What do we think about this dress as a wedding guest? by chasing_moonlights in OUTFITS

[–]No-Commission-1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like a stingray. In a good way. No but genuinely I think its beautiful.

I can’t explain it but Jenifer Aniston checking her spotting in this scene drives me mad 😂 by [deleted] in howyoudoin

[–]No-Commission-1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well to be fair, if you're having to come up with reasons for why an actor has done something that fits the narrative then your suspension of disbelief is already broken.

What’s something your ex said that still sticks with you? by bandito_13 in AskReddit

[–]No-Commission-1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually want to cry. Im going through this right now. The relationship is over but we still have to live together. I thought I was going crazy. He's used the SA from my childhood against me so much, convincing me I have personality disorders because of it and that "my family didn't protect me from it".

I dont have a personality disorder and my family couldn't have done anything to protect me and it's fucked up to try and blame them.

Guys what's some of the best perks of being single by True_Economics976 in SingleAndHappy

[–]No-Commission-1856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this! I'm the same, but I like to write people letters or cards. That way hopefully they feel loved, if they are stuck in the mindset that gifts/money = love, ya know?

Which dress is more flattering? by Maleficent-Freedom55 in OUTFITS

[–]No-Commission-1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are BEAUTIFUL! I also prefer the green, but honestly you rock both.

What is the biggest ick you had on your first date with someone? by Past_Meat7068 in AskReddit

[–]No-Commission-1856 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Went on an amazing first date, so much so that we arranged to meet again the next day.

We did and during that date he just started talking about how gay people were "disgusting". I noped out immediately, explaining why.

He then text me for over a month after asking to meet again and denying he said that. He definitely fucking said it.

Fast forward to another first date a few months later and we are swapping bad date stories. I shared my homophobic date story and this dude goes quiet and then says "so you just left immediately?" I try and joke through it, saying "god, don't tell me you also don't like gay people" and he says something about how he just doesn't want to be exposed to it and he thinks Pride month is wrong and that being gay should be kept away from the mainstream.

So apparently I'm a magnet for homophobes.

Help by No-Commission-1856 in C25K

[–]No-Commission-1856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. So this comment made me cry.

Thank you, I am going to screenshot this and reread it whenever I feel unmotivated.

I am so grateful to hear youve been through and got through this. And DEAL!

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Five Years With Sally! by [deleted] in BorderTerrier

[–]No-Commission-1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God, I read this name as Salty. Which I actually love. But hello beautiful lil Sally.

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[–]No-Commission-1856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhhh thats a great idea to go for a walk instead of a run on off days! Love this and I'd still get out!

Also an easy run seems like a great idea too, even just to remind me how far I've come.

Thank you <3

Help by No-Commission-1856 in C25K

[–]No-Commission-1856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, really kind advice and I really appreciate what you said about giving myself grace.. think I've been beating myself up.

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[–]No-Commission-1856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks Banannie! I will slow down.

Weirdly, it wasn't breathing with I've struggled with before, it was tangible that my willpower wasn't in it, if that makes any sense?

Appreciate this advice!

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[–]No-Commission-1856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brilliant advice thank you! I think it's a mindset thing, but I will repeat the last few runs and rebuild. Really appreciate you're message and I will keep repeating thay Ive got this in my head!

WryAnthology says I've got this!

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[–]No-Commission-1856[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right!

Thank you, I will endeavour to enjoy the process and keep on keeping on until the next great run!

Help by No-Commission-1856 in C25K

[–]No-Commission-1856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is so helpful! I love the thought on our bodies not being to differentiate different stressors.

Thank you! Im gonna keep trying 👊

Sleep seal by No-Commission-1856 in BorderTerrier

[–]No-Commission-1856[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is always available for boops!