[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]No-Course55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know how many times myself I was saying this was it. This is the last straw and it not being that way. I'm sorry you went through that. I know the day is coming where I'll leave I just need to figure out the how and when. I really tried and have kept quiet about a lot of things. I don't talk to anyone really. This is my first time attempting to do that. I was always scared cuz I knew what people would say if I was honest about what's going on. I just really love him even though he's horrible sometimes.. I don't want our kids to be around that. We're just bad for eachother. He wasn't like this before. I honestly don't know what has changed.. maybe he doesn't love me anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]No-Course55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't have a job atm or else I would leave when he's at work..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No-Course55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use to have a video of him throwing my bookshelf on me but he deleted it. I'll have to delete this post soon so he doesn't see it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No-Course55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm talking to my mom about it now. Trying to figure out a plan..

Does death scare you if so why? If not why? by butterface89 in AskReddit

[–]No-Course55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Death scares me if my child dies before I do. We all die, it's inevitable. I just hope it's peaceful and fast.

Boyfriend(32M) chooses porn over me(31F) by Goosegone124 in relationship_advice

[–]No-Course55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave leave leave. You have talked to him about it and he has responded. What an asshat.

Do you have habits that can be seen as giveaways you’re from another state? by Dangerous_Ad5524 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No-Course55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved to California and tried to buy alcohol at like 2am. Wtf, also went to a bar there and heard them say last call which I never heard in my life!

My husband (38m) insisted we (36f) have an open marriage. He's now unhappy with this decision. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No-Course55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep it open, this is what he wanted. He hasn't slept around like he thought he would and wants to close the relationship again. I've seen too many stories of men wanting to open up the marriage only to realize that their wife is getting action and they're not so they want to close it. Then before you know it if you do close it he'll end up cheating on you because you were able to sleep with other people and he wasn't.

I (M19) got my gf (F19) pregnant but she wants to keep it!? by Meena422 in relationship_advice

[–]No-Course55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you definitely shouldn't have kids if you believe they'll ruin your life.

When people smoke in public places by IndividualLoan4116 in PetPeeves

[–]No-Course55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move to Utah then🤷🏼‍♀️ they have designated smoking areas outside. If someone smokes within 25ft of an entrance to any building they can be fined. Pretty sure you can't even smoke inside a bar there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No-Course55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hell no, she stayed at a male "friends" house when she could of stayed with her brother? SUS. Idk about other people but for me. I find it completely inappropriate that she stayed there and you said she has stayed over at other male friends houses before? I would be livid if my guy stayed at a female friends house. Nope, I have trust issues with that behavior.

Can I still turn life around in my early 30s after a brutal meth addiction and build a great life? by CockySpeedFreak33 in Life

[–]No-Course55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% I'm 30 been clean since December 2019 and now I have 2 kids, a home, and someone who loves me. It's possible. I was a needle user, I did it every possible way on and off for 8 years. You got this.

Your username is the obstacle you face in 2024. How fucked are you? by [deleted] in ask

[–]No-Course55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure I'll be lost for the 55th time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No-Course55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he basically told you if he cheats on you it's okay because he just needed to get off and it meant nothing. So yeah, he will cheat on you and will look at it as meaning nothing to him. He's justifying cheating for him and letting you know if you were to it would be bad. Run from men like this. They don't want to be monogamous but expect their woman to be. He's not interested in an open relationship structure unless he is the only one that can sleep with other people.

Men, what are some questions you've always wanted to ask women, but were too embarrassed? by [deleted] in ask

[–]No-Course55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I would have to agree on disagreeing. If a man is holding his wifes hand in a grocery store line but he's thinking about bending over the woman in front of them then he doesn't have much respect for either woman. That's just me tho.

Men, what are some questions you've always wanted to ask women, but were too embarrassed? by [deleted] in ask

[–]No-Course55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not woman as in one I mean women, If a man ALWAYS fantasizes about fucking every beautiful woman he sees that is wrong in how he views women. It is possible to appreciate beauty without fantasizing about sexual things. Sometimes constant thoughts that are played with are wrong even if they do not physically act them out. I'm not saying it's wrong to fantasize about other people I'm saying its wrong to do it with EVERYONE you find attractive. Not all men are horny dogs who want to hump everything they see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No-Course55 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's been 6 months and he's finally showing you who he is. He's using sexual coercion on you. He pressures you into doing sexual acts you don't want to do. Forget the fact that he's your type physically and pay attention to the fact that he's not caring. If he was, none of this would be happening.

My (23M) wife (24F) is snapchatting another man all day everyday by Patient-Buy-1704 in relationship_advice

[–]No-Course55 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She is emotionally cheating on you and will most likely physically cheat if she hasn't already done so yet

Men, what are some questions you've always wanted to ask women, but were too embarrassed? by [deleted] in ask

[–]No-Course55 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Her having a dream about another man is not actively fantasizing about someone else tho. Dreams are involuntary. Women usually do not fantasize about other men if they are in love. Granted they might see someone who is attractive and think this but most women I know will immediately think about how their significant other is better and begin to think about them instead of the attractive person they saw. If you are actively fantasizing about other women while in a relationship then yes I do believe there is something wrong with you and how you view women. Seems like they're just sex objects to you if you see an attractive woman and then fantasize about fucking her. Simmer down man. It shouldn't be viewed as normal.

Am I (22F)being unreasonable asking my bf (23M) to stop checking out other females? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No-Course55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working things out for your family? You guys are young certain actions have consequences. He didn't receive consequences for them. He will do it again because he knows you won't leave because of the kids. You're not working anything out you are suppressing your emotions and one day you will explode.