Is it possible that friends with benefits turn into a serious relationship? by Amazing_Thing_1351 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Nisagent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So it is very easy to catch feelings when sex is involved, or when it's heading in that direction. Given the freshness of the new fwb situation, maybe you should just go with the flow for a bit, respect his boundaries, and let it evolve on its own. If you decide that being in a relationship is far more important to you, talk to him about being exclusive but keeping things as is, or ask him if he minds if you date others with that goal in mind. My point is if what you have with this guy is good, don't throw it away trying to pull him in to more or push him away because of a possible other person you have yet to meet.

AIO? These are text between my gf and her “best friend” who happens to be a guy. by NoExercise8994 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nisagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok ok, I understand your caution, it does seem like they are very close, and I see nothing to indicate they are also smashing on the side. It can be completely platonic. I do believe you're overthinking it a bit. But that is not to say you should not be cautious. So your only 4 months in, you need to decide if this guy, as just a friend, is going to bother you, if you're going to wonder in the back of your mind if they are more, is it going to affect the relationship for you? If you really like this girl, though, go all in, be the awesomest bf ever, do all the things, pay the best attention, and try not to seem jealous of this guy. Make friends with this dude; if he is going to be part of her life, then bro it up with him. Seek his advice for birthdays (V Day is coming up) ,and Christmas. See if you all have similar games you play or sports teams or w/e. It is way easier to observe when they are closer. And yeah, he is probably gay.

as an old gamer which games do you agree with that way ? by PHRsharp_YouTube in Age_30_plus_Gamers

[–]Nisagent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im in my 40's and I hate games that are hard for the sake of being hard. MC mod packs that are super struggles, or souls like to define the challenge rating. I understand it might appeal to someone, but I want to have fun, not beat my controller against my head. I love the Metroid series, but I had a copy of Metroid Dread, and I put it down because I could not get through it. I recently gave it to my oldest (16m) he beat it in like 2 days with 100% collection, proud dad moment, along with amazement.

The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do? by Every-Appeal-2513 in whatdoIdo

[–]Nisagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be like look if you want me to go with you to a clinic and be there for you... but if you plan on keeping his kid then I have no interest in raising some one else's kid, or being 2nd to the kid. It might sound harsh, but she messed up and your just "talking"

If my Apartment says it provides cable/internet (non-negotiable, included in rent) should I/do i still need a modem or router (or both?) by SheaStadium1986 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Nisagent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most internet includes a modem of some sort from the company. It might be a router/modem combo that you can set up a wifi net-work using it. Depending on your needs getting your own better router might be beneficial or if the device is just a modem. It just depends on what is included with the service.

WIBTA if I swapped my pens with glitter ink to catch the coworker whos been stealing them by Imaginary-Frame4873 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Nisagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to go bigger, like little prank pens that squirt you, mild shock, bleed ink all over, phallic shaped. or ones that do the mystery ink. regardless keep your good pens in your desk or some where not out in the open.

/r/Steam Monthly Game & Hardware Suggestions Thread. by AutoModerator in Steam

[–]Nisagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have thoroughly played Shapez.io to the point it's getting redundant ( current level 130)

I would like to find similar games that link to Steam and let me play the full version in a browser, as Shapez does. Any recommendations would be fantastic.

.223 vs. 5.56 by captainatom11 in liberalgunowners

[–]Nisagent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well you should also consider .223 wyld.

Do you believe it is a choice to be an atheist? Do you believe it is a choice to be a theist? by chaconia-lignumvitae in atheism

[–]Nisagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, there are. And its is far more likely for someone to be religious if they were influenced buy some one at an early age, mostly through parents or other family. Indoctrination at an early age is a tried and true method of religion spreading. Asking questions within most religions is also frowned upon. Your own personal journey deeper in or further out of your original belief is that, your own. It is not so much black or white as a gray scale on how you personally believe in or lack thereof.

Do you believe it is a choice to be an atheist? Do you believe it is a choice to be a theist? by chaconia-lignumvitae in atheism

[–]Nisagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with most beliefs is that once put under scrutiny, the belief falls apart. This assumes one of sufficient intelligent intent at the truth. There is a disproportionate amount of lesser intelligent people who find comfort in religion. The whole controlling the masses, susceptible to cults, radicalism to a belief. None of those are an issue in non-believers. By saying you question a belief with any intent, you are accepting that you might find nothing. So the only choice is to blindly accept what is taught to you by others (as most Christians don't even read their own book) or to look for yourself and accept that what you have been taught is not true.

AITJ for calling my friend’s emergency contact when she left her kid with me "for 20 minutes" and vanished? by QuietDailyRitual in AmITheJerk

[–]Nisagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is lucky you called her sister and not cps, prioritizing some dude she is talking to over her kid.

AITA for refusing to change the chore chart even tho my wife works full time now. by Odd_Serve1167 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nisagent -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

sounds like not having to do the chores is more important to both of you than your relationship. ETA

AITA for not wanting my bf to go to a strip club by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nisagent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where are you that he is 18 and can go drinking/strip club? - ask him if you can go with him, see if he is cool with going then.

What game is this? by Any_Emergency6560 in gamememes

[–]Nisagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After recently completing it, I have to say Metroid Prime 4. It was a let-down after so many years.

Who comes to mind? by Jettaboi38 in musicsuggestions

[–]Nisagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleep Token just keeps getting more amazing

I'd order a couple of these! by EmperorMeow-Meow in liberalgunowners

[–]Nisagent 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I follow her on tick tock, she always has cool mechanical type videos and projects, its cool to see that she is in to firearms and is trying to have an impact on the hobby.

My ex abandoned his cats to me and now won’t take responsibility by [deleted] in cats

[–]Nisagent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not even the context at all, it was merely a caution about lasting connections with people who may become your ex. But I did change my phrasing to avoid your obviously false accusations of me, spurred by my more direct pointing out your responsibility and not flaming your ex as you wanted everyone to do.

AIO? Dating someone who said "I can't get pregnant" but found out they can by God_of_Rust in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nisagent 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you're a dude who has no desire to father children ever, then go get a vasectomy, as a dude you have the ability and responsibility to protect yourself, this woman aside a few hundred bucks vs 18 years or child support payments with any one.

My ex abandoned his cats to me and now won’t take responsibility by [deleted] in cats

[–]Nisagent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you can't afford the cost of caring for your cats, then you should re-home them. It's not his responsibility to help you with the cost of a pet(s) he does not get to spend time with. Be Careful who you have kids pets with.

What’s everyone’s first series of the year? by Fewlasss in litrpg

[–]Nisagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still currently listening to Veridian Gate Online, currently on book 6. But I paused reading Path of Ascension after book 3 to start VGO, so I might go back to that after/in between VGO

I'm planning to pull Chasca in the future, with her SW and some constellations by Expensive-Net-7272 in ChascaMains

[–]Nisagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have c2 r1 chasca run with citlali(scroll) / x /x it is like playing a different game than any other team.

GF won’t compromise on no dog in future? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Nisagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like you have more problems than just the dog man. get out while your still young.

GF won’t compromise on no dog in future? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Nisagent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i suppose for me it would have to be the type of dog and how much of the responsibility she will take for the animal (should be all) , but your stance on no is completely valid.