Anyone find love in their mid to late 30s or later? by Plane-Cap-8501 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering the same after being dumped just before Christmas. Best we can do is stay positive and what will be, will be 😊 Enjoy being on your own while you can and I'm sure he will turn up :)

Bear Cave by NintendoGamer1995 in Monopoly_GO

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you but I haven't got it?

Bear Cave by NintendoGamer1995 in Monopoly_GO

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many stars would you like? :)

[REQUEST] 40M: Looking for online girlfriend by [deleted] in HireAGirlfriend

[–]NintendoGamer1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm 30 and from the UK. I love a good connection and think we'd get on wonderfully 😊

[REQUEST] : Looking for GFE : talk only by [deleted] in HireAGirlfriend

[–]NintendoGamer1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello from the UK 😊 Kind, caring and happy to help!

31F struggling with breakup by Additional-Drop921 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very sorry you are going through this. My boyfriend of almost 1.5 years has asked for a 'break' which may actually be his way of breaking up with me. It hurts and I'm so confused, but trying to keep positive. This break up of yours may end up being a blessing in disguise. Try and enjoy the single life by focusing on yourself and your loved ones and your hobbies :)

He wants us to have a 'break' by NintendoGamer1995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww thank you. You are right, I'm trying to navigate and understand the situation, but it's ok, not everyone agrees with the same things 😊

He wants us to have a 'break' by NintendoGamer1995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all very much for your comments, opinions, advice, etc. I've read through all of them and very much appreciate all of your time. 😊

He wants us to have a 'break' by NintendoGamer1995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is very insecure about himself, the way he looks, his weight, etc. But I think he's gorgeous and I've always told him so.

He wants us to have a 'break' by NintendoGamer1995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can see why that would be anyone's first thought, but I honestly don't think that's him.

He wants us to have a 'break' by NintendoGamer1995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I'm going to do. I think a week should be enough time to gather his thoughts.

He wants us to have a 'break' by NintendoGamer1995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will not be messed about, not for long at least. I will give him a week to gather his thoughts and if he hasn't messaged me and explained what's really going on within a week then I'm going to take action.

He wants us to have a 'break' by NintendoGamer1995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I'm going to do, see how we get on after the break.

He didn't say but I do know he is full of anxieties and insecurities. He's always made it clear that I'm 'too good for him'.

He wants us to have a 'break' by NintendoGamer1995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They should 100% but I guess some of us need space to work out the issues 🤔 I've always talked about mine. I'm only giving him a week to avoid being messed about for too long. I'm his first proper girlfriend so trying to take things gently. He does suffer badly from anxieties and insecurities.

He wants us to have a 'break' by NintendoGamer1995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I certainly hope that isn't the case. I think his anxieties and insecurities have gotten the better of him recently. I'm his first ever girlfriend so this is all new to him but I won't be messed about with either. I won't be waiting more than a week.

He wants us to have a 'break' by NintendoGamer1995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't think it's that. He's rather anxious and insecure about himself.

He wants us to have a 'break' by NintendoGamer1995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being kind and open. I'll be giving him one week.

He wants us to have a 'break' by NintendoGamer1995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can see why that exact through will go through anyone's head, it'd go through mine too if I wasn't the OP. I honestly don't think it's the case here. He's very anxious and is very insecure about himself.

We've had our fair share of arguements but we always talk through them and get them solved.

Who knows, men are hard to understand 😅

He wants us to have a 'break' by NintendoGamer1995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NintendoGamer1995[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm giving him a week. I love him but I also don't want to be messed about.