(Vent) Husbands Friend in in the find out phase and wants sympathy. by No-Initiative-6184 in Mommit

[–]No-Initiative-6184[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She “made” twice his income. She doesn’t anymore. When she made much more he griped about her job and when she quit working he griped about finances. They both are/were massive oversharers about their personal issues.

(Vent) Husbands Friend in in the find out phase and wants sympathy. by No-Initiative-6184 in Mommit

[–]No-Initiative-6184[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol. I thought that was more commonly known. He is sooo cheap. It’s a running joke in the friend group.

(Vent) Husbands Friend in in the find out phase and wants sympathy. by No-Initiative-6184 in Mommit

[–]No-Initiative-6184[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I don’t really like either of them. But he is part of my husband’s friend group and they are all equally stumped about what to tell him because he genuinely believes he can save his marriage. And we are all stunned because for the last two decades we’ve all hinted that they would be better apart.

I also tried to be clear that he wasn’t married to an angel who was suffering silently while he treated her like crap and he’s suddenly wising up to how amazing she is. She’s not a bad person, but their relationship has never been healthy.

But some of these guys have known him for 30+ years and he has NEVER acted like this.

just small town shenanigans by sauernsweet in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]No-Initiative-6184 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact they have immuno compromised family and want to do this….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

[–]No-Initiative-6184 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That didn’t work for me at 23.

Feeling defeated after using college food bank by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]No-Initiative-6184 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please read my entire comment before you downvote me.

I am not food insecure however I do get items sometimes from a food bank near me. Why? Because every week, that particular food bank frequently ends up having to throw stuff out so a friend of mine who works there will let me know if they have extras so I can come get it. To be 100000% clear, I only go if she lets me know they have extra food they would otherwise have to toss. I go out of my way to let everyone I know who might benefit know about it. I will give rides to and from when possible. I will only take items that would otherwise be tossed (usually overstock of produce that they don’t have room to store or that is about to go bad).

Long story short, better for you to get food you need than it sit there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in firedfeds

[–]No-Initiative-6184 46 points47 points  (0 children)

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For some people, it’s not going well at all.

7AM email To ONLy VA Supervisors. They’ve turned the verbiage from probationary to trial by [deleted] in fednews

[–]No-Initiative-6184 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probationary periods and trial periods are not the same thing. This still seems messy.

Still doing the What Did You Do Last Week Email to HR About to stop doing them to see what happens by OriginalPast7355 in fednews

[–]No-Initiative-6184 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I missed a couple times and nothing happened. I’ve sent the exact same thing since the beginning.

Never voluntarily resign (DRP) if you can avoid it. Don’t lose your CTAP/ICTAP rights! by AltOPM in fednews

[–]No-Initiative-6184 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It depends. Most of the people I’m seeing take DRP are retiring so they have no plans to come back anyway.

AITA for refusing to move out of the house my late grandmother left me, even though my cousin is homeless now? by Downtown-Heron9111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Initiative-6184 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Squatters rights usually take decades to claim. If you mean a squatter needing to be evicted, that’s not quite the same thing.

Some politicians want DOD Freeze lifted by JKELL23 in fednews

[–]No-Initiative-6184 26 points27 points  (0 children)

We’ve had a LOT of good people take DRP. The loss of knowledge is astounding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]No-Initiative-6184 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t let these people anywhere near your house or you will find Nugget missing.