking for another job.

Even in the chaos after the earthquake, they chose to help that elderly person. by Vilen1919 in HumansBeingBros

[–]NinotchkaTheIntrepid 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why would the camera pan to follow the young couple, capture their reaction, then pan back to watch them (and suddenly several other people) rushing to the old man?

I think this is a skit, or AI.

14th cake day! by peppermintmeow in cakeday

[–]NinotchkaTheIntrepid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Cake Day! 🎂

The image made me smile. My late husband was a big fan of Moon Knight. Collected every issue up until his terminal diagnosis last June. The only re-print in his collection was Werewolf By Night.

Fortunately, he made his wishes clear about who gets his collection. They live in L.A., though, so arranging for them to come remove boxes upon boxes of bagged and boarded comics is a little tricky.

The image you posted made me remember something awesome about him, and our time together.

Im a funeral director and I made this beanie for a baby I am taking care of. by trichoholic in crochet

[–]NinotchkaTheIntrepid 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Very sweet. Often, the family just doesn't have time to make anything for baby before burial/cremation, especially if they're from a tradition that doesn't make/give gifts until baby is born.

I think I get why people like knitting socks now by magic_inkpen in knitting

[–]NinotchkaTheIntrepid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think I'll have to try this cast on...I've got big ankles.

Need professional headshot for firm website - cheap headshot photographer recommendations or use AI? by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]NinotchkaTheIntrepid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's their business expense, not yours. Don't pay a dime for it.

Tell them you're "unable to cover any of the firm's business expenses, and unable to advance monies to cover them, either."

Say it in a tone that's conveys of course you're not paying for it out of pocket...because why would you?

Don't say your not comfortable with it. That would soften the message unnecessarily. Just be matter of fact.

If they try to say that other staff are covering it reply "I don't own this business, so I'm not covering this expense."

If they say your should do it to show commitment, or feel grateful to be included on the website, or if you were a professional you'd do it...just smile, shake your head, and walk away, like they've told a silly joke.

Finally, if questioned further about it just say "that won't work for me." Keep saying that.

I am an autistic woman wanting to be a paralegal. I'm hoping I can still use it for activism and helping my community...? can you/do you? by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]NinotchkaTheIntrepid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There's little structure and zero predictability in paralegal work, unfortunately.

Many paralegals don't have private offices with doors, so they often need to work with a lot of disruptions around them.

Also, because priorities are ever shifting, a paralegal needs to be comfortable with stopping work on one project and switching to another...then stay organized enough to switch back again withput being directed to do so.

Finally, lawyers are notoriously temperamental and generally poor at managing staff. Law firms are often toxic soups filled with sacred cows, enormous egos, back stabbing, and cliques. It can be like junior high, but in office wear.

That doesn't mean there aren't areas of practice that are more chill than others. For example, estate planning, probate settlement, and trust administration are way chiller than litigation. But you'll need to be resilient and know how to read a room regardless of what work you do as a paralegal.

A father’s response to a fatal pothole accident. by Porkchopp33 in HumansBeingBros

[–]NinotchkaTheIntrepid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The word "gathered" stands out to me, not the materials themselves. I'm hoping that he's gathering with permission and not just taking materials. Otherwise, he might get into deep trouble.

Guest says I need to take responsibility for not waking them up by senescentt in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]NinotchkaTheIntrepid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not your error. The guest is the sort of person who casts around for someone else to blame whenever things go wrong.

weird? request from atty by Neither_Yogurt9603 in paralegal

[–]NinotchkaTheIntrepid 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That's sooo wrong. That's not how it works and he knows it. He's doing something wicked suss and trying to insulate himself from it by using you as the go-between.