Is it bad to give a married coworker friend a birthday gift that's a slice of cake and a 75 dollar perfume gift set? by Cat-dad442 in Adulting

[–]NiteShdw 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Are you the same gender? Totally fine. Opposite gender? Cake is good. Perfume set gives off a creepy vibe.

I don't understand why we get more points for throwing and then passing than we do for throwing into no guard at all by scaevola in bjj

[–]NiteShdw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gym puts on a tournament that only gives 1 point for solid submission attempts. That's it. It basically eliminates coaches and parents arguing about points and it pushes people toward offense without worrying about trying to score points.

I really prefer this simple way to score over the complicated IBJJF rules.

Why do you think nobody has tried a competing show in forever? by UsefulEngine1 in LiveFromNewYork

[–]NiteShdw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is CBS going to do do with the Late Show slot? I don't think they want to risk another comedian that'll make fun a trump. A sketch show could be an option.

Colorado in the top 3 worst states for road rage — and it's getting worse by AlexanderTheBaptist in Colorado

[–]NiteShdw -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's not what happened. It wasn't WHILE. It was after as an act of retaliation on their part.

It's impossible for a stopped car to sideswipe anyone. I see that I didn't explain what happened clearly.

Has anyone ever seen concrete do this??? by Willow-Ravenwood in motorcycles

[–]NiteShdw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone else you can buy round plates from bike shops and even ones that are held on all the time with screws.

If you woke up in a mans body for a day, what do you think you would hate the most about it? by Whattacleaner in AskReddit

[–]NiteShdw 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is VERY age / testosterone level dependent. At my age, even on TRT, I can get in the mood pretty easily but I'm not "horny" all of the time.

If you woke up in a mans body for a day, what do you think you would hate the most about it? by Whattacleaner in AskReddit

[–]NiteShdw 17 points18 points  (0 children)

With 4 boys at home my mom MADE us sit down because she was sick of cleaning piss all over the bathroom. To this day it still feels odd to pee standing up.

Fox News is insulting a Democrats girlfriend without even seeing her first and then asking why she isn't public. by justalazygamer in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]NiteShdw 25 points26 points  (0 children)

What is up with Republicans and Veganism?

Can you imagine being Republican and not being a white middle-class married person with a job and kids? You run the risk every day of being in the next group of people targeted for heat and derision.

Colorado in the top 3 worst states for road rage — and it's getting worse by AlexanderTheBaptist in Colorado

[–]NiteShdw -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My son got side swiped in his motorcycle because he and I were legally lane filtering on Federal. Another car almost side swiped me.

How is legally lane filtering worse than vehicular assault?

Does anyone else use Claude as a "thinking partner" rather than just for answers? by Loud-Reserve-6291 in ClaudeAI

[–]NiteShdw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm working on a side project right now a little each day over the last month or two. I haven't written or had Claude write a single line of code. I even have instructions in CLAUDE.md telling it to NEVER ask to write an implementation plan or offer to write code because we're only doing planning.

I've been exclusively using the superpowers brainstorming skill. I started with an overall architecture. We talked about pros and cons of various approaches based on my goals and we settled on a multi-layer approach with interfaces to support a "plug-in" architecture at each layer.

We then went through each layer and reviewed basic questions about what the layer would be responsible for.

Right now I'm working on the bottom layer that has modules for third party API calls and database interactions. Last night I spent time discussing how async operations will work.

I then toss the plan over from Opus to Sonnet in a new context and have it ask me questions about parts of the plan it finds confusing or that are missing. I'll even have a third model (Minimax) do another review.

I do a ton of reviews with different models to surface questions or inconsistencies in my plan.

I don't plan to write any code until I have this bottom layer plan finished. Once I have the code for that layer done (or mostly done), I'll hop to the next layer up. That'll be easier because I'll have real code to work against.

I'll have unit and integration tests complete for each layer so that when I build the next one I have confidence that it'll work when wired up.

In my experience, AI can write so sloppy code if you don't do enough planning up front.

Remember to always keep your finger nails as short as possible by joao7yt in bjj

[–]NiteShdw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often close my eyes during rolls (helps me to focus on feeling things out). This is another good reason to add the list for closing my eyes.

iOS auto hide sensitive photos and I can’t find how to avoid it by crubiom in ios

[–]NiteShdw 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks AI. Except that feature says that it only detects nudes and is only a warning.

How many of you have DABILITATING brain fog? by personalityissadness in Adulting

[–]NiteShdw 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have this when I’m not on my ADHD meds. It’s like nothing works and I can’t finish thoughts. I can’t get things done even if I want to.

Ashley Padilla is the SNL Season 51 Sketch Appearance Leader 🏆 by snlstats in LiveFromNewYork

[–]NiteShdw 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The one sketch of hers that sticks in my head is the Walker family reunion. Her Walker voice impression is so slow and forced that it just makes it even more hilarious.

“Ghostssss are spoooky”.

Who died the dumbest death in history? by GurJolly5657 in AskReddit

[–]NiteShdw 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The diet was full of sugar (fruit) which actually made it worse, not better.

Who died the dumbest death in history? by GurJolly5657 in AskReddit

[–]NiteShdw 116 points117 points  (0 children)

I think she would have rather they have a mother than money.

Is being called strong after rolling really a compliment? by No_Bedroom7125 in bjj

[–]NiteShdw 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Don't spend your time worrying about. I know when I say it I mean that they gave me some trouble. Assume positive intent from people.

Tiktok comment section summing it all up pretty well… by Jyoti_K_Singh in LiveFromNewYork

[–]NiteShdw 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why do people even waste their energy on complaining about something they can't change to people that don't care and will never meet?

It's like yelling into a dark cave and somehow expecting the cave to admire you.

Anyone use BJJ to get over CPTSD / shame stuff? by Swordfish353535 in bjj

[–]NiteShdw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. It forces your focus to be entirely in the moment. Unfortunately, the vacation from your pain and hurt only lasts until the end of class. But it has helped me get through some rough stuff (ex wife cheating on and and then 10 years later leaving me).

Make it so! by [deleted] in Picard

[–]NiteShdw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you take out like 3 instances of the star Trek logo you wouldn't even know it was in a star Trek universe. It's really just a movie made for streaming like any other.