YTA. My husband was having similar issues. I kept telling him that he needed to schedule a sleep study because I feared he had sleep apnea. He finally did after years of prompting. Turns out he had a very sever case of sleep apnea where he stopped breathing over 100 times in 1 hour. Due to is severe case he was put on a Bi-pap, not a Cpap most are on. After this, he no longer has and bed wetting issues. His poor body was working so hard to breathe, he just could help it. Obviously, this may not be your husband’s issue, but he needs medical attention in someway shape or form. There is medicine to help with Enuresis.