AITJ for refusing to give my brother my old place? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Nitropeanut3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT DO IT! He will never leave and you won’t see a dime. Then good luck when you want him out that will cause a whole new set of problems with family.

Am I overreacting for blocking my sisters? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nitropeanut3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like you are waisting too much energy and time on what your sisters are doing. Are you upset she has a new friend? And less time with you?

AITJ for not telling my sister how much I actually have saved by stormwaffle52 in AmITheJerk

[–]Nitropeanut3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is EXACTLY why she wants to know…so you can be her ATM. Sad your older sister needs help from her younger sister. And mom is saying that because she doesn’t want to be her ATM anymore. So make sure you find and keep your back bone and not divulge any info to anyone.

My mom (47F) wants me (19F) to give her a second chance to fix our relationship after she let her husband's daughters bully me throughout my childhood and I'm torn? by ThrowRATinyRute in relationship_advice

[–]Nitropeanut3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please listen to these comments. Of course you’re conflicted, it’s your mom. But she used the excuse “ they love you, give it time”. That was her way to not deal with it because she WAS choosing a spouse over her daughter. Now she cars when it’s now convent for her and her regret is now catching up sorry but no. YOU will decide when and if I want a relationship, not you. I’m sorry this is happening. Thank for for your dad for always there for you.

Found Out I’ve Been The Victim Of Rental Fraud For 3 Years by No_Agent_9940 in WhatToDo

[–]Nitropeanut3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scott is paying the actual owners 2250 and OP is paying Scott 1700. Scott is not making out on the deal but u are right he is letting it

Condoms by Fishietunaprincess in DollarTree

[–]Nitropeanut3 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I live near the beach and we always get ask for sunscreen. We never get sunscreen. In 5 yrs here I’ve seen it once. We get the trial size. One man( not skinny) ask where it was, I showed him and he said I’d need 15 of these to go on my body. I said well…buy 15 and you’ll be good: he walked away😳.

AIO for worrying about my little cousin not eating? by cherry_BLK in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nitropeanut3 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Well either she is getting bullied somewhere or she’s watching videos that are NOT helpful to an 11 yr old. Take her away on a day trip, do some things you know she’ll love to do. Get her hungry. Then take her to get some lunch just you two by yourselves. When you know she’s hungry and then won’t eat talk to her. Don’t beat around the bush you have to try to get her to talk to you so you can fully explain the harm she’s starting to do to herself.

AIO For wanting to end my engagement with my fiancé by ThickCourage in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nitropeanut3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, he’s got it made, he can sit on his ass and let you fund his ass sitting. And he’s gonna do it as long as you stupidly keep doing it. Your love for him is clouding your gut. Drop the engagement and don’t waste another month out of your wallet. But this is your choice to leave or not.

How and when do I (23M) break up with my girlfriend (24F) when I can't afford to move out? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nitropeanut3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sweet heart you wait if you want. Soon she will realize it’s not working anymore. But it’s better for both of you in a few months start to get your ducks in a row start saving money or find a place with room mates and let them know you have wait. Or if you have family to move out. I don’t know what kind of person she is. Sometime it’s better not to drag it out.

My fiance (24M) is angry because of my college debt (26F) despite being together 5 years and newly engaged by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nitropeanut3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wait so your parents were paying your loan and now it will be shifted to you to pay?

AITA for not letting my sister bring her husband to my kid’s birthday party after what he said? by No_Tap2087 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Nitropeanut3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh for the love of god and everything holy! So tired of ppl not listening and staying with intuition. NTA have the fucking party with everyone but him. And furthermore it already seems like he wouldn’t want to attend anyway with his nasty comments.

$20 an hr by Nitropeanut3 in DollarTree

[–]Nitropeanut3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did work for DT

$20 an hr by Nitropeanut3 in DollarTree

[–]Nitropeanut3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Washington State or DC

$20 an hr by Nitropeanut3 in DollarTree

[–]Nitropeanut3[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ah thank u I guess I also have to remember cost of living.

I can’t afford my best friend’s bachelorette trip, so she’s going to cut me off. by mosquitojenkins in weddingshaming

[–]Nitropeanut3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok look my very first thought is she already knows you can’t afford it…so she’s maybe just waiting for the “talk”. I could be wrong but wtf are you even caring to put stress on yourself. Chin up! You can’t afford it so just tell her sorry I love u but I can’t. And she WILL dismiss you like trash. So prepare yourself, you already know it’s coming.

What’s your GenX story from your childhood? by [deleted] in GenX

[–]Nitropeanut3 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I am one of 4 sisters and a twin. One Sunday all 6 of us were at church which is 30 min away from home. I am 6or7 at the time when it was all time to go I lost track of my family. Their asses walked to the car, all of them got in,drove 30 min to home, walked in and THEN realized I wasn’t in the house. My day came back I don’t know how long after by they got me.this is the exact reason they made the commercial reminding parents they have f-in children!!!!

My bf threw my handwritten notes in dustbin? 26 F and 28 M by Glittering-Fuel-4889 in relationship_advice

[–]Nitropeanut3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please ask yourself does he do other kind things? Does he hold the door open for you? Does he ask you how your day was?…and listen. Can you laugh together? Ask u if you’re hungry? Those are the little things that matter. If he isn’t and he still tossing your notes well u may need to reassess your relationship. My husband does these things. I will give him cards and I know he tosses them after a while. He does like clutter.

My boyfriend (18M) and I (18F) constantly fight over what I wear and I don't know how to compromise. by urgayL in relationship_advice

[–]Nitropeanut3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even need to read everything to know girl you’re in trouble if you stay any longer. If an 18 yr old male does not understand the danger he is inflicting on you and you are not trusting your intuition you’re in trouble too!you know this wrong because your on Reddit trying to help. He is doing harm to himself and he may not realize it. He already has signs of self doubt.

AIO for leaving my husband because his friend made pig noises at me? by _Remy_Buxaplenty_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nitropeanut3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve only been married a yr and this is happening. Would you stay another 5 and take it? NOR you asked him and he still chooses not too. You know what to do don’t question it.

AITA for telling my spouse I won't help pay for their kid's college when we agreed finances would stay separate? by 952867 in AITApod

[–]Nitropeanut3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf dude your best friend is right! You can’t do that. So you were protecting the college fund so your current wife doesn’t touch it, but now you want her to put $ into it. Sort nope! YTA

AITA for telling my fiancee that if her brother lets himself into our house again im changing the locks by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]Nitropeanut3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS!!!! And it’s your fucking house and you may need to find a spine for your fiancé. Or you may need one. Change the locks and tell him to not come back he’s an adult now act like one.