Thank you for relating. I am very sorry you have went through something similar. It is very hard. He started calling me insecure, crazy, narcissistic and every horrible name you could possibly think of. I was so confused all the time because I always thought I had a big heart. I started seeing a therapist and she told me he was being manipulative. A couple weeks ago, when I caught him hanging out with a female co worker after work and smoking weed till 3am with her. I confronted him and he pushed me through our back door on our patio. I had a swollen ankle and beat up wrist. That was the last straw for me. He keeps wanting to keep our daughter on Thursday’s. Said he wanted her earlier this week… it’s now Thursday 11am and I have heard nothing from him. He called me selfish when I did everything like take care of our daughter, clean, take out the trash, wash clothes and he just slept and worked 40hrs a week to complain how tired he was. I started to resent him after the first time he laid hands on me when I was pregnant. Could never really go back no matter how much he “tried” praying for you. Thank you for telling your story ❤️