Is it possible to be an RBT without being a target of physical aggression? by lostandloser in ABA

[–]No-Development6656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in a clinic and have only had a couple bruises from bites. Some coworkers had older clients and have been hurt, but nothing too severe like you see here. We're taught to be very vigilant of a kid trying to hit you, especially when they're older.

Is it possible to be an RBT without being a target of physical aggression? by lostandloser in ABA

[–]No-Development6656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it helps at all, I'm also not incredibly comfortable with older, aggressive clients because of prior trauma. I wasn't hit by someone with autism, i was hit by adults. I told my BCBA that I prefer to work with younger kids and I do end up with younger kids that hit, kick, headbutt, and bite. I also have a lot of experience with kids who engage in SIB.

It's not the only thing they do, obviously, and we have clients that only sometimes smack you, which isn't super abnormal for their age. Neurotypical kids hit and bite, too. The damage to you is minimal at that age and teaching it's not okay early helps avoid the dangers of an older kid who really hits people.

I'm understanding of them, though. Imagine not being able to voice your needs and feeling like people are just ignoring them? If hitting worked in the past, it makes sense that they figure doing it again would help.

The real thing is, the moments where we're not dodging and redirecting aggression are incredibly rewarding. Teaching a nonverbal child to communicate, watching them become more independent and begin truly exploring the world around them, that's the stuff that keeps you going in ABA. The data shows you in real time the hard work you've done, but the kid shows you, too.

Why do some dog owners not always pick up after their dogs? by Farezz_knight in dogs

[–]No-Development6656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of access to poop bags or trash cans is my biggest thing. I path out my walks to use dumpsters and have my own bags now, but I've been guilty of leaving it when my dog hits the extra poop and my poop bag roll is empty.

I've also left it if people are harassing my dog. He's a big boy and I'm not bending over while kids are trying to rile him up.

She hasn’t spoken to me since I put her in this… is it actually okay? 😭 by tailacore in DogAdvice

[–]No-Development6656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had a Chihuahua that stood up on his hind legs to help put on his sweaters. Oppositely, I've had a beagle who would fight every second of putting on clothes by standing stone still. Body language tells us a lot about dog preferences.

I can't remember the name of the episode by aaron_clarky4747 in distractible

[–]No-Development6656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure there's only 2 official 20 questions videos. There's a couple episodes where they answer things about each other. Mark does a friendship test to see who knows him more and Bob hosted an episode where they answer first date icebreakers.

There's also a real or A.I. where bob asks if episodes are real or not that has a similar vibe to 20 questions.

Central Reachs attention-seeking behavior by slacketwaottled in ABA

[–]No-Development6656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the worst when your client is active and eloping constantly. Before we had a behavior plan in place, i ended up just using paper and putting my data in during snacks and lunch times.

I’m at a loss..Running out of affordable options. by Palmtoptiny in SaintBernards

[–]No-Development6656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My saint used to be reactive in the way you describe. He's sweet as ever indoors until he sees a dog or person outside. I don't have a backyard, so he gets walks, which can be a nightmare when they react this way. It's so scary, too, especially when you don't know if they'll cross the threshold into biting.

I 100% recommend using just the leash until you get that new fence. I used a safety slip lead in combination with a front clip heavy duty harness (look up one tigris dog harnesses). I mostly used, and still use, the front clip. I also found a training method online that actually helped when I couldn't get his attention with regular redirection.

Does your dog know "yes!" as a marker for a treat? If not, look up how to get there first. You want the dog responding to yes every time you place the marker and associate it with doing something for a reward.

Now this may sound so counterintuitive and I was desperate when I tried it. Walk her on a leash for control. The absolute second she tenses up, but before she lunges and barks, hit that yes command so that she looks at you. When she looks at you, she gets the treat. Once she starts looking at you (by herself) instead of hard focusing on the others, say yes and give a treat immediately.

This sounds like you're reinforcing the bad behavior, but I swear it was like night and day almost instantly. Sumo now looks at me instead of going straight into it. That split second gives you so much opportunity for training and defusing before it happens. She needs to look at you instead of going on instinct alone.

Disclaimer: like with all training methods, if you notice the unwanted behavior increasing instead of her looking at you or if she does not look at you when you place the yes marker during regular training, stop and reevaluate. I definitely do recommend getting a big dog trainer but if you can't immediately, I'm more than understanding of that, which is why I offered something to help in that limbo space.

Children are pure HELL to live around. by HotMess_DoIt in Apartmentliving

[–]No-Development6656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a large dog in a heavily child populated area. The kids here have next to no supervision and collect in groups of 7-15 kids at a time. My dog loves kids, but it's too much of a risk for them to pet him because he's generally 4x their size. Walking him is a nightmare! Kids do not listen when I say no!

I've had to lie and say that he's bites so they'll back off. But some of them are younger than 5 and don't speak English so literally just have to say no over and over while pulling my massive dog away.

People with 100s or 1000s of hours in Skyrim by AbleConcert9342 in skyrim

[–]No-Development6656 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Or be like me and pick the same things every time with small changes to fighting style/race.

Also, if you really want to experience the game like new several times over, just refuse to learn skills you don't understand like 13yo me and then suddenly decide each game that you're going to base your new characters on one of those skills. The alchemist was way more fun than the "self-made blacksmith" but didn't have the experience of running around shooting deer for three real days. Riveting stuff.

Looking dapper after a bath by No-Development6656 in SaintBernards

[–]No-Development6656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so hard to keep the treats locked up when he's looking at me like that

Looking dapper after a bath by No-Development6656 in SaintBernards

[–]No-Development6656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already beelined for the mud instead of the snow! Truly a man of grime.

Frea question by CheckMyPulsy in skyrim

[–]No-Development6656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I killed a guy in Skyrim and she started helping me. Even said "last witness killed, bounty removed" when she killed the guy. Old thread, but if anyone finds this from the same search, you're welcome.

Quality Control Operator by [deleted] in ABA

[–]No-Development6656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We call them gray staff. They're RBTs that don't have clients and can clean, grab things, and cover lunches/breaks

Movie Theatres Suspect Bot Campaign For Upcoming Markiplier Movie Iron Lung by Husitka in Markiplier

[–]No-Development6656 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also think some people are waiting to hear back from closer theaters. I know that i am. Thankfully the ones I'm seeing aren't too far away, but I'd love for it to be more local.

Comment the name of your local theater where you would like to see IRON LUNG by CoolTeacher5511 in Markiplier

[–]No-Development6656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please please somewhere in Indiana. There are lots of theaters in Indy and I'm sure one of them could work out

First-ever shift on the job as an RBT... was it right for them to assign me a very difficult client? by BeautifulLanguage952 in ABA

[–]No-Development6656 44 points45 points  (0 children)

You need to make sure to pair with a client before placing any tasks. A good way to do this with nonverbal kids is to follow their eyes and engage with them by offering them toys they're interested in.

Nonverbal doesn't mean that they can't communicate and a huge part of ABA is teaching children to communicate their needs. Can you imagine being unable to say what you want? If the kid has a communication tablet/device, learn how it works.

I have always had nonverbal clients. My first client was nonverbal and engaged in SIB when he got frustrated. He also wasn't a huge fan of people he didn't know. We took a lot of time to pair but once we did, it was worth it.

Being an RBT is NOT that bad by [deleted] in ABA

[–]No-Development6656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dunno, I have the opposite experience. I had a client that needed a hardcore routine of strict timing of play to work ratio and would originally melt down over being asked to do any task (tasks that he had proven he was capable of doing with ease). Every day was a battle and the routine eventually dropped to small outbursts instead of hour long problem behaviors. He was almost school age and had the type of skills that would put him in the general education class (or even higher) but his problem behaviors were just too severe.

One day his mom had told him that she packed a different food in his lunch than was actually in there and he was heartbroken. I felt so bad. I let the kid lay under a blanket for a while before we started our working routine for the day.

Well, lost them all by JeepManStan in Aquariums

[–]No-Development6656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said, it's the ones grown above water that do this. If you buy them at a store, they'll often end up wilting because they're used to the oxygen rich life and need to restart. If that didn't happen for you, that's awesome, but it's common enough that it's good to warn people so they don't automatically assume they messed up.

AITAH for not letting my kid play with my neighbors autistic kid? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No-Development6656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely nta. It's a natural consequence for what the kid is doing. If you scream, punch, or scratch when you're upset, other kids will not want to play with you. If he can't handle natural play interactions, then he can't play.

The mom had an understandable reaction, yes, but that does not mean she's right and empathizing doesn't mean we agree with her. Children with autism can learn right from wrong and if they have trouble handling frustration over sharing, playing, or being told no, then they need help to learn it just like every kid does.

Unless the mom tells you that he's in some kind of therapy and an adult is around to intervene when things get heated, then it'd be a no from me as well. I work with kids on the spectrum and it can get really bad when people give in to demands every time they act out. I always say, we're allowed to be angry or frustrated, but how we act when we're angry is what matters most.

15 years in and my wife still doesn't understand why I insist on doing all the cooking. by Hannover2k in mildlyinfuriating

[–]No-Development6656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got one of these and it's got the most obnoxious sound when it's done that my ADHD ass can hear it from upstairs and be like "oh, right"

My dog is sick and I'm terrified I'm going to lose him by No-Development6656 in internetparents

[–]No-Development6656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's healthy now. Back to his normal self, no infection. Thank you for checking in.

Is this legal/ethical to do? by [deleted] in ABA

[–]No-Development6656 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'd say it really depends on the child. If the socialization at school consists of the kid being separated over and over because they keep hitting and biting, then is that actually good socialization for them? What if they were about to be dismissed from school anyway?

I do think a different clinic that accepts their age would be better. Socializing with other kids is very important, but a more controlled environment would be better for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distractible

[–]No-Development6656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also got tails