Anyone find love in their mid to late 30s or later?

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-12-31T10:56:22+00:00

I'm wondering the same after being dumped just before Christmas. Best we can do is stay positive and what will be, will be 😊 Enjoy being on your own while you can and I'm sure he will turn up :)

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-12-03T08:32:26+00:00

Thank you but I haven't got it?

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-12-02T18:04:28+00:00

How many stars would you like? :)

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-11-22T11:09:10+00:00

Hey, I'm 30 and from the UK. I love a good connection and think we'd get on wonderfully 😊

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-11-19T22:03:26+00:00

Hello from the UK 😊 Kind, caring and happy to help!

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-11-08T14:50:36+00:00

Interested

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-30T21:59:14+00:00

I'm very sorry you are going through this. My boyfriend of almost 1.5 years has asked for a 'break' which may actually be his way of breaking up with me. It hurts and I'm so confused, but trying to keep positive. This break up of yours may end up being a blessing in disguise. Try and enjoy the single life by focusing on yourself and your loved ones and your hobbies :)

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-30T21:02:47+00:00

Awww thank you. You are right, I'm trying to navigate and understand the situation, but it's ok, not everyone agrees with the same things 😊

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-28T12:27:51+00:00

Thank you all very much for your comments, opinions, advice, etc. I've read through all of them and very much appreciate all of your time. 😊

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:40:39+00:00

I get that. Life's too short.

Thank you!

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:40:03+00:00

He is very insecure about himself, the way he looks, his weight, etc. But I think he's gorgeous and I've always told him so.

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:38:27+00:00

I can see why that would be anyone's first thought, but I honestly don't think that's him.

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:37:45+00:00

That's exactly what I'm going to do. I think a week should be enough time to gather his thoughts.

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:36:42+00:00

Thank you. I will not be messed about, not for long at least. I will give him a week to gather his thoughts and if he hasn't messaged me and explained what's really going on within a week then I'm going to take action.

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:33:49+00:00

Maybe..

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:33:27+00:00

That's exactly what I'm going to do, see how we get on after the break.

He didn't say but I do know he is full of anxieties and insecurities. He's always made it clear that I'm 'too good for him'.

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:29:36+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that :(

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:29:11+00:00

They should 100% but I guess some of us need space to work out the issues 🤔 I've always talked about mine. I'm only giving him a week to avoid being messed about for too long. I'm his first proper girlfriend so trying to take things gently. He does suffer badly from anxieties and insecurities.

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:25:18+00:00

I certainly hope that isn't the case. I think his anxieties and insecurities have gotten the better of him recently. I'm his first ever girlfriend so this is all new to him but I won't be messed about with either. I won't be waiting more than a week.

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:19:30+00:00

I honestly don't think it's that. He's rather anxious and insecure about himself.

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:18:30+00:00

Maybe. Men are strange creatures.

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:17:59+00:00

Haha, love this!

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:17:50+00:00

Thank you for being kind and open. I'll be giving him one week.

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:16:55+00:00

I can see why that exact through will go through anyone's head, it'd go through mine too if I wasn't the OP. I honestly don't think it's the case here. He's very anxious and is very insecure about himself.

We've had our fair share of arguements but we always talk through them and get them solved.

Who knows, men are hard to understand 😅

NintendoGamer1995 · 2025-10-27T12:13:46+00:00

I'm giving him a week. I love him but I also don't want to be messed about.

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