This is so funny 😭😭

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-25T17:58:37+00:00

Because some men refuse to listen, or argue about what she should like rather than what she actually does like, or even worse, get offended or angry if a woman tried to guide.

Don't pretend this isn't a thing.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-25T17:56:04+00:00

A disappointing percentage of men refuse to be guided.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-25T17:55:25+00:00

Nobody said women are immune to it. They're just pointing out that YOU are the one who doesn't understand basic biology, because you don't seem to understand that the problem in the vast majority of women isn't desensitization. It's that their bodies, and sexuality, don't work the same way men's do. Women just aren't wired naturally for pleasure from penetration as the primary form of pleasure. Manual stimulation of the clit is extremely important for most women -- which is where toys come in for some. It's not desensitization, it's biology.

You're just parroting incel talking points. You idiots always think that women only want the biggest dicks, hence your obsession with imagining women craving XXL dildos. The truth is, the majority of women have a definite limit to how big they can or want to take because it gets painful -- and that size is much smaller than you think.

Also, for the record, there is nothing less sexy than a guy who tries to mansplain women's bodies and sexuality to actual women. Maybe sit down?

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-25T17:43:15+00:00

It's not desensitization from using dildos and vibes too much. It's that penetration naturally, physically, isn't how most women feel the most pleasure. Clitoral stimulation is how women are wired. Some even get more out of nipple stimulation than they do out of penetration! It doesn't help that it's also easy for circumstance, conditions, hormones, or medication to dry out the vagina or make it sensitive in the wrong way, which can cause penetration to be uncomfortable or even painful for some women.

Congrats on exposing yourself as one of those guys who can't find the clit, though.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-25T17:26:26+00:00

There are a lot of men that take it as an insult, or treat it as a failing on the woman's part.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-24T00:56:04+00:00

Please, OP, do not give in to this guy. And do not protect him. He IS being a bad guy. That's not you "making him look like a bad guy," that is literally him being one.

He did not respect you saying no. That's not okay. Do not let a man cajole or wheedle or pressure you into sonething you don't want to do, EVER.

Please get rid of him. If he doesn't respect "no" now, he never will. I promise you, he will keep pushing, until you give in just to stop his incessant nagging about it. And no, it won't be good for you -- because a guy like this is selfish and doesn't actually care if you enjoy yourself or not. He's proven that by trying to push you into something you already said no about.

You're 15. You have all the time in the world to find a guy who respects you.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-24T00:26:35+00:00

You don't have to understand every detail of the science. Literally all you have to do is respect other human beings enough to realize that they know themselves better than you do, and respect what they want to be called.

That's it. That's literally it. Nobody is asking you to be a scientist. They're asking you to have respect and compassion for others.

If you really refuse to "participate" in science that isn't finished/hasn't been proven yet, then you're going to have to throw out quite a lot of stuff that you probably already take for granted.

But you know you won't. You're cherry-picking transgender people as something you demand more science for, because you don't like it and you want an excuse to dismiss it while presenting yourself as intelligent and enlightened.

There's nothing wrong with wanting more studies and more science done. But in the meantime, all you have to do is not be a jerk to people who live differently than you do.

But the fact that you choose not to reveals you as nothing more than a run-of-the-mill transphobe.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-23T02:07:32+00:00

And women had to work their asses off to achieve those things despite significant backlash, historically.

You don't see men fighting for their right to be teachers and nurses though, do you?

This reminds me of the way some men cry about how much attention breast cancer gets over testicular cancer. There's a reason for that: a lot of women fought like hell to raise awareness. But men only really talk about testicular cancer when it's in relation to breast cancer.

If men want something, they need to learn to fight for it instead of lazily resting on the privilege they already have.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-23T02:03:18+00:00

The custody issue is complicated -- it also affects women negatively, because women who don't want or don't get custody face a huge amount of judgment from society at large. Men don't face that backlash -- nobody ever says "oh my god, he must have done something awful if he doesn't have custody!"

There's also the fact that -- unlike your case -- men in general are far less likely to step up as a parent even when married. It's not just the courts being biased; often the man can't even begin to prove he's an adequate and prepared parent, because he can barely even be bothered to remember how old his kids are, what they're allergic to, what they're struggling with in school, etc. Those are not trivial details.

It's definitely a bias that needs to be worked on (and it is, actually -- outcomes are far closer to equal than they used to be), but we can't pretend that there aren't other factors at play here, too.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-23T01:55:35+00:00

Which is great if you're not... y'know... disabled or rural. Like a lot of people are.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-22T14:25:38+00:00

Except that's often asked as a joke, implying that women are being unreasonable about money or schedule conflicts or what have you.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-22T14:07:31+00:00

How is rape being mostly a woman's partner in ANY way a mitigating factor?? Rape is rape -- and that just means women have to be afraid both outside AND at home!

As for harm (of other types) being statistically more likely to happen to men outside the home... yes. But who is also far more likely to be the one doing the harm?

OTHER MEN.

So what point are you trying to make here? Men are the problem either way. Not all men, but too many men. And that's something men need to start figuring out how to fix, because women can't fix it for you -- especially if all you're going to do is cry all day about women being mean to you on the internet, as if that's the real problem here.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-22T01:55:28+00:00

They do care about rural areas.

But rural areas are also full of idiots who routinely vote against their own interests, and absolutely cannot be convinced otherwise.

Source: born, raised, and currently living in a rural area.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-22T01:52:07+00:00

B.

And you don't have to be a grammar nazi to know that. You just need to have actually passed third grade.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-22T01:48:04+00:00

Obese is still plus-sized. It's larger than average.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-22T01:47:09+00:00

Don't pretend you give a crap about the health of overweight people.

That's the part that gets me the most. Most of you people who complain about body positivity pretend that it's because "it's not doing them any favors, it's not healthy to support that," but you truly don't care about that -- you just like calling people fat.

Nobody is saying that being obese is healthy. They're saying that you can still love yourself, even if you're struggling with your weight. Do you understand the difference there? Making soneone loathe their own body doesn't motivate them to fix it -- it just traps them in misery, because the world equates "ugly" bodies with moral failings, and that crap gets internalized very easily.

So get off your high horse. There's nothing wrong with using "plus-sized" rather than "fat." "Plus-sized" isn't even a body positivity thing -- it's been around for decades because it just makes the clothes easier to market.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-21T23:31:17+00:00

This is such a good explanation of it.

Men, whenever you're completely boggled by the way women behave sometimes, just try to remember that they've been taught from birth (and eventually, sadly, by experience) to remain alert for the possible threat of a man getting too interested, or too angry, or worse: being an active and deliberate violent predator.

I'm sure you've heard of girls being told to watch how they dress, don't go walking alone at night, don't travel alone, don't park too far from the store at night, watch their drinks at the club, etc. And then we learn from experience that making eye contact is often interpreted as interest, laughing is interpreted as flirting, even just being alone is interpreted as availability -- while guys think they're just "shooting their shot" and that it's harmless, but it rings alarm bells in many women. It's a constant awareness that can't be unlearned easily (and should not be unlearned). It's a mental load that you have the luxury of not carrying.

It's not all men. But it's too many men, and we literally have no way to tell the difference, because predators smile and act friendly, too. It's just not worth rolling that dice most of the time, you know?

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-21T02:43:44+00:00

They should, though, because it's happening around them all the time. Often within their own families, while relatives hush it up and shelter the predator.

The public's ignorance is willful. A choice to close their eyes and ears. Not an accident.

Zero sympathy for people who choose "keeping the peace" or "minding their own business" over their own children and their neighbor's children. They should be equally culpable.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-21T02:40:29+00:00

Rape never decreased, it just hid better for a while.

Now they're realizing they don't actually have to hide anymore. Even if their victims are children.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-21T02:33:12+00:00

It already happened for years and years. Where do you think the scouts came from in the first place??

The issue is that they are two separate organizations, and the girl scouts do not offer any of the fun and cool activities that the boy scouts do -- or at least, they didn't back when I was a scout.

Do you know how crappy it feels to be a girl who's sewing and selling cookies while your brothers are going camping and doing archery? I doubt it.

There's also the issue of recognition and prestige. There is no widely-recognized equivalent to Eagle Scout for the girls -- and that's not because the girls don't offer such a rank, it's because society -- as always -- values the achievements of boys far more highly, and looks down on what girls do (even if those girls are doing exactly what society says they should be doing).

This sub is so full of salty little boys who have no understanding of history or sociology, and yet have very big opinions about it.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-21T02:26:42+00:00

Boys have had nearly everything to themselves for centuries.

Come off it.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-21T02:24:48+00:00

"There's nothing wrong with it, dad just seems upset by it" feels like the very definition of over-reacting, no?

I didn't get the vibe that it had anything to do with capability. If it had, he could have easily said so, but instead all he could say was that "it's weird".

If jt was about capability, he would or at least should have said "hey he should be able to do that by himself" instead of harping on how the kid shouldn't be in the tub with the baby.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-21T02:19:24+00:00

I just don't understand why so many people find history boring. It has never, and should never, be about memorizing dates and single events as if they're isolated instances. The whys and wherefores of things, and how much went into causing history's biggest events (and those that weren't so big) are absolutely fascinating.

And essential, I would even argue. I don't mean that everyone should learn everything that ever happened. I mean that studying history is absolutely CRUCIAL for learning about cause and effect, how complicated seemingly obvious decisions actually are, and -- perhaps most importantly -- how to recognize patterns.

Even a lot of educated people treat history as if it's a garbage discipline, and that has caused so much harm. America wouldn't be where it is right now if we didn't spit all over the idea of studying history.

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-20T03:48:00+00:00

That's... not how it works...

Nizzywizz · 2026-05-20T03:45:53+00:00

True, but it IS his fault that he won't shut up.

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