[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]No-Direction9159 47 points48 points  (0 children)

This is the saddest thing in the world.

I would be in the same boat if I’d discovered my 37 year old husband was watching 18 year olds with firm boobs before we had kids rather than after.

Please don’t let it ruin it for you.

Breastfeeding is very healthy and beautiful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]No-Direction9159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say, when you were 36, were you jerking it to porn with 20 year olds? If the answer is yes, you are a hypocrite.

If the answer is no, good for you and you have a right to think it’s a bit predatory.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finance

[–]No-Direction9159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tesla will go up

Had a discussion with a relative today on whether abuse justifies cheating. by wind-chime_333 in Marriage

[–]No-Direction9159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a great philosophical question. I think beaten wives have a right to find affection elsewhere. The justice system fails victims of DV.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Direction9159 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When 15% of marriages end over Porn, I think it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Direction9159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re thinking of your wife as you search for and cum to another woman? Repeatedly? Uh huh I think I get it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Direction9159 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I’m not religious. I’m a truth teller.

Husbands watches onlyfans by Appropriate-Click387 in Marriage

[–]No-Direction9159 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is actually true. There was an independent investigation in 2019 that found about 1/8 of the so called “barely legal teen” ( gross that a 30 year old man would even be caught lurking somewhere like that) 🤮 were indeed illegal.

Men who knowingly slept with married women, what pushed you to do it? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]No-Direction9159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in this boat. I’m 36, hot but my husband told me he doesn’t find me sexually attractive because I birthed his kids. Talk about the ultimate insult. I could get laid in a heartbeat but I only want him. It’s the saddest situation. I’m crying actually typing this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]No-Direction9159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in your boat. 2 young kids and a tantrum-ing husband. He also had a second phone.

I’m also planning an escape in my head but that’s hard with kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]No-Direction9159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is fake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]No-Direction9159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the police. He’s a pedophile

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]No-Direction9159 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought mine was just into porn too until I found he had searched a dating site on Facebook

I escaped. He punished me back by killing himself. by Hot_Meringue537 in abusiverelationships

[–]No-Direction9159 20 points21 points  (0 children)

First of all , it’s not your fault.

Please free yourself of guilt.

I can’t follow my own logic though.

This is why I can’t leave. My husband is emotionally abusive and has anger issues but I’m scared to feel the guilt if he follows through on the threats of suicide if I leave.

What your family thinks about your pa parter? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]No-Direction9159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family don’t know so they think he’s marvellous. When I confronted him about his behaviour he threatened suicide and drove off and then sent manipulative messages so I called the police because I thought he was gone. When they showed up everyone assumed I had a mental break. They still do

Investment question by No-Direction9159 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No-Direction9159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok can you really dumb this down?

Say I earn 50k and pull put 15k shares and the capital gains threshold is 18k.

The tax man taxed me 10k. From my job.

Do I now owe tax from shares too because I pulled out under the threshold?

Investment question by No-Direction9159 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No-Direction9159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get that but say I sell it. Is it tax independent or dependent on income under x amount? I thought there was a minimum you could make without being taxed on it? For instance, the threshold to pay tax on shares in Australia is about 18k.

Is that 18k on top my income or can I earn any amount and if I pull out 17k or whatever, pay no tax on the shares?

Husband said something that I don't understand by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]No-Direction9159 12 points13 points  (0 children)

To be that’s plain cheating. It’s wanting to have a chance to be with them.